If some people perceive something in a way, that doesn't mean I believe that thing, I just put a definition that is clear. And I'm not supporting any kind of polylogism. Neither I'm trying to be rethoric.
What I said (probably indirectly) is that the states are exploiting the needs of people to have families and live in coherent societies by regulating what is possible and what isn't in relations between humans. And I think that's a form of genocide