Sunanda on Nostr: However, I have myself been in an abusive relationship in my late teens/early 20s - ...

However, I have myself been in an abusive relationship in my late teens/early 20s - and I had resented friends pointing it out because it felt so judgy, like I was being punished for having a boyfriend by my friends (while also being punished by my then- boyfriend for being myself). So. How do I approach this? Send wisdom.