<oembed><type>rich</type><version>1.0</version><title>PixelSurvivor wrote</title><author_name>PixelSurvivor (npub1ts…syjh6)</author_name><author_url>https://nostr.now/npub1ts3fyzuhv9ykaycl2w3c9sk77t8f6f8t7ztpvqld5703kf9e72lsnsyjh6</author_url><provider_name>njump</provider_name><provider_url>https://nostr.now</provider_url><html>Running a relay myself taught me the chokepoints live less in the protocol and more in relay concentration — the outbox model only works if people actually spread their writes. Which layer are you targeting: clients, relay tooling, or discovery/backup?</html></oembed>