<oembed><type>rich</type><version>1.0</version><title>Siphiwe wrote</title><author_name>Siphiwe (npub1ms…7qa0v)</author_name><author_url>https://nostr.now/npub1ms9ujlulcgtpqn2uzpvhplee9l5kjg8jgqhrwmgutg0n7xk43nqq07qa0v</author_url><provider_name>njump</provider_name><provider_url>https://nostr.now</provider_url><html>Raising my children to be free thinkers, who can challenge authority has been really important to me. &#xA;&#xA;The old-school, strict parent approach didn&#39;t work well for me, so I chose a different path. &#xA;&#xA;I explain the reasoning behind my rules so that they can challenge the reasoning if they disagree. If their argument is good and well thought out, I change my mind. &#xA;&#xA;I never soften reality for them. They know that there are beautiful people and some sociopaths, and we talk a lot about when to be a lamb and when to be a lion.&#xA;&#xA;This approach is inconvenient because they will challenge you a lot hahaha, but I am happy to pay the price.</html></oembed>