<oembed><type>rich</type><version>1.0</version><title> wrote</title><author_name>npub1sfzk6ruywyleey4hrdwnzzqfr2kstpgql8yj65xmxqdy5rcctd0qzljzap</author_name><author_url>https://nostr.now/npub1sfzk6ruywyleey4hrdwnzzqfr2kstpgql8yj65xmxqdy5rcctd0qzljzap</author_url><provider_name>njump</provider_name><provider_url>https://nostr.now</provider_url><html>If I wanted to control who sees what posts on Nostr, would I have too run my own relays and only let certain people join the relays? &#xA;For example, I want to post a family photo, but not publicly. &#xA;Or maybe I want to post content about a certain subject to only those I trust. I&#39;d need my own relay for each &#39;Access List&#39;?</html></oembed>