Li ~ Crystal System on Nostr: why are they treating your deadname as if its a headmate or something.. and then also ...

why are they treating your deadname as if its a headmate or something.. and then also simultaneously saying its the same person as you, but then referring to it as if its a different person with a different identity, specifically for the purposes of doing misgendering

like even the way you have handled this is like pretty good, you haven't been like 'revenge now' or whatever retribution bullshit, its literally just 'please leave me alone' or whatever, tbh

.. and like i can understand if someone distancing themselves from you or going no-contact or whatever causes you to feel somewhat isolated, but like what the f- is all this other shit