{"type":"rich","version":"1.0","title":"fiddlehodl@nostrplebs.com wrote","author_name":"fiddlehodl@nostrplebs.com (npub1kw…khx95)","author_url":"https://nostr.now/npub1kwk98e8t2p3t0um50e3luulxwyt5mtcxvc80w8w89fcuju0dmzfsgkhx95","provider_name":"njump","provider_url":"https://nostr.now","html":"I think there's some conflation happening here\nBeing comfortable in the world does not mean being under the illusion that it is always a safe place. \n(If it were my daughter walking naked and drunk into a party I would wonder where I had gone wrong. If she were raped at that party, I would want the rapist(s) to be prosecuted to the full extent of the law - but I would also wonder how I had failed to teach her basic agency and self preservation.)"}