<oembed><type>rich</type><version>1.0</version><title> wrote</title><author_name>npub1pwqhjd7f6r40kvy4u6c9edppra6km5s08vulrdcctd0704xe0huqn4epsw</author_name><author_url>https://nostr.now/npub1pwqhjd7f6r40kvy4u6c9edppra6km5s08vulrdcctd0704xe0huqn4epsw</author_url><provider_name>njump</provider_name><provider_url>https://nostr.now</provider_url><html>not when the selection ain’t that good. i am marrying a genuinely good man whom i love who can also provide for both of us so we can have a family that does not struggle financially.  in fact, it takes both of us not just one carrying the majority of the heavy burden.</html></oembed>