4/5
Eventually, it occurred to me there was no point in driving 2 hours to visit her, it only stressed her out and nothing improved.
I stopped visiting and only called once a year, on her birthday.
I got Covid really bad in 2022 and nearly died. I called her more often to share my stress. We are each other's only family. She never remarried, I never married. But the calls were short and frequently unpleasant.
The last time I talked to her, last year, was after her apartment called me.
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