arihi :bocchi_arch: :naima_padoru: :blobcatchristmastree: :ibrs2: :ene: on Nostr: one should not do self-erasure and neither i am suggesting that one should. they ...

one should not do self-erasure and neither i am suggesting that one should. they should seek professional help and/or focus on productive things and self-improvement. one needs to realize that such urges are not to be acted upon and stop entertaining them in any capacity. people like to overestimate their self-control, entertaining evil "just a little bit" never ends well, it ends in a looping cycle that is harder to break out of. i refuse to write it up to neurodivergence, intentional indulgence in such thoughts is not normal at all for any individual.

i'm not a neuroscientist but if people do show addiction-like patterns in pornography consumption in general and not in cuddling then maybe they are not equivalent. we also do not have any in-setting possibilities of an alternate reality so people don't concern themselves too much with what-ifs. anyone finding eroguro fullfilling is genuinely concerning and disturbing to me. the underlying question is why - why would a sane individual find such ideas fulfilling? what kind of character traits would one have to find such a thing pleasant in any capacity?

i think most people would be concerned for their kids if they found out they have a pedophile in their living vicinity. they wouldn't be like "yeah, my neighbor is into lolicon, he might be fantasizing about it in real life, surely my kids will be safe around him". i don't see why such approach wouldn't be warranted for eroguro as well. giving an outlet is an acceptance of the practice, and getting off to guro or lolicon or rape should absolutely never be considered anywhere close to normal or accepted.