<oembed><type>rich</type><version>1.0</version><title>HODL wrote</title><author_name>HODL (npub1rt…djtfs)</author_name><author_url>https://nostr.now/npub1rtlqca8r6auyaw5n5h3l5422dm4sry5dzfee4696fqe8s6qgudks7djtfs</author_url><provider_name>njump</provider_name><provider_url>https://nostr.now</provider_url><html>I sometimes mistake wanting someone to be strong for evidence that they can be. &#xA;&#xA;I invest in them early on hope/optimism and by the time the evidence is in that they will never grow. I’ve overcommitted to a structure where I end up carrying the both of us.&#xA;&#xA;This is an issue i’m working on correcting in myself. &#xA;&#xA;Posting publicly as a reminder.&#xA;</html></oembed>