Urban Hermit on Nostr: Here's the kicker. I was adopted. My mother, during my adult life, wondered why I ...

Here's the kicker.

I was adopted.

My mother, during my adult life, wondered why I never tried to find my birth mother. She did, after all, more or less give up on raising me, only using my childhood as a way of getting food stamps and subsidized housing. (She was conservative = my husband divorced me, now the government is my husband, because women don't work.)

What am I going to do? Find a mother who gave me up and torture her by telling her how I was abused?