<oembed><type>rich</type><version>1.0</version><title>Kip Ashlynn wrote</title><author_name>Kip Ashlynn (npub1hs…hly9q)</author_name><author_url>https://nostr.now/npub1hspwpfkq7qddnj6h52c03muzgx79l7teeez99n57ys77g4m4vujs3hly9q</author_url><provider_name>njump</provider_name><provider_url>https://nostr.now</provider_url><html>Time for a lore drop! I used to be a model 💅&#xA;&#xA;My mom modelled in the 70s, and explicitly forbid me from doing it so I was late to the industry. I only started working when I turned 18, which is ancient compared to when they prefer girls to start.&#xA;&#xA;The modelling industry is ruthless, I fully support anyone with a beautiful daughter to prohibit them from getting into it young. No matter how skinny I got, agents always pointed out that my hips were huge and I needed to lose more. At the time I was 5&#39;11&#34; and only 120 lbs, looking back I had a real skeleton vibe but there was never any suppressing dat ass which the industry hated 🤣&#xA;&#xA;They loved to call me basic and commercial or catalog. If you ever want to maximally insult a model call her catalog. I had long blonde hair and a very All-American look when I started. They had me cut it all off into a short bob with bangs and dyed it dark brown. The hope was that with my cheekbones I could compete with the Eastern Europeans who were so en vogue at that time.&#xA;&#xA;I still was mainly considered commercial. I mostly got paid for catalog or promo events. I did get several fun gigs doing jewelry modeling which was just to show up in a plain black dress and get bedazzled for parties, I liked those jobs because I got paid in expensive jewelry.&#xA;&#xA;By the time I made it to NYC I was considered very old (I was 22). I shared a 400 sqft studio with a Turkish beauty queen and we furnished with creatively repurposed stuff we found dumpster diving. &#xA;&#xA;We did some runway events but very off brand ones never anything famous. Mostly at that point we just &#34;modelled&#34; for club promotions, that company would feed us dinner (it was considered faux pas to eat but we did anyways because we couldn&#39;t afford food otherwise) and bus us around town to dance in VIP sections with free booze. &#xA;&#xA;It was mostly about giving old rich dudes an opportunity to be seen around young beautiful people. As such, it got super gross. You know who doesn&#39;t make for good company? Coked up hungry 14 year old girls. But that&#39;s not an opinion gross old rich dudes share I guess &#xA;🤑🤮🤑&#xA;&#xA;When all these &#34;revelations&#34; about sex trafficking came out in recent years I was only confused and shocked that this hadn&#39;t been common knowledge already 😅 like yea, no shit? The modelling, music, and theater industry has been sex work since forever. All those &#34;classy&#34; ballerinas way back when? Whores. Actors or singers going back hundreds of years? Mmhmm. And no it&#39;s not a gender specific thing this goes for the guys too 🤣&#xA;&#xA;And like. Idk. I don&#39;t judge those who engaged in the sex work aspect, and it&#39;s always been confusing to me that the broader public does. Have we forgotten the 1958 award winning movie Gigi about a child raised to be a courtesan? This has always been our culture and we can change it but not by denying it 💅&#xA;&#xA;Don&#39;t let your daughters go into those industries until they have a very secure sense of self and are not shy about punching someone&#39;s testicles if need be 💯🤣😱</html></oembed>