The hardest part of transition is that it opens your eyes to just how much of the world wants you to be something for them.
I thought it was just my gender people wanted to own, but it's really everything.
You can't…
You should…
You'll never…
You better…
You need to…
We all just inundate each our with our own demands on their lives, and it's all about us. How much of the demands and advice that people give me about my life, my marriage, my transition, my kids, my job …everything … how much of that is actually about them? So. Fucking. Much.