Cum Vampire on Nostr: that's a big one. Jessica telling me I should not wear a low-cut top with a ...

that's a big one. Jessica telling me I should not wear a low-cut top with a peek-a-boo bra because she would feel uncomfortable, or telling me I shouldn't have a crotch crease because she would be embarrassed.

All of those controls on me are about you, not me.