True love is completely detached and
not attached in any sort of way.
Detached love is completely unconditional. What you should be asking the other person is: Are you following your deepest truth? If yes, then I will be satisfied because I want you to live your best life, whether I'm involved or not. Detached love is infinite and pure.
Attached "love" to me is based in fear. I'll love you only if you follow my rules. I'll love you depending on these conditions that I'm setting for you. It's coming from an insecurity within and a need to control.
Consider asking yourself: Why do I need to control something or someone I love? If I really love them, wouldn't I want them to be as happy as possible?
beau / Beau Winn
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