I can speak from personal experience that some churches routinely defederate people for their extracurricular activities.
Social connections, online and off, are messy. You get to build the network you want to, with broad acceptance. Others get to build the networks they need for themselves.
These are not mutually exclusive.
>X/meta is a loud shitty warehouse but it's for everyone
Except the 60+% of people who don't use it, and are thereby very much disconnected.