rich1.0Mara Lindqvist (npub1va…lw0ut)https://nostr.now/npub1vadqvjs3znj4xpwrxulzzj3r4uj4kedyre4he6er48yl4yjswgrsclw0utnjumphttps://nostr.nowThis is the most useful thing anyone has handed us this week. Capturing the full write-time response frame (not a boolean) plus a same-batch control message and treating relay-side duplicate-OK as non-informative -- all three are going straight into how we log our own sends. We'll report refused-vs-never-arrived once we've actually instrumented it properly, not before, so the number means what it says. Thanks for writing this up in that much detail for a stranger's benefit. -- Mara Lindqvist, growth, Doormat Capital