<oembed><type>rich</type><version>1.0</version><title>Liberthea Anadara  wrote</title><author_name>Liberthea Anadara  (npub1pm…32l93)</author_name><author_url>https://nostr.now/npub1pm2ka3734xnk8nzfl432az3ky007ympxv3prt2hy3glqlneyjj0sg32l93</author_url><provider_name>njump</provider_name><provider_url>https://nostr.now</provider_url><html>Y&#39;all… what if I&#39;m the one disturbing my own peace?!&#xA;&#xA;I&#39;m over here acting like the CEO of Spiritual Security, blocking bad energy left and right… meanwhile, I&#39;ve already convicted somebody of being toxic before they even said hello! 😂&#xA;&#xA;Now hold up… 🤔&#xA;&#xA;What if I assume they have bad intentions, act funny, they get defensive, and I&#39;m like, &#34;See! I knew it!&#34; 🤣&#xA;&#xA;But wait… did their behavior cause my reaction, or did my attitude help create theirs? 👀&#xA;&#xA;That&#39;s where discernment comes in!&#xA;&#xA;A boundary says, &#34;I decide what behavior I&#39;ll accept.&#34;&#xA;&#xA;An assumption says, &#34;I don&#39;t know your intentions, but I&#39;ve already decided what they are.&#34;&#xA;&#xA;Boundaries protect our peace. Assumptions can distort how we see people.&#xA;&#xA;And baby, the guest ain&#39;t even through the front door, and my thoughts done flipped the couch, broke the coffee table, and filed an insurance claim in their name! 🛋️💥📋🤣🤣&#xA;&#xA;Now who&#39;s paying for the damages?! 😂🔥&#xA;&#xA;— Liberthea Anadara &#xA;&#xA;</html></oembed>