Yeah that’s true. I honestly don’t think there is a 100XX list relay setup that accomplishes my goals. I won’t personally ever use an outbox client but I get that it becomes an issue for those that do.
I post my public notes to nostr.wine and cellar.nostr.wine along with ~10 free relays (plus NIP-65 relays for any tagged user). I want to receive DMs via inbox.nostr.wine. I want to read notes exclusively from nostr.wine and filter.nostr.wine. I want replies to go to any free relay our aggregator reads from (virtually all) but I don’t want to add that relay to my list as I don’t want my client to use it directly.
Is there a way to set this up with the relay lists without reading directly from the free relay(s) in Amethyst?
