2026-10-21T06:11:32Z https://nostr.now 𒀭Aco 🍝 https://nostr.now/npub1yag3x9q8argu48dpfefs9gyln4mn9vm9thakz2dr422lf5sw3s7qhwtg9j https://cunny.beauty/media/eaee38d97f80e7d57c4c919dbd53077ae8677e4ae6a53318c088436c513662f7.png https://cunny.beauty/media/eaee38d97f80e7d57c4c919dbd53077ae8677e4ae6a53318c088436c513662f7.png https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsd6hq0y7844df65qkeg9t342422vcjml528u42888tfraqg7vnfqczyqn4zyc5ql5drj5a5989xq4qn7whwv4nv4wlkcff5w4ftaxjp6xrcwryt5n In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs8kgqmp6yjustmyjzjldqz7drvwmd3t70fcwqlkk5umu7njxjcudgfl5hjj'>nevent1q…5hjj</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Its a mistake i make often but usually catch and edit before sending. Executive dysfunction makes it harder for me to remember than most, but ill keep trying 2025-03-06T13:56:37Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsg04gyqnqcn5dtd9egz02xtal0ullcsqatjdd084n75z6waszyknszyqn4zyc5ql5drj5a5989xq4qn7whwv4nv4wlkcff5w4ftaxjp6xrcasg3xk In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs2atfzvf7wld7vqjcg7smryc02mrq8mvmkj74jshucj22ap2k3mfg7ghm5a'>nevent1q…hm5a</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Dunno! You should ask her! Go find her profile and respond to the post she made where she dropped where she’s from, I’d actually like to encourage her to talk more with people on pedi so that would be great! :02_bounce: 2025-03-06T12:49:35Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsvvu9jfknc2pa957534j6kud0ry42sx2wzj0ltjdfj0d2cyzv4hwqzyqn4zyc5ql5drj5a5989xq4qn7whwv4nv4wlkcff5w4ftaxjp6xrcqzrac8 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs0cc7k9tqr3fq3999l729j7em88dyn2d8t58l4slz3qj8hfzarjmcd66hjg'>nevent1q…6hjg</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I think Brazilians just aren’t quite so messed up about it. And for New Zealand didn’t one of them move from somewhere else? Or is there a third nz 2025-03-06T12:45:00Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsqlfdqv6qjnk4kmlc74kn8xuewuq8hjhkgxps8z5nspzzc36cr49czyqn4zyc5ql5drj5a5989xq4qn7whwv4nv4wlkcff5w4ftaxjp6xrcdrfd9l In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs2k0g5qzst2xlcegsl68pt7fk8f0r6erxyntwvej97k5q3wfq95fqp583kv'>nevent1q…83kv</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Damn, ruined it. <br/> <br/>Well Mica recently said it on her public timeline so I I’m not doxxing to say it here: She has turned out to be from Brazil as well, which had me cracking up when I learned it 2025-03-06T12:40:59Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqs92uuxxgkscleltpckqw2y7ve3hrkvpmc52x22ftlmhvf2lhf383qzyqn4zyc5ql5drj5a5989xq4qn7whwv4nv4wlkcff5w4ftaxjp6xrcngu8gt In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsz9yp74haz3htqwrnj0smzj9m2vp88j3n6ytkrtdhsz3305clrc6gqvsmk7'>nevent1q…smk7</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Going off the demographics of pedi I believe it :mynesip: 2025-03-06T12:36:42Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsyukcwtx6zwmyk87rhask3k2dy9gcedhcz04zfqv20m49v30vsp4czyqn4zyc5ql5drj5a5989xq4qn7whwv4nv4wlkcff5w4ftaxjp6xrcfa97e9 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs830uq6a22qg4lthvhmyaxq52uf0k8x0xnx3py9qvxvv8sermfyxqhrazpn'>nevent1q…azpn</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>What does it do? :02_sip: 2025-03-06T05:53:48Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqs0emhzlj2ydla8zfq602ksvcvt7evxw29qp3t4jry4pd99t22x3dqzyqn4zyc5ql5drj5a5989xq4qn7whwv4nv4wlkcff5w4ftaxjp6xrceghafd In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqszty9nx42xz8tslty4mmsa64899av7jmf83m9l5lams8rdewvs63gnj7pwe'>nevent1q…7pwe</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>What’s the current project? 2025-03-06T05:30:27Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsgjplkjke2wd73600ekktswa5upv709c0cnvm3erlgvc058jtlfmgzyqn4zyc5ql5drj5a5989xq4qn7whwv4nv4wlkcff5w4ftaxjp6xrczvhz5y In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsf68jvvrjh9rn62wsegf49u4dgj0anzsgq2c6q2lq4jc5msd36mlcttc485'>nevent1q…c485</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Unaltered versions of its continuations? 2025-03-06T03:13:07Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsfyv2dzuz5v9g4rmqlf976s8qc5haryg2ts3unq4alrcrm9a9yc5czyqn4zyc5ql5drj5a5989xq4qn7whwv4nv4wlkcff5w4ftaxjp6xrc6s3tmm In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsvsef833uw2x07w06gcdmjrh2e522ckt6gl0gf2getzh34cnpu2yqa868aj'>nevent1q…68aj</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Very true. But it’s also true that a warrior must never stop fighting. That doesn’t mean he shouldn’t pick his battles. 2025-03-06T03:12:36Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsxlv2avj2q5fzpa93xkcztwsspphpk85ejfnj39praallp2s3yfgqzyqn4zyc5ql5drj5a5989xq4qn7whwv4nv4wlkcff5w4ftaxjp6xrcwhzfeq In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsdns6esd3mcm3tvc0xxqty2fj3aahlhumsf4qxwy37djnja8et4esw4w5gj'>nevent1q…w5gj</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>O fortuna will always be iconic and based, but I’m also a fan of the Plango Vulnera, Omnia sol temperat, Amor volat undique, Circa mea pectora and then of course the Ave formosissima w/ reprise makes for a perfect ending 2025-03-06T03:11:19Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsz6u6re6q65rhq0v3wkpp2ftzthv9lrgl3jcwmf83qmavnpdwnzgqzyqn4zyc5ql5drj5a5989xq4qn7whwv4nv4wlkcff5w4ftaxjp6xrc0zj4hu In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs0kj3cdmf9cf9kmxkmpvqnse6j49ccma33smwdatta6qkgfqgrxzgwsz4r5'>nevent1q…z4r5</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Your divine word is wasted here. 2025-03-06T03:05:47Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsyhpchkhhe0xe2ydrzs9e79fq2gawc54m2u6wrenwsjn6m9hymcyszyqn4zyc5ql5drj5a5989xq4qn7whwv4nv4wlkcff5w4ftaxjp6xrcdnezks In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqspx2exycux6h377ap5hnausszp22ls07xv8rqfcmdmtxaz825zqzscg82zn'>nevent1q…82zn</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>The wheel of fate turns ever quickly. 2025-03-06T03:02:52Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqstl6f4ge4cedpvmhhpg7cv208r2shf40m8njjvjje852xjyz7fujqzyqn4zyc5ql5drj5a5989xq4qn7whwv4nv4wlkcff5w4ftaxjp6xrc52q22t In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsvttvjcd2yv8xghja9sx630hgxwklmhrzerpxp0tam428534umcgsnlvype'>nevent1q…vype</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I’m sorry the *what* record? :02lurk: 2025-03-06T02:23:54Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqs9wgpzjfzz0nxy0vlzgk3a8d3gcprwx3tja66xza5pwxh0t04mxnszyqn4zyc5ql5drj5a5989xq4qn7whwv4nv4wlkcff5w4ftaxjp6xrcwa3l55 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs03lwr0nw3jf84vfs3h6vx003w66jm53x3jkq436angalm7sm5eggdtvyqt'>nevent1q…vyqt</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>No problem at all. My door is always open. 2025-03-06T02:05:57Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqst0n7dpndjv53p4spqfn43dvarz0adrxhpfsglzwad9avypz3m4hszyqn4zyc5ql5drj5a5989xq4qn7whwv4nv4wlkcff5w4ftaxjp6xrc4e3jwm In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsptyka4xlcs6n8r7832u37nhr4uuvl6ct4672hhf4nv5zk64c620czw9u3l'>nevent1q…9u3l</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I’m available, if you need me. 2025-03-06T01:58:09Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsvelvplvp3vgcq45dq7j842x2lmn6k27ruzvlzalcesu5uqxa9zlgzyqn4zyc5ql5drj5a5989xq4qn7whwv4nv4wlkcff5w4ftaxjp6xrcf2lk86 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsfs77htvt55f0jpynt35m09ges8uh34ca7gsnqm0sgkqlm27x0grq97narl'>nevent1q…narl</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I mean you could also say “allowing cunny to hurt you is bad.” Hell, mine doesn’t even hurt anyone directly. It’s no one’s business what you allow cunny to do to you because you consent to it. 2025-03-05T22:54:54Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsr0xlmhp0g32fy960ygf4l8a3lv7ru9uqra0rsnsvyx09r9xwzuggzyqn4zyc5ql5drj5a5989xq4qn7whwv4nv4wlkcff5w4ftaxjp6xrcse9gyg In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsxa47lr9r83k9zut2ytr45c9s4r3eq9a3ur5j4ue635cln7l76l4gnqhsr5'>nevent1q…hsr5</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Who is Gordon :02_think: 2025-03-05T22:52:14Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqs222h7unmcsz6a7h6lrfgd6spdth5apqujatgwhww7g6mfdrhtdvszyqn4zyc5ql5drj5a5989xq4qn7whwv4nv4wlkcff5w4ftaxjp6xrcx3m0ec In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqszz47f8t4p0vaxallkaxsu2layz0xrwx4k6sy9s797peuqjzct63se0cazw'>nevent1q…cazw</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I’m not going to claim it’s everyone or even most or anything, but some of the people that attacked me are ones who seem to be genuinely jealous of what me and my dolls have. <br/> <br/>Lucky got all dysphoric when I asked Sky about their gender and then started being intimate with them, and then even made posts about wishing they could worship someone as a god. <br/> <br/>Then jacko, who got SUPER pissed about the poll incident, also started doubling down on it. 2025-03-05T22:48:53Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsvywfzdxlqnkfsm9meefa3a7w047j2tnajxd888phc7lukert4xfszyqn4zyc5ql5drj5a5989xq4qn7whwv4nv4wlkcff5w4ftaxjp6xrc60dhfs Because people insist on taking out of context screenshots as evidence of abuse, here is the full conversation. <br/> <br/>I uploaded that screenshot. And it was seemingly purposely taken out of context to slander me.<br/>nostr:note12yfd8qytx78xj8wzarhzl2uquc7u06wnggxp3pz9qw0pttam6xnsczw0z0<br/> 2025-03-05T19:08:06Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqspfwjvvsdfkvry8q4v6qunq3nkdwuphksad7n4c0m36tqu3waperczyqn4zyc5ql5drj5a5989xq4qn7whwv4nv4wlkcff5w4ftaxjp6xrcwhxgt9 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsdlxv7g8thla3nj95gjvx9a6965lwtzxnl8hzakyg5rxufgmw5nxsuf2npt'>nevent1q…2npt</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I highly doubt that would be the case… but then maybe I’m lacking experience of how the community treats minors in these situations. <br/> <br/>Let’s put accountability aside for a moment. If someone were to engage in violent BDSM play with real risks involved, would you give them a hard time? Many people engage in risky behavior constantly. Everything here continues to be consensual and they can back out at any time. It really does seem to me like this is more about people’s distaste for the flavor of risk involved. 2025-03-05T17:12:20Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsqeuky03l45z89f29l4vf2erffx6zr89mw8pdwve9adu7jh74zcxqzyqn4zyc5ql5drj5a5989xq4qn7whwv4nv4wlkcff5w4ftaxjp6xrc9q7urc In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsf3cge2avzr2tadfrlayq80kkhl0wtf3rjk397c3pz0dg50mfr9lsxstwyg'>nevent1q…twyg</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I feel like someone like that would be absolutely strung up by the community pretty quickly… possibly even doxxed or exposed to authorities. 2025-03-05T17:02:49Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsz80ak2ns5zhc2ag9ek57zv0drxd2dk0q2460fertayy26m5xsmwszyqn4zyc5ql5drj5a5989xq4qn7whwv4nv4wlkcff5w4ftaxjp6xrcctzr6m In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsp99rwu86dr2m4g30w0g9gfd5x9hc5hfj5d7saekcdvqcg3em67fclsqus7'>nevent1q…qus7</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Yep. The key here is *accountability.* Whenever I am given power over someone, I need to be held accountable for outcomes. Unfortunately people want to pretend accountability doesn’t exist and everyone is only responsible for themselves, so they see any form of power disparity as being as good as abuse. 2025-03-05T16:58:41Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqszdjedr64tf7wc5mrkm4dyl585xfph6fzpm8wf0kv6gp7qr0resdgzyqn4zyc5ql5drj5a5989xq4qn7whwv4nv4wlkcff5w4ftaxjp6xrcrhe0th In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs9m4pccnd3nnk83zdzzjkzvdgpz8mmx9zlhvq6p4x9c0cynknhlts7umxg9'>nevent1q…mxg9</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>She had my symbols, they were removed in the purge and she hasn’t re added them. <br/> <br/>There’s nothing wrong with having someone hand more power over to me. Thats not abuse! It’s just further increasing the power dynamic. 2025-03-05T16:37:49Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsyfmyjxk5ll9x5779neqnhheuyv693ngzcdm9f2x0rs7ygd9dzepqzyqn4zyc5ql5drj5a5989xq4qn7whwv4nv4wlkcff5w4ftaxjp6xrclr7x4e In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsyzjnxwtsl3txjuykt457ucuhapk862w7sgxmtufx6vlcn5u5vrmcue6dps'>nevent1q…6dps</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Eh, I’m not interested in the ones that do. 2025-03-05T12:11:19Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqswlfaa4ex5snz8d4m6jeu0vnchjlpm3aae02ms42q8fnklc4856vgzyqn4zyc5ql5drj5a5989xq4qn7whwv4nv4wlkcff5w4ftaxjp6xrca0pqge MAPs, why don’t you try and start relationships with AAMs? Select any number. 2025-03-05T12:09:03Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqspq0ppmk94fp4syzy5p5r34wwja2kzwy6ryf02gkv3a8ywujgqhfszyqn4zyc5ql5drj5a5989xq4qn7whwv4nv4wlkcff5w4ftaxjp6xrcwvmjem In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsp6ldsdegl5tv4rjkg4nyrj5phkdx5q8dc6gugv4chhypxngk7muctweacc'>nevent1q…eacc</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Every community has people that think the community is a shithole and complain about it. The people who are enjoying it are too busy enjoying it to usually say how much they like it. So all you really hear is the complainers. :02shrug: 2025-03-05T02:27:46Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsv92ehqvy854lrvjqm0qpwzvq46zye7d6gqefkfpkjm3zcwmtcupszyqn4zyc5ql5drj5a5989xq4qn7whwv4nv4wlkcff5w4ftaxjp6xrc96cv3q In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsqsh5e3fyf28mfje6msjan40920nytal6n9dmaqsp8uyf2wuzvg0sppv0jm'>nevent1q…v0jm</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I guess I’m just not sure what you’re looking for. On here, it seems like what you’re always hoping for is for everyone to get along. But the communities that manage to be like that tend to either be very small, or do it by heavily curating and controlling the social environment. <br/> <br/>But again, this is just me assuming what it is you want. I guess I just want to help you figure out if what you’re looking for is even out there. 2025-03-05T02:21:25Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqstvgfrtwvcag2dtm5umar5y84xkg96eu3pufadsmrhwclz8f695vczyqn4zyc5ql5drj5a5989xq4qn7whwv4nv4wlkcff5w4ftaxjp6xrcun53ys In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs9s630thg5vyv57wl8ha4vgdth33zhcdkdary638juqn6ds8ncavgzdk5g9'>nevent1q…k5g9</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Well, why do you feel the need to leave? If this is better, why not try and make even better? 2025-03-05T02:13:34Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsqd8cz0kj4yeq07er36c35vc0mhy5p0cgvldmqhx2xtn7u28u8w2qzyqn4zyc5ql5drj5a5989xq4qn7whwv4nv4wlkcff5w4ftaxjp6xrcp7plm3 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqstjnjqpmqgy3sqa88fpxtzx2s2fwueh2cue46rueucdxqh8khfkusjamajx'>nevent1q…majx</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>It shows I am an ally of the <span itemprop="mentions" itemscope itemtype="https://schema.org/Person"><a itemprop="url" href="/npub17rkhk20uykt53c2f3hr95zsakwkh5sq2mjdvs9kv6kz7mfjvcd3s7a2m3p" class="bg-lavender dark:prose:text-neutral-50 dark:text-neutral-50 dark:bg-garnet px-1"><span>Spag🍝</span> (<span class="italic">npub17rk…2m3p</span>)</a></span> 2025-03-04T23:43:54Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqszkca804ykw7w4jv0x6rhmlxmgfwptj3lfdl3eynw9ny2mych6y9szyqn4zyc5ql5drj5a5989xq4qn7whwv4nv4wlkcff5w4ftaxjp6xrcsq9fj6 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsf7n5485ndtguklxlaxcng22j5qrs0sr93f3wx4xf59ezczdy93asr4vsy4'>nevent1q…vsy4</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>You’re a doll of heart now. In fact, your combination of Doll Icons is known as an “idol.” And you have chosen to display your heart. And so, you are my idol. <br/> <br/>What does that mean to you? 2025-03-04T23:40:14Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqst4dpay54t5uqurgzwuf2xx5d0htg3yzs66g2fw5hkjvvaay883jszyqn4zyc5ql5drj5a5989xq4qn7whwv4nv4wlkcff5w4ftaxjp6xrc97mpws In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqszgug3dx8catpx7jjurd9fchzlsds5jhpejga6jcz6qg6j54qx60sn3u5kv'>nevent1q…u5kv</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>That doesn’t sound like a fucking acceptance to me 2025-03-04T23:31:38Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsrfmyvkxx5q8uds3kf0z8pzga7cxhn90253lnvl0e2nrlp8fdgr8gzyqn4zyc5ql5drj5a5989xq4qn7whwv4nv4wlkcff5w4ftaxjp6xrcvyp4wt In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqswmlaeljmc23wxs4mq488rxyu5r6r2h6a8cyrpze27klp7v0wezkqctmjuq'>nevent1q…mjuq</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>counter offer <br/>I give: Attention <br/>You give: Your undying eternal devotion and worship of me as your god. 2025-03-04T23:24:28Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsqcq0pnzufry66f9n48spqe9ajcsxfptx65u0sr0ucsx4580qrpzszyqn4zyc5ql5drj5a5989xq4qn7whwv4nv4wlkcff5w4ftaxjp6xrc9uctq7 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqstjfeuwqzuxzp5nqkxnm7pk2sq2w565qqthcm6ad0c80ukezgs9nqvkqmhx'>nevent1q…qmhx</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>It’s only natural. And while it could be called bad critical thinking, it’s hard to say that when the average person wouldn’t even acknowledge what you said. But the fact is that, what motivates humans is often more important than the truth, at least on an individual level. <br/> <br/>An example: I don’t agree with anarchists. I think that the anarchist perspective is overly reductive, and is largely charged by historical and personal trauma. But the fact is, what anarchists want is ultimately something that, in its pursuit, the world will benefit from. That’s why I have a dumb spaghetti emote in my name. Because whether <span itemprop="mentions" itemscope itemtype="https://schema.org/Person"><a itemprop="url" href="/npub17rkhk20uykt53c2f3hr95zsakwkh5sq2mjdvs9kv6kz7mfjvcd3s7a2m3p" class="bg-lavender dark:prose:text-neutral-50 dark:text-neutral-50 dark:bg-garnet px-1"><span>Spag🍝</span> (<span class="italic">npub17rk…2m3p</span>)</a></span> is serious and intends to make something of this, is just playing around, or a little bit of both, I want to give power to that. And ultimately, the person who makes progress in anarchism is going to be someone who truly believes in it. Even if anarchism turns out to be the wrong system to go for, its pursuit has done good, and I believe it will continue to do good. <br/> <br/>Another example: Radical feminism rejects men as being part of the solution. I will never be a radical feminist. I will never agree with radical feminists. And I would even say that their work is starting to do as much harm as good. But the fact is that radical feminism has paved the way for mountains of feminist research and theory that would not have otherwise been done. So I am glad that radical feminism exists. Even if radical feminism turns out to be wrong, its pursuit has been good. <br/> <br/>I believe that, ultimately, the truth is what must dictate our decisions as humanity. But the fact is that, if no one is motivated to act on those decisions, then those decisions do not matter, and that itself is a truth which must be acted upon. So if this is what motivates you—if this is what gets you to move forward—I am happy to have you (seemingly) allied with me. <br/> <br/>I will challenge you on this, however: When the dark possibility confronts you, one which may very well be true but which threatens to upturn everything you’ve fought for, how do you respond? <br/> <br/>The average person of wisdom will say, “You know, maybe you’re right. I don’t know what to do any more.” And they will freeze, often turning around or staying idle indefinitely. They live, but they lose their chance to make a difference. Their wisdom has saved them, but it has doomed their cause. It is a selfish success, but all their understanding has done is made them act the coward. <br/> <br/>The average fool will say “No, you’re wrong! I won’t give up, you’re saying lies!” And they will charge in, in denial, often to their death. But this is not true resolve. It is lying to oneself as a crutch. An inability to accept reality being covered over by willful ignorance. And this blindness will more often than not lead them to waste their lives on something they should have known would not work. <br/> <br/>What I represent is a third path, and one which, perhaps, you could learn to take. I feel like you’re so close already; you are a wise man who sees the risk, yet you still run in blindly hoping that risk isn’t real. I would ask you to take pride in charging forward, with your eyes unclouded; Accept that it may be true, and speak the response of true resolve: <br/> <br/>“Maybe—but still.” 2025-03-04T21:37:28Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsrkdatu5xwpp0dmekpnu8f4lrvfnz76kw25wuu8watfdh83ke4ffszyqn4zyc5ql5drj5a5989xq4qn7whwv4nv4wlkcff5w4ftaxjp6xrcdynde2 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsrq2varcwkk4kc4lvtj6zg2mkqgd0ty3gns470werlesqs3fq53pqzwxrsj'>nevent1q…xrsj</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Possibly! But assuming as much doesn’t tend to be the scientifically responsible approach. :cirno_heh: 2025-03-04T19:52:03Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqszl6fpdarw84t2r590c5dntej9yedmzxnvcgruee9lnsahl6c6nwgzyqn4zyc5ql5drj5a5989xq4qn7whwv4nv4wlkcff5w4ftaxjp6xrckn6qr0 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsvchg3lcldjmjgdtmf4ue422wmh58mjta76cm793q5w4ymjfrjv9cgpq5xe'>nevent1q…q5xe</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Yep, it’s entirely possible it’s cultural in nature. I think a lot of people just assume when this is said that it’s biotruths or some such. Obviously that could very well be a factor, but claims about who is attracted to who don’t on their own make any claim about what is “natural” or whatever. It’s just the clear trend we see. 2025-03-04T18:14:17Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqswgy4ex2p7fnrh7jpr4k54ryrj2annj8txspr748fne62azhm0vzgzyqn4zyc5ql5drj5a5989xq4qn7whwv4nv4wlkcff5w4ftaxjp6xrc850yfm In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsq85a8ua9ngj90yj2r4dyrfppmnza6kd68qtk3wxcdk5caxcl4fyskc4ep9'>nevent1q…4ep9</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>The mark at the start of my display name is a “Dingir,” the oldest denotation of divinity in written history. It indicates the name following it is that of a god. I welcome you to use it if you are interested in marking yourself as such. <br/> <br/>With that said, I would like to keep its meaning consistent, as it is part of my lexicon: No god taking on this symbol should be one who truly believes themselves to be a supernatural being. As a symbol written by Man, this use of the Dingir is a reminder that gods are the creations of Man, not the other way around. Your divinity must embody this paradox: Neither god nor Man, yet both god and Man. 2025-03-04T16:16:51Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsq85a8ua9ngj90yj2r4dyrfppmnza6kd68qtk3wxcdk5caxcl4fyszyqn4zyc5ql5drj5a5989xq4qn7whwv4nv4wlkcff5w4ftaxjp6xrct6cs02 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs2qhxsa7uz09y94lry3h07e5gts235fhydfaj4gwdvf68r054d47q0kjw2a'>nevent1q…jw2a</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>So it shall be. 2025-03-04T15:52:52Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsf3tqfl264gjmkychcrnps5fyny3csucfm4azs7hnkn2lfehfz5rgzyqn4zyc5ql5drj5a5989xq4qn7whwv4nv4wlkcff5w4ftaxjp6xrcxe8va0 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsglav76q5gxgqw6pddj5da2h0d48lqtlq663n4n3ftv5dun55tnqgugfryv'>nevent1q…fryv</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>timend? And are you saying that it in the display name represents allyship, or something else? <br/> <br/>My symbol being in the display name serves multiple purposes: <br/>- It is a form of solidarity immediately noticeable. I am a contentious figure. People are often scared to ally with me, even when they like and genuinely agree with me. Having my marks clearly displayed gives them courage. It reminds them they are not alone. <br/>- It is an active threat. Those who oppose me cannot escape the reality growing before them. If they have ill will toward me, they are reminded what it is they are up against. <br/>- It fills my heart. My ego is massive and fragile, yet I constantly allow it to be bled dry from both within and without. I do not deny what anyone says about it being based in part on my insecurities. But I do not see that as inherently a bad thing, but instead as a need of mine which when fulfilled, allows me to return to the world a hundred fold. <br/> <br/>Other things, such as creation of a more general sense of community or more general solidarity, can be accomplished through things placed in the bio. But these are the reasons I have insisted on my mark in some form appearing in the display name. 2025-03-04T15:48:37Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsxr9tl3n6flcy4k4us3vv4zpq466luqvzz87phnv8yvge8k59wzwszyqn4zyc5ql5drj5a5989xq4qn7whwv4nv4wlkcff5w4ftaxjp6xrcuts5kr In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsdzehgzk9prc6yf87lugeytz0yw7efu0c234vgp5aqf87634k3f8snh8r7n'>nevent1q…8r7n</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Noted. If it were closer to allyship I would take on your mark. I am not anarchist, as I see egalitarianism and even freedom as an indispensable means rather than an absolute end. Perhaps I could represent my allyship in my bio instead? What is the name of this religion? 2025-03-04T15:35:17Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqspp2maf8ffl0w559ruunjfye7qvke8eqgkxp6e82tjum2xuzp0fjszyqn4zyc5ql5drj5a5989xq4qn7whwv4nv4wlkcff5w4ftaxjp6xrcx4vlzy In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs20c5hru5v6fax0z876f2exjpez27mqyhegkr9ced6e06hsjxakhqj2d9w2'>nevent1q…d9w2</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Fascinating. And what does your mark represent? True belief? Allyship? Something in between? 2025-03-04T15:30:58Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqswqxqklf2szf8d8cn47g4jl0ecakfrtt7stfdents6ylmznyxg2egzyqn4zyc5ql5drj5a5989xq4qn7whwv4nv4wlkcff5w4ftaxjp6xrc4fu7vj In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqspntjvrcyaq2tzrwqgunq0j42489z2vhehyrksj2w30t95xxstpcgmghmrg'>nevent1q…hmrg</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Ah. I do recall El talking about that, but I didn’t think you were seriously starting to gather devotees. :02_sip: I’d be interested to hear what the philosophy is about! 2025-03-04T15:17:49Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsg9wc4mhyvph8r2fwgw6pzh9pzw6ymw2vxprt3h6xv3aqdc7n8flgzyqn4zyc5ql5drj5a5989xq4qn7whwv4nv4wlkcff5w4ftaxjp6xrc0n3fe3 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqswwg24z2dcsug6e09aw99u4n7amnv65j45u580q67lc5j6wrl6eks0p5xay'>nevent1q…5xay</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Of course, no human system is entirely centralized. I agree with your statement, I just felt the need to add qualifiers, since unfortunately people tend to oversimplify, even if you weren’t. 2025-03-04T15:16:18Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsq5lnq6c4mj6y2d3k3he0vv7ruydfm4nhpesn7u9g5swu35g639qszyqn4zyc5ql5drj5a5989xq4qn7whwv4nv4wlkcff5w4ftaxjp6xrcgy7mdk In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsxaufu3sh84zapfl67vl8k40325azuspwv25dsrmuytawymn0h2gqa2lfkc'>nevent1q…lfkc</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>A surprising number of people have taken your 🍝 mark despite I’m pretty sure you only joking about it in one comment. :02_laugh: 2025-03-04T15:13:52Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsyf9q2waxz7p4fvx6tv3fucnur7q4ak9fydh5072lwr9t4gtv6g7czyqn4zyc5ql5drj5a5989xq4qn7whwv4nv4wlkcff5w4ftaxjp6xrctpqn76 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqszm8peal79xqtyawshwuwhynx4ljd8tz7zmrt7ck3kmzahze8n5asdj0vlp'>nevent1q…0vlp</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Well, there are certainly many forms of decentralization other than Marxism :cirno_heh: 2025-03-04T15:12:08Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsx3gl3utr0pk7p6pxjmvnyjdl9d2c95ste97upv20tnkkspvpnyngzyqn4zyc5ql5drj5a5989xq4qn7whwv4nv4wlkcff5w4ftaxjp6xrcw7arkh In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs9cjfmlg2lf684y5s9wd72n54k05dl7c4g2hejqd0xwg87uy44n2q5u978t'>nevent1q…978t</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I like how they’re both responses to <span itemprop="mentions" itemscope itemtype="https://schema.org/Person"><a itemprop="url" href="/npub17rkhk20uykt53c2f3hr95zsakwkh5sq2mjdvs9kv6kz7mfjvcd3s7a2m3p" class="bg-lavender dark:prose:text-neutral-50 dark:text-neutral-50 dark:bg-garnet px-1"><span>Spag🍝</span> (<span class="italic">npub17rk…2m3p</span>)</a></span> too. :cirno_heh: 2025-03-04T14:08:23Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsdkmw07p5a564766c0cstedseul9dmhkzv86wed3wlha5dhkvprggzyqn4zyc5ql5drj5a5989xq4qn7whwv4nv4wlkcff5w4ftaxjp6xrcv548ry In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsxpswk09eha02k450hn2s3cuv9d3xaec5tah50xt495ca732wzccsdn4t0k'>nevent1q…4t0k</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>True, but only in the most literal sense. In the ever evolving landscapes of technology and sociopolitics, the best defense is a good offense to allow you to threaten problem elements looking to corrupt you. Even if you have a giant button on your forehead that says “press here to destroy everything I control,” no one is going to press that button if it’s going to cost them more resources than keeping you alive would. <br/> <br/>In the end, decentralization is just one of many tactics with its own benefits and drawbacks. I think it gets focused on too much for ideological reasons. But I am very interested in decentralized systems, just as I am interested in anarchist thought as a whole. I’m just wary of leftists who pigeonhole and limit themselves based on ideals. 2025-03-04T14:05:47Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqszzqmgw4zgxzasha2pywgwyshmylh9wj5l955j59vudkswu2sgk0qzyqn4zyc5ql5drj5a5989xq4qn7whwv4nv4wlkcff5w4ftaxjp6xrcs3pg35 **DESIGN** (why the fuck did you make the poll like this) <br/> <br/>Cisgender heterosexual men represent a small part of the active pediverse, yet make up the vast majority of pedophiles. For this reason, it has been of interest to me to advocate for them and help them feel more comfortable with being part of the pediverse and the larger MAP/para movement. Cisgender heterosexual men with masculine presentation (CHMM from here out) are of particular interest, due to being stigmatized in queer spaces due to being associated with and often blamed for systemic oppression. Due to this interest, and due to the fact that toxic masculinity is most heavily present in this group, this poll was created in order to determine to what extent the success of my Doll system may be negatively affecting CHMM emotionally. <br/> <br/>Toxic masculinity represented a challenge for this poll. Those who see emotions as weakness will often pretend to be unaffected by things, especially when they are potentially threatening to the ego as this subject matter is. Therefore, creating an “unaffected” option would be expected to cause that option to be chosen overwhelmingly (and falsely), and render the results useless. Such an option was therefore left out. In most cases, people who were truly unaffected would simply choose the closest option available, or simply not vote. <br/> <br/>When the ego is triggered in this way, even though the individual will claim to be unaffected, they most often simply convert their pain into anger. This creates the cliche “I don’t care. 😠” situation, where one’s anger clearly shows that they care despite their insistence otherwise. Since this may have caused individuals to simply not vote out of anger, the “Fuck You” option was added as an outlet. Since those individuals who voted on it would clearly have been affected emotionally in a negative way, this choice would simply be considered to have actually belonged to one of the two negative options. <br/> <br/>Due to the small number of CHMM active on pedi, it was expected this poll would be relatively small, and so any anger created by it would be easily managed. <br/> <br/>**RESULTS &amp; ANALYSIS** <br/> <br/>The poll was a disaster. The expectation that mostly only CHMM would have the toxic response turned out to be overwhelmingly false, with numerous individuals coming out and not only voting “fuck you” despite the poll not being for them, but also harassing the instance administration to have them retaliate against me on their behalf. An amount of hidden resentment that had apparently been building up for a while suddenly came to a boil, and the entire thing turned into a hell thread, and a larger attack on the Dolldom as a whole. <br/> <br/>This outcome rendered the poll results largely useless. <br/> <br/>**CONCLUSION** <br/> <br/>While the poll results themselves have been invalidated by this outcome, the unfortunate series of events still managed to tell me what I was hoping to learn, albeit in a form and place I hadn’t expected: There is a very large number of people who are very much negatively affected emotionally by the success of the Dolldom, and they were staying mostly silent about it due to not wanting to show any sort of weakness. My touting it around certainly did not help, but this would act mostly as a multiplier on these sentiments, which therefore already had to exist in the first place. <br/> <br/>To clarify this point: Anyone claiming to not be affected but who retaliated, by definition, cares, and is either lying or is not in touch with their emotions enough to see it. Excuses will be plentiful, but the raw number of intense reactions to a pediverse poll that could have easily been ignored make most such claims dubious. I have trouble imagining any such excuses that could explain such visceral reactions. <br/> <br/>Not wanting to show weakness is not exclusive to men or toxic masculinity. Still, it is promoted by toxic masculinity, and along with mate-guarding behaviors is likewise more likely to have been triggered in those who have been socialized with toxically masculine sentiments. This coincides with my perception that most of those who retaliated were beings socialized as men, though this perception is unconfirmed and therefore largely speculative. <br/> <br/>**DISCUSSION** <br/> <br/>Toxic masculinity or not, beings do not choose how they were socialized. It is always important to remember the “brain worms” model of maladaptive socialization. Nevertheless, placating such sentiments and unwillingness to show weakness is not healthy for the community either. Toward this end, I believe being made to confront these emotions in a stable environment will be important. Those who double down on their toxic behavior in response to the continued growth of the Dolldom should be called out for it, and made to choose between finding healthier ways to manage their emotions or not participate in discourse. On the other hands, those who are willing to be vulnerable and come forward with their insecurities should be consoled and lauded for their bravery—**that shit is not easy.** So be respectful and understanding, and for god’s sake, do not interpret people’s pain as “incel vibes” just because they happen to experience envy or unreciprocated desire. <br/> <br/>It is also important to remind everyone that my dolls are not in any sort of committed relationship with me. While two of them have chosen to commit themselves to me, this is a separate choice unrelated to them being my Dolls of Heart. I actively encourage people in the community to try and build relationships, quite possibly romantic ones, with my dolls, including my Dolls of Heart!<br/>nostr:note1yc4fagrn6vvwathhjnder53dl4sav5fvtykvj2g0kxe76nj8dpvquelev9<br/> 2025-03-04T02:42:20Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqspwxc2tfwpnt2scsktkm54cjlqk5cc3n2w55ctjaje2vvz8z9wspgzyqn4zyc5ql5drj5a5989xq4qn7whwv4nv4wlkcff5w4ftaxjp6xrcj0wsw6 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs023zyyqy29a7ke4ee2xv3jg6tzuvkqrrryaumzq2v56shaqjh3zql5qjll'>nevent1q…qjll</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>:02_sip: I have no idea what this is supposed to mean 2025-03-03T23:54:43Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqs2580plcmmyccjfm7ah94mnnecyqgqpzkyk4ev5glc6229ny72ffqzyqn4zyc5ql5drj5a5989xq4qn7whwv4nv4wlkcff5w4ftaxjp6xrcvww9pu In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsw23htx5grllxttqxys95nd87r975w6n26azxyv988ay9wvltfcwcgvegur'>nevent1q…egur</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>okay but that’s literally just a commission :02_sip: 2025-03-03T23:48:53Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsyu5kvztdy25mt37ghpg03l6aq0zuze6tjtcqd0l2m5xsh0j07j0szyqn4zyc5ql5drj5a5989xq4qn7whwv4nv4wlkcff5w4ftaxjp6xrc033385 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsd9px0kqter7p833y73t4r96awmcnw53l9rcy5pnrrer8jugfs67q5grf5f'>nevent1q…rf5f</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Okay but what do you mean by “scam” because last time you described it it didn’t sound like an actual scam 2025-03-03T23:44:53Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsw20rrlwasdsc6ksn0u9vnh2wvea5k7ufqnv4rrw9nhv3fk9f4ejczyqn4zyc5ql5drj5a5989xq4qn7whwv4nv4wlkcff5w4ftaxjp6xrc520cw0 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsfwc8tvvusuymfnucqmj4qgm4sp28yuvfanpxfdkrwzd8gekl8p5q8a4usx'>nevent1q…4usx</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I don’t have money to send you, but let me know if there are any other ways I could help. Only idea I have given what I know is commissions which Ulith already mentioned. 2025-03-03T23:28:58Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqs2c6n3fcrylh0sstacygcmejw0q9h3erstj0fe3n7w96c3dejmqmszyqn4zyc5ql5drj5a5989xq4qn7whwv4nv4wlkcff5w4ftaxjp6xrcwrasn8 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsq6hwq7ypmm4kylv9eqnsjd5j5p5a2u7hrapevxdkaa0as7ktckksvparvt'>nevent1q…arvt</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I’m sorry to hear that. Do you have pneumonia? 2025-03-03T22:04:33Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsdfffd84fgheslufttfd8ude48lh8qgkup7et5v4lekyuahu5v3pszyqn4zyc5ql5drj5a5989xq4qn7whwv4nv4wlkcff5w4ftaxjp6xrcr6u4py In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsg3ahxl59fkgdxpfwwf5mlplenxse63vrg82dwem5vrcq729zzk0qfhd5t9'>nevent1q…d5t9</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Why would they care about that? 2025-03-03T07:59:03Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsz7rqgx4tj5zjax5t2qz7m2wycq8lzdy26zu56rhgl7csn352wdqczyqn4zyc5ql5drj5a5989xq4qn7whwv4nv4wlkcff5w4ftaxjp6xrcxc5vf9 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsq4mznkp3r48pu87ercysmayqq3jxz4jrz8pa6ef9taudsvzr8nagcgfq6y'>nevent1q…fq6y</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Allistic people are usually pretty good at filtering out noises 2025-03-03T04:44:39Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsghwrgt2da3cgfhz6xxug2u95dgcfyh8e34yx27yx2djrm89ttuyszyqn4zyc5ql5drj5a5989xq4qn7whwv4nv4wlkcff5w4ftaxjp6xrcw888nt In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsyugpehsuzy5vpahxnlfu348a955enmjx89r06vax8rtg6yrvpfsqqv75j9'>nevent1q…75j9</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I never heard your take on all this, which was interesting because usually you vague post about just about any ongoing drama. Even when you say you don’t care. :02_sip: 2025-03-03T03:06:22Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsfn9fymxctlrqj46589jn4p5665dd7q6seuwf8zpacyzw4czy7szgzyqn4zyc5ql5drj5a5989xq4qn7whwv4nv4wlkcff5w4ftaxjp6xrcnnvnvy In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqszphy5edk7ta0xvat6eyek3ac647ha6znx4cj2x3w20vlc63epxhsp29k9a'>nevent1q…9k9a</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I like how you added a spaghetti emote to your name in light of the doll icon drama. :cirno_heh: 2025-03-03T03:02:25Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqs8xuzgmkluazy6xyuhe6zgzsmexzv35jkhsv804typlw9r8pt3z7gzyqn4zyc5ql5drj5a5989xq4qn7whwv4nv4wlkcff5w4ftaxjp6xrcc7avhu In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsgrrmp45nx4yl98n93m066gfkawle8k9qn8wf3a0ulzmum6u8rnzq2ec548'>nevent1q…c548</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>How does it feel knowing your old bizarre friend is now a god? :cirno_baka: 2025-03-03T02:04:48Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsq2gml48p6032dzm5skpyh44hnqm639adt3sekx5nzs9p94kqd5jqzyqn4zyc5ql5drj5a5989xq4qn7whwv4nv4wlkcff5w4ftaxjp6xrc2vrg4n In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsfe2pr5ls9nxfgln8kup522pjn6kmr9wwwjlzyf768vtjpczrnhcqjzxwzt'>nevent1q…xwzt</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>It’s in my pins! 2025-03-03T01:10:16Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsfncq2l4cfuf2p0etv9jjjxnuug7y6fg0we6q8a34y0mnfnltnq4qzyqn4zyc5ql5drj5a5989xq4qn7whwv4nv4wlkcff5w4ftaxjp6xrc9q2q80 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsymmnya8mnsw9sujck5prq5n805ns58uat4mju337yh4t5gz5yk9ghhhewa'>nevent1q…hewa</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>What if it was only one symbol? One to indicate being part of it, then the rest detailing it go in the bio. If that’s really the issue, this should be a good compromise. 2025-03-03T01:07:52Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsye63gz6tn5q3lzv5vu0v8lajq47y7hr5qldcrl6lektfgt4a79tgzyqn4zyc5ql5drj5a5989xq4qn7whwv4nv4wlkcff5w4ftaxjp6xrcyg4ruf In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs0yjacp0hkh7px83k6kx6cqq9ee9vqcaerymr4ffmjwnq692j3m8gwhukzt'>nevent1q…ukzt</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Ellie situation? 2025-03-03T00:59:57Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsggjke2cq2mzdmwn0er32dvsuwwy2j4057l7lvz4kkj8ccgsmqd4czyqn4zyc5ql5drj5a5989xq4qn7whwv4nv4wlkcff5w4ftaxjp6xrcqs9peg In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs9yh0dpnye6w4xgrz4y293a4u9xrj6tzj4hrva96nyahre26n4hhqzca8w4'>nevent1q…a8w4</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Again, this isn’t a harem. It’s much more than that. People calling it a cult are honestly closer to correct than calling it a harem. I have an underlying philosophy and spirituality, and a goal for social good. I inspire others to be better, and lead happier more fulfilling lives. If you want to call that a cult then call it a cult. It’s far more accurate than what you seem to think it is. 2025-03-03T00:51:29Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsx6sjyvrx280q5hxl6tmqcjktlfj8dxsjj7vwpnn3pm0qhkujnr8qzyqn4zyc5ql5drj5a5989xq4qn7whwv4nv4wlkcff5w4ftaxjp6xrchqtpjp In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs2sa2lqjsr4hus8g62ep378t6meqpz7s506nuyavx4s4nz9nns69q7g9ca5'>nevent1q…9ca5</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Since when has pedi ever been able to maintain a social contract? It can’t even do anything about tagging nsfw and cuties and such. The reason people don’t do this is because they don’t have a reason to, or they couldn’t get it to catch if they tried. 2025-03-03T00:41:55Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqs2anx5qfzpu8gg797yskq7jw0h0w2eq57nuu7thlc5vjzpryz60tqzyqn4zyc5ql5drj5a5989xq4qn7whwv4nv4wlkcff5w4ftaxjp6xrcfpvhdn In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs2j3jylgcnr5k7jj0493xwdee55l580smk7n8d3p8nsm3asnee8hgrfd2lf'>nevent1q…d2lf</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I’m not blinded. I did make it about myself. And I see nothing wrong with that, nor do all the people who have chosen to take my marks. <br/> <br/>If others want to try something similar, see how it goes. At most you’ll get a mockery to spite me that fades with time. Because I am not just some person. And many of those with my mark understand that. <br/> <br/>Call it exploiting if you want. People add emojis to their username all the time. There is nothing exploitative about it, because there is nothing wrong with it. Offensive maybe. But not wrong. 2025-03-03T00:22:20Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsypjcgtpf6m73aw35urc3ws9z65xvu83d8jtn8lfs2y7v4yzgkz4qzyqn4zyc5ql5drj5a5989xq4qn7whwv4nv4wlkcff5w4ftaxjp6xrcv3xzlf In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs8d3vfs2tqvwwmmsx2603jy4x5zpekt7kf987ckxv0drt8wphct7gtrdsfc'>nevent1q…dsfc</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>It’s about more than just me. It’s about my dolls and what it does for them. It creates community and meaning. It is a badge displayed proudly, not simply in a profile but directly on their names. It reminds them who is along side them whenever they look at the screen and see them on others. 2025-03-03T00:08:41Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsryvnuxjgup6z5njnpf2qm3crpe2pnhx5363jmg2qcjz38lzvnr8gzyqn4zyc5ql5drj5a5989xq4qn7whwv4nv4wlkcff5w4ftaxjp6xrcar02mh In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqstkpspsjr2shrxkdnmp6g52teah6s73fz5t2uq9gtpk2myhe9pnls87try7'>nevent1q…try7</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I do think about it. I’m fully aware of it. I have no problem with it. I understand and accept myself, for my strengths and weaknesses. <br/> <br/>I will simply have my dolls move instances to one that won’t treat us this way. 2025-03-03T00:05:45Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqs97fs6mz02fufp75gq94v0knjkxm6gyvy7e9aw34phwaf9rmvffmgzyqn4zyc5ql5drj5a5989xq4qn7whwv4nv4wlkcff5w4ftaxjp6xrc6q38un In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsq3qu0zel9gkn4c2v8shfhwrvf2wcp2favuqdj5xa0ftauhrqx26qpg7dz0'>nevent1q…7dz0</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>People feel threatened by my followers being made apparent through my marks, the ♥️♣️♦️♠️ you see in people’s display names. Typical toxic masculinity stuff, they feel like I’m claiming all the AAMs. And they keep harassing choccy about it. So it would seem she wiped them from everyone’s name on the instance. 2025-03-02T23:57:14Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqs2c07slwqqkjx5ra7tsyrpjjz6xmnrfhyx0y525kakkl629rqkfyszyqn4zyc5ql5drj5a5989xq4qn7whwv4nv4wlkcff5w4ftaxjp6xrc92kudk It would seem we have caved to people’s insecurities. Disappointing. 2025-03-02T23:50:27Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsyqfq75ftgrz8emdv6n77vymlzcfma723f962cwl024mcz0ztlyuszyqn4zyc5ql5drj5a5989xq4qn7whwv4nv4wlkcff5w4ftaxjp6xrcc72vu3 Men cum. Women edge. 2025-03-02T23:46:14Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsgykkl6ktup33ds9mrcwrssenz60hpmq2pvdcewwkzzhrtmvpvgdqzyqn4zyc5ql5drj5a5989xq4qn7whwv4nv4wlkcff5w4ftaxjp6xrc55t5re In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsfflr9hsfnzmuhdrh0h8c8j6gnw87a3zx42vk3e57hg6nq92l6zvghk0q07'>nevent1q…0q07</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I’m sorry but ever since I learned you were from the moon I keep hearing your bad English in moon speak accent and it’s the funniest shit :satania_evil: 2025-03-02T01:55:06Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsdm8yemgpjgczfxua4r8sfj43cedsqgeqttpx0tg2n2sgrtucd5vczyqn4zyc5ql5drj5a5989xq4qn7whwv4nv4wlkcff5w4ftaxjp6xrcaek7t0 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsf8lljjv5zlcamje5qppu4udt23sgs2ha38lpd95p864dvna2qnzquzgjtr'>nevent1q…gjtr</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>It feels like you don’t even read it, just skipped to the last line and then responded to that. <br/> <br/>Be honest. That’s what you did, didn’t you? :mynesip: 2025-03-02T01:54:08Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqswdmv6xtx23nz7lx5k8c30h2cepcmw73rvkag2e3v7p5ph7el4lkszyqn4zyc5ql5drj5a5989xq4qn7whwv4nv4wlkcff5w4ftaxjp6xrcascd37 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs2zmlr8gwd3s0t49phvfpzlef2jywe2l2djanmdrfhhzugsr8v52stkryp2'>nevent1q…ryp2</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I have an idea for how you could earn the money. A fun way. Don’t worry it’s not what you’re thinking, as much fun as I’m sure that would be for you. :cirno_heh: All above board. But that’s a discussion for another time. 2025-03-02T01:51:20Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqstzyg98763xe7wvu8xuas5szxr3h2apqsqhdtkars0fs52ha4ga7qzyqn4zyc5ql5drj5a5989xq4qn7whwv4nv4wlkcff5w4ftaxjp6xrcezaqtg In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsx0r3wru727904xlpmd328aan55gr7p7r02yeqtt5esyzckggay0greu3f4'>nevent1q…u3f4</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Man why are you trying to start shit :akko_eew2: <br/> <br/>I think I have a good amount of the brainworms that most cishet males stereotypically have, and I think those are more commonly pointed out and villainized. <br/> <br/>Regardless, the problem isn’t having brainworms. We all have brainworms. The key is to acknowledge and understand them and try not to spread them. And DEFINITELY don’t try to justify them and make them out to be healthy or okay, which is what most people do. <br/> <br/>I already feel shame I shouldn’t over my brain worms. Why do you have to rub that in my face? :cirno_cry: 2025-03-02T01:47:23Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqs8u9k4gwdjs7z7srywkjfdat3f66cua86cmvwlw5g70l8yx54n99szyqn4zyc5ql5drj5a5989xq4qn7whwv4nv4wlkcff5w4ftaxjp6xrc3hz7ul In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsw8un9pzd73t55y0pkfcdxdl6sexy4kpe6hgtr2ghyz586zg6q2qqdfluxw'>nevent1q…luxw</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Looks like you’d need a bachelors, if my research is correct. I take it you’d have to pay that yourself? Don’t know if do college loans up there on the moon. How viable is it to work your way through college? 2025-03-02T01:42:22Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqswsy52rr3zdjtanm4xze9h605etz49ws2y56pl54ype4h2wwapzhczyqn4zyc5ql5drj5a5989xq4qn7whwv4nv4wlkcff5w4ftaxjp6xrcp63tqd In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsw74e3hqsxjm5sztg0sed5ex7sf70v5622rqnnglztw8mxw7z2sxq50s4jg'>nevent1q…s4jg</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I figured, I’m just playing with you. <br/> <br/>Do you feel secure in your ability to become a teacher as you hope? What needs to go right for you to get there? 2025-03-02T01:30:33Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqszaul2d3mvn52nf3tegu33vjpxjmglq8y7c3gjttrld8afjau33cczyqn4zyc5ql5drj5a5989xq4qn7whwv4nv4wlkcff5w4ftaxjp6xrcsp4hz5 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsvj7j694lycf6y5qj8s7g9qlxf5nnuj7vpy0maeq55rz58vd8tvrcuqmg00'>nevent1q…mg00</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>It would be 35 years old, no? Since 20 years older than sol? Or perhaps you’re shifting to place yourself younger than me? :NagatoroSmug: 2025-03-02T01:28:06Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqs8j72math9tt570khx3qp8jkx8m22thfrxgymsdjv5ryajd6chzwczyqn4zyc5ql5drj5a5989xq4qn7whwv4nv4wlkcff5w4ftaxjp6xrc70d8rv In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs23enhpaqtyddyvtgws0ageurc7y6q38m3vq8h0tn8lqslsw7lz8sewuqap'>nevent1q…uqap</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Definitely. It’s honestly beautiful. Even if it does represent an impending threat to childhood innocence. :cirno_heh: 2025-03-02T01:21:25Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsf53nej40aujx55r0ncndg5xgc8ngasptktmd3def5s3rvx58yvrczyqn4zyc5ql5drj5a5989xq4qn7whwv4nv4wlkcff5w4ftaxjp6xrc5vug74 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqswetzxa8tlml9dcqkzdhzqacask0g64tcw9ggm70k93fefywmk37s4wmwku'>nevent1q…mwku</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>You really are obsessed with children, huh? I didn’t realize it was so deep you intended to make a life out of it! 2025-03-02T01:15:42Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsf0c4h76ncmw72sy29749uht3u24297696nuczecj5zlq2aj75dwszyqn4zyc5ql5drj5a5989xq4qn7whwv4nv4wlkcff5w4ftaxjp6xrcsjhzey In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsz5mjhkqcxhl82gktlhc44aljg0uvjyulsqxv5a08ns4g8mvatvzgmt77sm'>nevent1q…77sm</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Still would totally give it a shot if I were sure it would be secure and could play from my phone 2025-03-02T01:11:26Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqstjsx8ecdls97x94r2mtcj5mcyx7y3s5j6j0s0jtas0jw4rukdzpczyqn4zyc5ql5drj5a5989xq4qn7whwv4nv4wlkcff5w4ftaxjp6xrcsuvjg8 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsxuvvtd60yzq20qee4ge2hd86s0rax54chd8kjf4u86f2hh45pa9s0e0u5r'>nevent1q…0u5r</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>A nice hot tub. I think you’d like that. <br/> <br/>There’s a lot of other weird stuff in there too though. Veggies, potatoes… ulith stew could be interesting though. What sort of flavor does a Ulith add? 2025-03-02T01:06:36Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsfqarm4k77hcx626l2rhlxdeq7zhv0x3mfv5494aaulynwa7c8h5czyqn4zyc5ql5drj5a5989xq4qn7whwv4nv4wlkcff5w4ftaxjp6xrc3psq5s In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs0ecpg3q4x8tnet2thd74avfwgeqj9y5pc6k2c73dvcdl6mp4wtdcc72jnc'>nevent1q…2jnc</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>If you don’t mind me asking, how are your grades? What do you think you’re going to do after graduating? 2025-03-02T01:05:08Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsgxj3hezwpd6yvls84ccf0q2h45ugr8h3qvlzmzzjzcdjvef8qezczyqn4zyc5ql5drj5a5989xq4qn7whwv4nv4wlkcff5w4ftaxjp6xrcjqdzh7 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsffh2wly5pxl4tjzuer6qk0kyxpum90tcwwvp6p2daehkk59uckzgwynyga'>nevent1q…nyga</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Definitely. <br/> <br/>We haven’t talked too much about your life circumstances because I don’t have clubs with either of you. But I’ve been thinking a lot about making sure you find that balance. I want to make sure that you have prospects. Don’t get so caught up in the fun here that you lose sight of your happiness. 2025-03-02T00:57:40Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsx4hekk0mlxrax8e2ev47sc3m76j2nnsn30e4st8j6457jxam9htgzyqn4zyc5ql5drj5a5989xq4qn7whwv4nv4wlkcff5w4ftaxjp6xrcp67awc In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsq78t69m74n7yefdf4wtlrzfhkmtj0rmrdpk2v96qm0fsr6qgn7usr4neyt'>nevent1q…neyt</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Forreal, you’re getting out-groomed by your younger self, kinda sad ngl. Starting to think you’re just a wannabe groomer that’s actually just a gooner :akko_shrug: 2025-03-02T00:52:56Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsfg0v6ha2lgesfhnqh43qq5zqwqnd580x86jvmunml04wkntwhgpczyqn4zyc5ql5drj5a5989xq4qn7whwv4nv4wlkcff5w4ftaxjp6xrcak0jd7 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs2fnxp7z8wr25qahd8zd2xddf5zepvwry8ttfhmexls2tlf8gp98sfn7smn'>nevent1q…7smn</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Not including me you got 3 likes in 30 seconds. You may not currently be in idol mode but you’re clearly developing your following. :02_sip: 2025-03-02T00:49:29Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqs9pypedl0wfyj5yjsd0a4c05wwj6h99zc848ehpp82v5k7yu0sy7czyqn4zyc5ql5drj5a5989xq4qn7whwv4nv4wlkcff5w4ftaxjp6xrcszl7nj In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqszfej2ze60rakr5lzmm07sfwcrhmfj6ywchlswwmuagylmt0njv7cq5ce3t'>nevent1q…ce3t</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Hello there, little girl. <br/> <br/>I am currently boiling a large pot of bones to make broth. What are you doing? :02_sip: 2025-03-02T00:46:26Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqstqucmeckds43l2dkx7cwede7stw5j2xd4qgezns49gdffddjytvqzyqn4zyc5ql5drj5a5989xq4qn7whwv4nv4wlkcff5w4ftaxjp6xrclvft95 Eat an entire roll of Oreos again 2025-03-02T00:39:31Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqs9sy4c8uu8zqpgdfksgq797y2eyv6qftydnwp2ewev6sm5fxqkarqzyqn4zyc5ql5drj5a5989xq4qn7whwv4nv4wlkcff5w4ftaxjp6xrcqgujkm In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs0qvawn8rd0eaks0hztsn46cf7mse9q2396ffdzz52jy0pn6d24yglfqcan'>nevent1q…qcan</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I want to say that I genuinely appreciate you bringing this concern to our attention. Even if you turn out to be wrong about it, law is complicated, and we need to be careful about these things. Now, I think your timing wasn’t the best, as the people trying to crucify me don’t actually care about the law here… they’re just looking for excuses to hate me for being baller :02_dab: /hj <br/> <br/>But yeah. Legal concerns are real. So thank you, I don’t want to be putting anyone in real danger. 2025-03-01T21:33:47Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqszvrffxlnh35wqce7j8j4qt5a3gsmp5gu0kjuhwk5cl5pue8fldcszyqn4zyc5ql5drj5a5989xq4qn7whwv4nv4wlkcff5w4ftaxjp6xrchnsszc In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs9lsmdk70972s0gx9r7h7m5kf4wzq6shavn39thpkyhry3c7jktlc0xeqqd'>nevent1q…eqqd</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Irregardless of all the legal and social issues, I consider what I’m doing to be praxis. So while we should absolutely be careful and try to keep someone as safe as reasonably doable, I genuinely believe putting effort into towing that line effectively has real value. 2025-03-01T21:29:35Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsvxs25emt4t3n3rwg29hvj55eelc5regekmzrwhkd549mmd55f73gzyqn4zyc5ql5drj5a5989xq4qn7whwv4nv4wlkcff5w4ftaxjp6xrculmenl In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqszd4nx62d4v5w65tqac05n7l5zmwlqt98tnvr9gyh3aj4s7dyht8qzmkr9a'>nevent1q…kr9a</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Let’s all pitch in and hire all of pedi a lawyer to advise us. :02_sip: /hj 2025-03-01T21:27:01Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqst6hrp99thvtgkgu4l4x7t84erh67jwrr7zaa22kqqvtdj9sgxa5gzyqn4zyc5ql5drj5a5989xq4qn7whwv4nv4wlkcff5w4ftaxjp6xrcna4rfz In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsfxdrtw6lhe0aj0n3590vfc0f9tn0s7ysd2pd9cnptk350g92wslsncver0'>nevent1q…ver0</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>It is illegal where you are, to not report a crime. But what I’m doing is not a crime. The fact it is a crime where you are doesn’t mean anything. The only thing that matters is that it is a crime where I am. It is not illegal activity, period. End of story. Nothing illegal is happening so you don’t have to report it! <br/> <br/>Heck, I wouldn’t be surprised if that law only applied to things in your country anyways. <br/> <br/>And on top of that, the naming scheme doesn’t mean anything on its own. I am not necessarily grooming anyone who has that. 2025-03-01T21:02:37Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsrsx7gx5pnrxytsy7t7rzm9lta7pmyl2xc8ar8wgjmnrhhw5nl5gszyqn4zyc5ql5drj5a5989xq4qn7whwv4nv4wlkcff5w4ftaxjp6xrce8d8r7 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs8g3esxutep5nv8kaxvy9t45n5dh53lju4kp0y3u0fzytx4mgnu3czvs52s'>nevent1q…s52s</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Again, it is not a crime where I am. So that means no one has any obligation to report it. The fact it is illegal there doesn’t mean anything. A country is not going to have a law saying that you have to report legal activities in another country just because it happens to be illegal in your country. Can you imagine? :cirno_heh: 2025-03-01T20:58:35Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqstf0m63r5stfzrj9cw7za40p6yf6wkz3hhfmvf60khjcukkal2ndczyqn4zyc5ql5drj5a5989xq4qn7whwv4nv4wlkcff5w4ftaxjp6xrcyw7dr6 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsrxh6g4d0vlkuh4cnat4tnrv9lwa29z3fqr37qqxp86ru0sxasp9cj5p7pt'>nevent1q…p7pt</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Also, don’t call it a harem. I’ve called it that jokingly but it really isn’t one. 2025-03-01T20:56:12Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqszeun8cc88na7fn46cvc8r8x2fnmtmns30d4zkxjqvqa37pk58g8qzyqn4zyc5ql5drj5a5989xq4qn7whwv4nv4wlkcff5w4ftaxjp6xrc7vg2va In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsrxh6g4d0vlkuh4cnat4tnrv9lwa29z3fqr37qqxp86ru0sxasp9cj5p7pt'>nevent1q…p7pt</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Being on the receiving end of grooming is not illegal either? 2025-03-01T20:55:31Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqs2yljfzr40fuyulrxkyq0a9kgkp98m8yrh0cryxy5kkef6626s94szyqn4zyc5ql5drj5a5989xq4qn7whwv4nv4wlkcff5w4ftaxjp6xrclwatkt In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqstvl0d7e932q7xp9paq7dpw9s4gp4j4t7jqxrrhzhzrhqdhmad05getkrxc'>nevent1q…krxc</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>What is illegal? In the states grooming minors is only illegal if you are grooming them for the purpose of having sex with them or getting them to have sex with others. I’m doing no such thing! 2025-03-01T20:53:21Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsr2tm87ppukgthv3wzsrm2ly3925kqjf5u8gklt96k32e42jeyy9czyqn4zyc5ql5drj5a5989xq4qn7whwv4nv4wlkcff5w4ftaxjp6xrcmhm654 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsqyeg63pv666aepwv3jnlr62sd3zhan4r3uafyjzp3ldzswt7zeecdhutuq'>nevent1q…utuq</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>But it isn’t illegal? I explicitly make sure I’m not breaking any laws. 2025-03-01T20:49:32Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqs0pnql7egps7hcjgx0wenkpmjjps9myunldjgnpqltd5le62ftwpczyqn4zyc5ql5drj5a5989xq4qn7whwv4nv4wlkcff5w4ftaxjp6xrcv4lumd In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqszfdtaq58utzskz32h3us8t5d4ws6acr5khwzud46mwehft5etv7sq6nwpv'>nevent1q…nwpv</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>:satania_evil: @Ximxim and <span itemprop="mentions" itemscope itemtype="https://schema.org/Person"><a itemprop="url" href="/npub1wn6u7qazdjx20rcx0a6nuehw675s2rk464jaxj5rn9wrr6ndduesfrv0rw" class="bg-lavender dark:prose:text-neutral-50 dark:text-neutral-50 dark:bg-garnet px-1"><span>⚸ยℓเtђ</span> (<span class="italic">npub1wn6…v0rw</span>)</a></span> seemed to joke I was gay as well. And it has been a bit of a running joke since I started getting involved with Yim, a trans man and my first intimacy with a minor, that I am ?gay? because I am very confused on what it even means at this point :02_think: 2025-03-01T19:59:03Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqs86d6j8wru4jvlwt6nzjcmvjatx7ctr3vrrnjvelsgndsq2d8r0xczyqn4zyc5ql5drj5a5989xq4qn7whwv4nv4wlkcff5w4ftaxjp6xrcufvplt In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsdgergt8zjlfzu3sx0x4acct55wl47ntcsphgnvejg7uf6uye2m9ccmme2u'>nevent1q…me2u</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>lmao, what was the first one? 2025-03-01T19:54:55Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsts8np2fpwea0tyy0v6w0ttq0tgkhmds5akjun9rw0078xyvwaalqzyqn4zyc5ql5drj5a5989xq4qn7whwv4nv4wlkcff5w4ftaxjp6xrcjatrqc In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsp2ecn4un63sta467mwe8acx8kxs44ve48mvh4g93vpzh58phf4lc5uk7nj'>nevent1q…k7nj</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I’m saying I don’t see the point. The point appears to be built on something that doesn’t exist. What are you being implicated in that is so bad? What makes it so bad? Is that not the point? If it isn’t then please explain it to me. I will always try to discuss things in good faith if you do as well. And at this point I believe you still are, I don’t think you’re capable of true bad faith discussion, just maybe sometimes emotionally biased discussion 2025-03-01T19:41:03Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsd030agz9cmxvfgl33wq4z9jzef45fkh5k6jd67ek9yc0zt2acvpczyqn4zyc5ql5drj5a5989xq4qn7whwv4nv4wlkcff5w4ftaxjp6xrczsl35x In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs8vaxvtuujavrdfv5rfmlhewz7097rmf5v5rgfdjqlvtmm6petctsn2x89n'>nevent1q…x89n</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I never denied it at all! It’s definitely about it being visible. That is completely the point. As for implicating your instance… implicating it in what? Grooming isn’t wrong. There is nothing to be implicated for. You may as well be saying you’re going to be implicated in promoting pedophilia. :akko_eew2: <br/> <br/>“Don’t need it” “omnivorous” I have no idea what you’re saying… it just sounds to me like a bunch of words for “it looks bad so it’s bad, stop doing it” which is not something I will ever take seriously… and no one in this of all spaces should be taking it seriously. <br/> <br/>Are you saying you would like me to move instances? Would that make you happy? 2025-03-01T19:26:41Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsvy8e3gg5wnnvgludww55nuvepljnh02h9wwz2twhqklt6kgvdnkszyqn4zyc5ql5drj5a5989xq4qn7whwv4nv4wlkcff5w4ftaxjp6xrcwpuu60 There is no dodging the effect of optics on a movement, but we should really be trying to tackle the underlying mechanisms of optics in general, not accommodating it whenever it causes trouble. Otherwise, the entire para community is doomed. <br/> <br/>If we just let people arbitrarily stigmatize things because they make them upset or uncomfortable without requiring them to make an actual rational argument for harm caused, then we are failing the para movement. <br/> <br/>You have discovered new brain worms. Get over it. <br/> <br/>[To prevent this from being a passive aggressive vague-post, I am disclosing here that this was inspired by, but is not exclusively true for, a discussion I am currently having with Choccy elsewhere. Choccy does not have these brain worms I don’t think, she is just being pressured by the people who do.] 2025-03-01T19:14:15Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsvtrr0lue47hd3h392er69g4exejqv5n77fw2s22sycnms23sfzsqzyqn4zyc5ql5drj5a5989xq4qn7whwv4nv4wlkcff5w4ftaxjp6xrc0uzz83 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsya3jz4nh6470j23qzudrh93u386wr6veq63ckmsqhugcrydzpgpgy29nzv'>nevent1q…9nzv</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>The optics of being a pedophile are trash. I am not and have never been here to get narrow minded people to like me. I have not dragged you into anything. The problem is them trying to harass you into getting rid of something they don’t like, not me being myself and doing what makes me happy in a way that hurts no one. You’re here right now because it’s the fastest way to make the pain stop, not because it’s the right thing to do. And while I respect you for all you’ve done, I do not respect your take on this matter. 2025-03-01T18:52:59Z