2026-05-29T18:04:56Z https://nostr.now Ally K https://nostr.now/npub1pyyj8400clxyx5gtjhh8yl8a9vxvt2fm9e26znfwrrg52py57qzsvtkndy https://media.allykotetsu.com/media/ede48999b0c5cd359d767c7a3d172b7bdc5d6105afaa24cb648178fcf695d4c1.png https://media.allykotetsu.com/media/ede48999b0c5cd359d767c7a3d172b7bdc5d6105afaa24cb648178fcf695d4c1.png https://nostr.now/nevent1qqs0v2esezjp7sfqmj7mhlns526frqm8ynvxchxej60aaadhmxezv7czyqysjg74alrucs63pw27uunul54se3df8vh9tg2d9cvdz3gyjncq2ctvtjv I&#39;ve never shared a vid of me playing my guitar and I wanted to fix that. I&#39;m not very good at it but I&#39;m practicing and getting better. <br/>Came up with this riff last night and I&#39;m trying to get it down.<br/><video controls width="100%" class="max-h-[90vh] bg-neutral-300 dark:bg-zinc-700"><source src="https://media.allykotetsu.com/media/026de6b7a7a7914fdcafd995ebe39dc5e59d3e98041660978ef49c7b40520e1c.mp4"></video><br/> 2026-05-29T15:33:14Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqst2h2dj7e55pcrqhcdzf80amjf625f7w47250sq8al36qmc2anl6gzyqysjg74alrucs63pw27uunul54se3df8vh9tg2d9cvdz3gyjncq2hr0gvd BTW I&#39;m very low on server storage so the stream archive for last night won&#39;t be uploaded until I have more space (which won&#39;t be for a couple weeks, maybe more) 2026-05-28T18:38:28Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsr3nqn9pzmw9zs7pg726c57va6fqn7ukqk4nxrqs0ezugmh48y5vszyqysjg74alrucs63pw27uunul54se3df8vh9tg2d9cvdz3gyjncq2rfkw3v Grocery shopping fit<br/> <img src="https://media.allykotetsu.com/media/6569174517eeb9c15285e4b4be504bb4e321e5f990a41d4079959cfd8c4da040.jpg"> <br/> 2026-05-28T17:20:42Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqszq4szzwx76nq90djplga2ll5r5azl4agyan5taept92ayhmpuhhqzyqysjg74alrucs63pw27uunul54se3df8vh9tg2d9cvdz3gyjncq2ghh309 Chat we&#39;re gonna be streaming for 6 hours tomorrow to make up for not streaming last week. Any ideas for what to do for 6 whole hours? Lol. I&#39;ve been wanting to do some non-gaming streams. Eventually I&#39;ll do some of the stuff I mentioned in the poll but idk if those would take up 6 hours 2026-05-27T02:03:46Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsy5p5k2vtav7tg75cuec56s5a2rua0u8hzpr9cxmx2z68unxkxxkczyqysjg74alrucs63pw27uunul54se3df8vh9tg2d9cvdz3gyjncq2jzpdsq recovering from wisdom teeth removal and still kinda loopy from the anesthetic AMA 2026-05-18T17:50:46Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsfupku5g4jr7gc52tewp4cscwljcqrvuu9jtamyuc897u53hpatfgzyqysjg74alrucs63pw27uunul54se3df8vh9tg2d9cvdz3gyjncq2gxxc24 i feel like voice acting would be fun to get into 2026-05-16T05:49:23Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqs0m9g4s7pcaecx0png05g7x9f7fv9ewvlnk6hqdlazeyx5rxze65qzyqysjg74alrucs63pw27uunul54se3df8vh9tg2d9cvdz3gyjncq2xu9eut reminder to all my followers to please follow my other account at <span itemprop="mentions" itemscope itemtype="https://schema.org/Person"><a itemprop="url" href="/npub1clw92ruxxt6nepf885dtxe83wtpfljazvm5t5vteslvtkzdjwvws525vfv" class="bg-lavender dark:prose:text-neutral-50 dark:text-neutral-50 dark:bg-garnet px-1"><span>Ally Kotetsu</span> (<span class="italic">npub1clw…5vfv</span>)</a></span> <br/> <br/>That&#39;s the fediverse account linked to my website, so it automatically posts when new posts/stream archives/etc come out. At some point I might make that my only fediverse account, not really sure 2026-05-14T16:36:05Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqszgxe7lj24e0u56htk2jx3nj3h8pcy0duaa4pnhayfkxajlzmtzpgzyqysjg74alrucs63pw27uunul54se3df8vh9tg2d9cvdz3gyjncq2jv2l4d finally decided to take the time and draw my full self <br/>(once again i&#39;m not really an artist so pls don&#39;t criticize this. i ended up using a bunch of reference images) <br/> <br/>EDIT: updated picture<br/> <img src="https://media.allykotetsu.com/media/8a80c4525be0f9a837fe510ddc3d097ff58dea0387db19969c9419d1f4a1e5f0.jpg"> <br/> 2026-05-13T21:27:57Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsfjahsgakzl4ra0zr32shjucwlf3554rmfn5vr3p37cptykl8kdggzyqysjg74alrucs63pw27uunul54se3df8vh9tg2d9cvdz3gyjncq2k5zjml chat stop omg there&#39;s a SNAIL on our balcony <br/>it&#39;s just chillin there<br/> <img src="https://media.allykotetsu.com/media/aef85d618ebf7618195aec1524142f6054f67c59e2baf554369b88b45197ced1.png"> <br/> 2026-05-13T18:50:12Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsz3c76grxv3ztfy3wtczn480vj8cynragc0jk2cz0jqvgalsc34hqzyqysjg74alrucs63pw27uunul54se3df8vh9tg2d9cvdz3gyjncq2wrtxje &#34;I reported your site to the-&#34; I don&#39;t fucking care 2026-05-12T15:34:05Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqs08k6hfcjj8kmvjwjqev3cjqqn82ya9ra3xffg6d0lc7hdgw24wqczyqysjg74alrucs63pw27uunul54se3df8vh9tg2d9cvdz3gyjncq2p4xggq did this tumblr thing<br/> <img src="https://media.allykotetsu.com/media/579d39af82b23d734ce60f5e0e34c6c9f658d74da9805be0d596069f4f77ebae.jpg"> <br/> 2026-05-09T17:11:58Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqstmgvrjaa4klnuwahx9cdcm7sg6gme7dyg8frvpnh8qekr6vsun7gzyqysjg74alrucs63pw27uunul54se3df8vh9tg2d9cvdz3gyjncq25mmgum fuck a personality test, how do you organize your file system? (/joke) 2026-05-09T16:18:23Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqs09azspmf4tedhldw6x7rlg2460mtzk6eypuqk504j0m68gavkesczyqysjg74alrucs63pw27uunul54se3df8vh9tg2d9cvdz3gyjncq27vw9sg hey radqueer community! i&#39;m trying to find examples of notable people (celebrities, historical figures, and other famous people [such as activists and org founders and whatnot]) who are paraphiles or have transids. i&#39;m not asking anyone to do research for me, i can do that, but if you happen to know any answers off the top of your head then that&#39;d make my research go a lot smoother. any response would be appreciated, but I&#39;m specifically looking for: <br/> <br/>- MAPs <br/>- Zoophiles <br/>- Consang beings <br/>- Necrophiles <br/>- Therians/otherkins/alterhumans/nonhumans/transspecies folks <br/>- Transrace beings <br/>- Transage beings <br/>- Transabled/BIID beings <br/>- Plural systems <br/> <br/>preferably they should be folks who aren&#39;t abusers or anything like that <br/> <br/>thank you! 2026-05-07T20:19:38Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqswhuyjhldh5hrel6cvl2mfm0t84mzwfv5rh5x49ectxd9urgx6leqzyqysjg74alrucs63pw27uunul54se3df8vh9tg2d9cvdz3gyjncq2hsszpn WIP song<br/><a href="https://media.allykotetsu.com/media/b507f260d0f27f25040725808550eae127fed398a8b0c96a54196bfd39961cca.mp3">https://media.allykotetsu.com/media/b507f260d0f27f25040725808550eae127fed398a8b0c96a54196bfd39961cca.mp3</a><br/> 2026-05-05T22:42:58Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsggkm49t45ck2zpqhm6fd0muc9zzpr6xm57tr4fecqlq7u33fklzczyqysjg74alrucs63pw27uunul54se3df8vh9tg2d9cvdz3gyjncq2gkqgam Advertising this one last time: <br/>My radqueer survey will only be up for one for month! After that I&#39;ll draw some data from the responses. <br/>We&#39;ve hit over 800 responses now! If you haven&#39;t taken it yet then please do! Hitting 1000 responses would be amazing. <br/>Here&#39;s the link if you haven&#39;t taken it yet: <a href="https://cryptpad.fr/form/#/2/form/view/Slk9iDnr2ghNsUJltoFonWwk3HTLWgty7QEtea+x+8w/">https://cryptpad.fr/form/#/2/form/view/Slk9iDnr2ghNsUJltoFonWwk3HTLWgty7QEtea+x+8w/</a> 2026-05-02T01:34:48Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsz6g82weyt7rngdekqmh87v0m59vup6uuufkxal6e4p0pfqcr3ctszyqysjg74alrucs63pw27uunul54se3df8vh9tg2d9cvdz3gyjncq2caz0lz In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqst8klyx4ka78ch833vfdkawz0dakqrapjxyzrcw30qztwr6mg46mqhr97qx'>nevent1q…97qx</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>i appreciate your kind words &lt;3 2026-04-25T18:35:06Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsxcf3vqwz9cdcju3dx4py73qvrjaxlzmpdnn9khrdreh9c00mk6mszyqysjg74alrucs63pw27uunul54se3df8vh9tg2d9cvdz3gyjncq289c0j8 oh yeah HAPPY ALICE DAY! 2026-04-25T18:23:10Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsyhzf3hq4272fhk25380a9hp6sndsl5u84vv4v6gx6kr3jhuxjqsgzyqysjg74alrucs63pw27uunul54se3df8vh9tg2d9cvdz3gyjncq29kprj9 It seems like one of the main things causing this drama is an underlying belief that MAP activism will never work. I&#39;ve seen leadership from feral.bond post about how MAP activism is seemingly a lost cause. <br/> <br/>When we internalize that things are hopeless, that its impossible to achieve the future we want, that affects everything we do. If we talk about doing things like in-person community because its the first step towards real change, but you believe that that real change is inevitably impossible, of course you&#39;re not going to think in-person community is worth the risk. <br/> <br/>We must hold out on hope that we can make a difference. That things can change. There are still people alive today that remember when gay people got hatecrimed and couldn&#39;t be out as themselves, and that changed in a matter of decades. It is not hopeless. <br/> <br/>I think it also hurts to look at things at a larger scale. If we set our sights on changing the whole world, or even just a whole country, we&#39;re never going to see that happen. We should instead be focusing on trying to make sure we can live authentic lives. Maybe the whole world can&#39;t change, but if you surround yourself with people you can be yourself around, *your* world can. And that&#39;s more important. Change doesn&#39;t happen globally, it starts small and local, and this is how that starts. Not through &#34;activism&#34;. <br/> <br/>We have the ability to change our future and write history. If we internalize that the struggle is hopeless, then we&#39;re not going to even try. We must hold onto hope, because if we don&#39;t then we&#39;ll never make that change. 2026-04-25T17:45:49Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqswxaucgw6umc6wgy8kqeu6kzep45c7deps7wvmnkacrnq32xc90yqzyqysjg74alrucs63pw27uunul54se3df8vh9tg2d9cvdz3gyjncq25lv7j7 I&#39;ve heard that I&#39;ve been suspended (idk what exactly that means but I&#39;m guessing defederated) on gimmeloli as well <br/>It would have been nice if pawzy or whoever runs that instance could just talk to me instead of immediately siding with chester and co 2026-04-25T17:14:27Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqspf2ztpztmnfse8fqftakg9js8pngw95p8pxz4nf9znwlgw24akwgzyqysjg74alrucs63pw27uunul54se3df8vh9tg2d9cvdz3gyjncq2jepv53 Twintails :3<br/> <img src="https://media.allykotetsu.com/media/148c416425f9ba955b4d22890e01849cad5afb12fb82dc532e23aaad7d0f884d.jpg"> <br/> 2026-04-24T19:36:45Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqspgmyatew8ku9jhrcpkpsdtd92wz2kpnce54f78uqjy5dyk6vnjfqzyqysjg74alrucs63pw27uunul54se3df8vh9tg2d9cvdz3gyjncq26hruw8 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsdaltnj8vucvmzw97nq0efcppqg3ey9vzvkj843n943s3esva8qzs474j5z'>nevent1q…4j5z</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>really? please do tell how. i know many people who would disagree. oh wait, you banned them. funny how that works 2026-04-24T17:14:50Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqs2x0cf2wuwuqng6xhsz9jp2a6cr7llc4vtahyv8rzxr9zcwjs5e2qzyqysjg74alrucs63pw27uunul54se3df8vh9tg2d9cvdz3gyjncq27uzg3u before chester or anyone else comes at me with more claims about how i&#39;m dangerous, i would like to say some things <br/> <br/>i am not perfect. i have made unwise decisions before that negatively affected people in this community, and i apologize for that. i have since learned that the most important thing about community is listening to other people and meeting them where they&#39;re at. <br/> <br/>i thought with bt+ that something public was good because I saw the good that publicity could bring, i thought everyone else had thought about the dangers already, and that that meant i could do whatever for the sake of the mission, but i was wrong <br/> <br/>the most important thing will always be education. we should be empowering our people by informing them. this is a lesson i had to make mistakes to learn, but i know it now. we inform them of the dangers present, so that they can make the decision for themselves of how they want to handle it. a good leader never tells their followers what they can and can&#39;t do, who they can and can&#39;t talk to, or what they can and can&#39;t think. <br/> <br/>so don&#39;t come at me with stuff that&#39;s happened in the past. i&#39;ve made mistakes, everyone has, but the important thing is being able to realize those mistakes and grow from them. 2026-04-24T17:05:42Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqs2gklysegvywglsfnyw0ctzvjaa6lqdyff3t9us6lh9gl9943xsaqzyqysjg74alrucs63pw27uunul54se3df8vh9tg2d9cvdz3gyjncq27xth6z <span itemprop="mentions" itemscope itemtype="https://schema.org/Person"><a itemprop="url" href="/npub1583wsg7q9yunta7mxfxedw9n59hpr9w4shlvn9cfn597w3xkrq0qv7ttkt" class="bg-lavender dark:prose:text-neutral-50 dark:text-neutral-50 dark:bg-garnet px-1"><span>chester</span> (<span class="italic">npub1583…ttkt</span>)</a></span> <span itemprop="mentions" itemscope itemtype="https://schema.org/Person"><a itemprop="url" href="/npub1wn6u7qazdjx20rcx0a6nuehw675s2rk464jaxj5rn9wrr6ndduesfrv0rw" class="bg-lavender dark:prose:text-neutral-50 dark:text-neutral-50 dark:bg-garnet px-1"><span>⚸ยℓเtђ</span> (<span class="italic">npub1wn6…v0rw</span>)</a></span> I find it obvious that the entire reason for this who debacle is because someone–either rae or someone else–has a wounded ego. You say time and time again that I&#39;m somehow endangering people, yet you never provide a good reason as to why. <br/> <br/>If you were really trying to be a community leader you&#39;d try to make a difference, you&#39;d try to help this community evolve. Instead all you care about is keeping everyone miserable on social media. And every time someone suggests the opposite, whether its me or Ananke or anyone else, it threatens that. <br/> <br/>I still don&#39;t understand how the magazine could possibly be dangerous at all. You say you&#39;re trying to &#34;protect&#34; your community by censoring everyone you think is dangerous, well how is that any different than the way that adults try to &#34;protect&#34; youth by keeping them segregated from &#34;predators&#34;? <br/> <br/>You claim IRL meetups are extremely dangerous, yet I have never once encountered any danger to them, despite having met *dozens* of people from pedi, tumblr, bsky, and more. Tell me, how can you say it is dangerous when I, someone who has been doxxed for years and has been targeted multiple times by antis, have done all that and not even come close to being hurt once? <br/> <br/>Your claim simply makes no sense. It&#39;s a risk, yes, but the chance of danger is so inconsequentially low. My life has changed for the better in so many ways because of having IRL community. I&#39;ve seen it for myself and everyone that I&#39;ve met face-to-face. I&#39;ve watched their lives change for the better, and I&#39;ve watched them become inspired and say the same thing. Now that they know how important it is, they know that the risk is one well worth taking. <br/> <br/>I&#39;m trying to do something good. Our community can&#39;t stay online forever. If you believe in MAP rights, if you want a world where we can all have acceptance, then you know we can&#39;t stay online too. Tell me, what do you see for the future of this community? Because as someone who&#39;s in a leadership position, you have the power to affect that. You can either keep people where it&#39;s &#34;safe&#34;, and drive this community to loneliness. Or you can learn to take a risk and stop making that decision for everyone else. <br/> <br/>If I didn&#39;t know any better I&#39;d say this is fed behavior. Like you&#39;re intentionally trying to keep this movement from going anywhere. In any case the outcome is indistinguishable. Real leaders don&#39;t feel the need to censor the people who are supposed to be their allies. Not once have you ever tried to understand my point of view, not once have you ever listened to any of my friends who believe in the same cause of me. At every turn you ignore it. I can&#39;t possibly think of any reason that actually makes sense, other than the fact that if people go offline then they won&#39;t need pedi anymore, and that that scares pedi&#39;s &#34;leaders&#34;. <br/> <br/>I&#39;m tired of having this argument with you, its been on and off for so fucking long. I would love to actually be able to have a discussion with you about this and see why you think the things that you do. Because they make no sense to me and therefore I have to jump to whatever conclusion makes the most sense. 2026-04-24T15:57:12Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsx9kcag4r40pt25gjprmq2wuu2w5rrwdfamr9ajen3qfanvqcfq5qzyqysjg74alrucs63pw27uunul54se3df8vh9tg2d9cvdz3gyjncq2w9a2xh Apparently feral defederated me? I know I&#39;ve said it before, but fuck chester, rae, and that whole clique. Fuck feral.bond and baise-moi.top. 2026-04-24T05:52:02Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqst0tz92ch5343ztqgd7h9uwspx82ew8ha2sa5j3jmxgeyy8vycx8czyqysjg74alrucs63pw27uunul54se3df8vh9tg2d9cvdz3gyjncq2fnqq5x song WIP<br/><a href="https://media.allykotetsu.com/media/c36c3dde1c6e170b53aaf8631fb5cc3552592c95aa38b64974e5335a6560376c.mp3">https://media.allykotetsu.com/media/c36c3dde1c6e170b53aaf8631fb5cc3552592c95aa38b64974e5335a6560376c.mp3</a><br/> 2026-04-23T05:51:53Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqs9m2ffxxgkv80905frvtzkkk0eedc99t9v74w7wqwupzaaykupmaqzyqysjg74alrucs63pw27uunul54se3df8vh9tg2d9cvdz3gyjncq2eulz92 You&#39;ve heard of pro-c, pro-cc, and anti-c, but what about anti-cc? &#34;Yeah, I&#39;m against concensual contact. I only do rape.&#34; 2026-04-21T20:36:51Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsgv3487qpt9etl7c0pwx2h82dgg2qrer2lgqajcq7p7xxld6jgwlczyqysjg74alrucs63pw27uunul54se3df8vh9tg2d9cvdz3gyjncq227g4nj I struggle with the idea that I&#39;m inspirational to people. I&#39;ve seen way too many people use social standing as a way to create cults of personality, or brainwash an entire nation. It feels like too much power for anyone to have. <br/>On one hand I want to be able to be able to inspire people to do what I believe is right for this movement, that&#39;s just politics. But it&#39;s hard for me to believe that everything I say is going to somehow be objectively correct. I fear some of things I lead people to believe will end up backfiring. <br/>The fact that the entirety of politics is just trying to change the way millions of people think is just... bizarre. That feels like something no one should have the ability to do. Yet, I know people are going to use that for evil, which means the only way to fight it is to do the same. A scary thought. 2026-04-16T18:36:34Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsvqc0jpvte9364xpdpd35ngesf3g9uqtezaq29ndn686eq6m3kj4szyqysjg74alrucs63pw27uunul54se3df8vh9tg2d9cvdz3gyjncq2slslm4 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsfn2g47syvwt3y79wdadrcgh6qe32tdxyc6fwtscdf2fcf6ac42kg72q4eu'>nevent1q…q4eu</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>are you talking to me? I have no idea what you&#39;re talking about. Members of my &#34;group&#34;? What group? You seem not to like me, did I do something to upset you? Genuine question because I don&#39;t know who you are 2026-04-15T06:01:15Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqszjs69lr3pmuxn376cmznshlz4vwxwf4l25e5amppuq8d8paf86mgzyqysjg74alrucs63pw27uunul54se3df8vh9tg2d9cvdz3gyjncq2ldskaf <span itemprop="mentions" itemscope itemtype="https://schema.org/Person"><a itemprop="url" href="/npub17uj20j9lfsdhjl5dn4rw7nxn3ge43es66pn5eqgy0fu928xx6v2q9ymp9j" class="bg-lavender dark:prose:text-neutral-50 dark:text-neutral-50 dark:bg-garnet px-1"><span>boppi</span> (<span class="italic">npub17uj…mp9j</span>)</a></span> its like the feral/baise team is actively trying to prevent this movement from going anywhere 2026-04-15T00:37:46Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsf4x5k4zshtm60729n54th4te7fmy2gukt7xq84rsagywcf0unrvczyqysjg74alrucs63pw27uunul54se3df8vh9tg2d9cvdz3gyjncq2z2l2cm abolish age 2026-04-13T23:39:16Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqs8x6kdjr76g0khsdhk0f00dvrcus0mkweuxww4u7ca9qer04q3c2gzyqysjg74alrucs63pw27uunul54se3df8vh9tg2d9cvdz3gyjncq2k4j5l6 oh my god, the craziest thing happened <br/> <br/>I got RECOGNIZED!!! by another radqueer! <br/> <br/>I was outside in public and they just walked up to me and was like &#34;hey, are you from Beyond the Plus?&#34; Then they told me they were closeted but looked up to me and wanted to exchange contact info so we could stay in touch <br/> <br/>Ts is the best thing that&#39;s ever happened to me istg. I&#39;m also really happy for the other person! But i&#39;ve never been recognized before, at least that I know of, and it makes me pretty happy that I finally have been, and that it was good attention <br/> <br/>Antis can say whatever they want to me, that despair does not equal a hundredth of the hope that I feel when someone tells me I&#39;m an inspiration to them. 2026-04-11T02:45:12Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsqa3lzl5uymt3fk76c9a3z2q68gekxj0xdjkmhjucxa9yq20622fczyqysjg74alrucs63pw27uunul54se3df8vh9tg2d9cvdz3gyjncq28q574n i wish anyone in this city actually wanted to associate with me. i have a few friends around here but none of them ever want to be seen with me and it makes it hard to socialize 2026-04-03T00:26:21Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqs82yzkgavz2rggj4j6jwuxxff4twlmqjxk24wkey04rs06mn2ajgqzyqysjg74alrucs63pw27uunul54se3df8vh9tg2d9cvdz3gyjncq27pv606 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsvn8k0tyrdzxlx9xf6yma8dgkt9vrt7wjdx2enmeqxzzldd06fqvs56s93k'>nevent1q…s93k</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>its not april 1st here either but i think its an early april fools joke 2026-03-31T23:48:02Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsrlacadjy2jt9m6z9uh7qf9kkya2e52mrklk70v6t7u3apm2clzxczyqysjg74alrucs63pw27uunul54se3df8vh9tg2d9cvdz3gyjncq2dma62u wait im dumb i forgot april fools<blockquote class="border-l-05rem border-l-strongpink border-solid"><div class="-ml-4 bg-gradient-to-r from-gray-100 dark:from-zinc-800 to-transparent mr-0 mt-0 mb-4 pl-4 pr-2 py-2">quoting <br/><span itemprop="mentions" itemscope itemtype="https://schema.org/Article"><a itemprop="url" href="/note10467rmx9ve5wktvumx5kflep2u5ew3vdemzg7x8qgcyc3pl4cy0qegtkex" class="bg-lavender dark:prose:text-neutral-50 dark:text-neutral-50 dark:bg-garnet px-1">note1046…tkex</a></span><br/> </div> rip ghetti.monster </blockquote> 2026-03-31T23:22:49Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqs86a0panzkv68t9kwdn2tylus4w2vhgkxua3y0rrsyvzvgsl6uz8szyqysjg74alrucs63pw27uunul54se3df8vh9tg2d9cvdz3gyjncq2faa8vf rip ghetti.monster 2026-03-31T23:22:18Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsrj4p7p43jelasfr8jgh5azc79fshzctmxnlq30l0n5gynwlzw8tczyqysjg74alrucs63pw27uunul54se3df8vh9tg2d9cvdz3gyjncq2wnmdmq what&#39;s &#34;PDX&#34; mean? 2026-03-30T01:33:35Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqs8f9xlt209c7ndnwj6fy7ty7u9rre8k3vtn9wdl57nmzvl37kxaegzyqysjg74alrucs63pw27uunul54se3df8vh9tg2d9cvdz3gyjncq2mqzyp5 Celebrating the cross lake connection at judkins park! <br/>Picture: Seattle mayor Katie Wilson!<br/> <img src="https://media.allykotetsu.com/media/56d1ba1d0c9984090f0ec201295afdfab0f135142f2c6db1e6b89be477ef95ab.jpg"> <br/> 2026-03-28T17:54:59Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqs0xy7uhurmcxz8lapslgwr296dlm2l6ke7qhmj9r7tryk77yyd0mgzyqysjg74alrucs63pw27uunul54se3df8vh9tg2d9cvdz3gyjncq2t6rjmr # Poll: What Do You Consider Minor-Attraction? 2026-03-27T18:29:10Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqswkdjqt03prrxr20rv2slxemktvy9xp2vpt04p06jc784y4nyfu3qzyqysjg74alrucs63pw27uunul54se3df8vh9tg2d9cvdz3gyjncq28yd3hs In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsyl88x8s5xn28d7jvhnkmkefzyp8teuwycgymeqn7ewdl4v8m52uguq74d7'>nevent1q…74d7</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>like art style IG. If I was gonna go 3d I&#39;d wanna do a low-poly anime artstyle thing 2026-03-22T06:04:00Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqszlee8cl3zz3armdhde3etpcfk8qdha5f6m39sn9v3tv8fp964cdgzyqysjg74alrucs63pw27uunul54se3df8vh9tg2d9cvdz3gyjncq2pzwvn3 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsxx3hdpzn24gxm7cfp9mrgn5sf5sypajkm5f96dwhm928p3k30apcycxtyt'>nevent1q…xtyt</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>what kinda 3d? Do you have any references? 2026-03-22T05:29:20Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsr38zs7wufknu2xrq9lyxe7sp3kn6pdqr7dqpdpe3gkuxg6e4useczyqysjg74alrucs63pw27uunul54se3df8vh9tg2d9cvdz3gyjncq242czuu When I get a job again I need to commission some art of myself for my website, pfps, and stream. I&#39;ve had a bunch of ideas lately for how I want the graphics of my brand to look. 2026-03-21T17:40:51Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqszj4n4a77ppf2fvg6ggq7zzx6md5ql8n2yxqtfntr7nupmvt9d88czyqysjg74alrucs63pw27uunul54se3df8vh9tg2d9cvdz3gyjncq2plwjs9 i like kids but i&#39;m definitely more of an ephebophile 2026-03-17T02:46:39Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqs0wce5wtv3sve5xh7l3suyvtn7zeccmdya8r5futmdkyh6x9pck3czyqysjg74alrucs63pw27uunul54se3df8vh9tg2d9cvdz3gyjncq2v9tl80 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqszjjt4m6mgh8whyg49v2tu06w2jl7ztjf56l77x3spccvlayqr84c6clzyk'>nevent1q…lzyk</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>this whole time you didn&#39;t know it was me? lol. good to see you again <br/>i wonder how many people here think arisu is gone and don&#39;t realize that it&#39;s me 2026-03-13T23:44:53Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqs85hm48hwgvlpj47ht5tg99jp5dqwywfllsk0pv9lzud586d8a2gczyqysjg74alrucs63pw27uunul54se3df8vh9tg2d9cvdz3gyjncq206u42c In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsfsnkqe0syfx9597gksrffc4fqdt6u0qy0fejejgh5rhupr3nq36sy0kqwx'>nevent1q…kqwx</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>additionally, we tabled, publicly for several months. and once again, no one ever came to cause trouble. despite it being public and advertised on social media <br/>very dangerous 2026-03-13T23:22:54Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsfsnkqe0syfx9597gksrffc4fqdt6u0qy0fejejgh5rhupr3nq36szyqysjg74alrucs63pw27uunul54se3df8vh9tg2d9cvdz3gyjncq28jscnq In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsve4j7txwzmgu6gvkmqjtnhevepte4j4kxqs5klzdke3ggpzt06kq86cyqp'>nevent1q…cyqp</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>the one time something bad happened at a bt+ event was when a community member, another paraphile, showed up to cause trouble. and they only knew about the event because they were friends with someone who was a member at the time <br/>but no one got hurt, because they weren&#39;t there to be a danger or cause harm 2026-03-13T23:19:11Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsve4j7txwzmgu6gvkmqjtnhevepte4j4kxqs5klzdke3ggpzt06kqzyqysjg74alrucs63pw27uunul54se3df8vh9tg2d9cvdz3gyjncq2frq0cy In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsve0vvhsjr9c8glps39gnpuqgd3fxgs9cjy3fgqn0d4f68spadmvq8gp2uk'>nevent1q…p2uk</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>this isn&#39;t even including bt+ events, where we had a maximum event attendance of like 15. once again, never had an anti or cop or anyone showed up 2026-03-13T23:18:04Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsve0vvhsjr9c8glps39gnpuqgd3fxgs9cjy3fgqn0d4f68spadmvqzyqysjg74alrucs63pw27uunul54se3df8vh9tg2d9cvdz3gyjncq2qr9qau yknow, back when i was arisu i was doing, like, one meetup every month for like half the year. at this point ive met up (including at bt+ tabling) with at least 10 people, mostly through pedi <br/>do you know how many times i came face to face with an anti? or a cop? 0 <br/>very dangerous 2026-03-13T23:16:07Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqspnx6hlpk9t78ezfx7he2sfn37gge7yexredk7u4cqm6f05fqy7jqzyqysjg74alrucs63pw27uunul54se3df8vh9tg2d9cvdz3gyjncq2ce4gqf Good morning pedi! Hru? 2026-03-13T17:24:02Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqs9f9g3w89ykwaqlfaur6wa7vczm4s77flj5a4xkwrnzy4wnry52zczyqysjg74alrucs63pw27uunul54se3df8vh9tg2d9cvdz3gyjncq2favtlm Community leaders don&#39;t make decisions for their followers, they educate them. If your leader is telling you what you can and can&#39;t do, then that&#39;s not a community 2026-03-13T04:33:29Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsf4arh9jxg9hn8luzkyqf003d5dt3x20z8tq3yu3kdf99gwsj64ggzyqysjg74alrucs63pw27uunul54se3df8vh9tg2d9cvdz3gyjncq2euy4yq In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqspuk6h4tk0xnd6cucy59wyy2h5g6leqjx8hv09qclrafn23k4wlwq6htplc'>nevent1q…tplc</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>supposedly this was on baise.moi. is it on feral too? 2026-03-13T04:30:26Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsw8suyv7uqgz9ks69me8p6rfneg5aahvfewvtn2fple7gvqzcycuqzyqysjg74alrucs63pw27uunul54se3df8vh9tg2d9cvdz3gyjncq2lvgjd0 How hard is it for people in this community to not spread misinformation? I have stated that I am not affiliated with this meetup thing (which no one attended BTW) and now the mods at baise.moi go and tell everyone that I am? <br/>This is the type of shit that makes me want to give up on pedi, because the assholes who run instances pull shit like this and people still support them <br/>Leaders don&#39;t have a duty to ensure safety, we have a duty to inform our followers. We cannot make peoples decisions for them, all we can do is educate them. How can we argue that its not okay to force kids to stay safe and that we should instead be informing then, and then turn around and say that we should be forcing our community to act a certain way instead of just educating them? <br/>If we never take risks, we&#39;ll never know progress, and by taking that decision away from people we&#39;re only hurting ourselves. Safety is important, but it&#39;s not as important as letting people make their own decisions. I live a life that&#39;s less safe than most people here and its improved the quality of my life in so many ways. So why should I tell people to hide in the shadows when I&#39;ve seen firsthand just how much taking risks can improve life? <br/>I&#39;m really tired of trying to do good for this community and then having people turn around and say I&#39;m a threat. So if you believe in me, please don&#39;t go and support these people. Why do we give people like this a platform? People like Rae who everyone knows is a big problem in this community?<br/> <img src="https://media.allykotetsu.com/media/54cf76ea3e952d5564ae03c0f4f1840bddc5b595cf2b62370dee3d63f6dad5c6.jpg"> <br/> 2026-03-13T04:21:47Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsrq7eaq60e7q84dvqda9tz0njqse93908clpkv8a8w9uuxg9qmy4szyqysjg74alrucs63pw27uunul54se3df8vh9tg2d9cvdz3gyjncq2vs0jhz In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs0ca26mksf5s8fxp9srut4wt5jrs4pf2gs84rahlzxd8l3uap2f6s4xmfaz'>nevent1q…mfaz</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>love her expression there! Lol 2026-03-12T21:52:18Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqswaskhhf8mscekms6euwgwq0fra58fy88f9t6cjdta4lc3g4qkz3gzyqysjg74alrucs63pw27uunul54se3df8vh9tg2d9cvdz3gyjncq2pxjs9k In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsy5y3eumtp2k884seqxt2d3gpt47ghrvvhxpt02dxy7y36y62p24g7r9vde'>nevent1q…9vde</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>just like everything in life, you cannot fully prevent people from doing things. if you try to stop people, they&#39;ll just do it anyways. so instead of censoring people we should instead be trying to educate people. 2026-03-06T21:42:24Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsy5y3eumtp2k884seqxt2d3gpt47ghrvvhxpt02dxy7y36y62p24gzyqysjg74alrucs63pw27uunul54se3df8vh9tg2d9cvdz3gyjncq2kt4l4l In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs29gm7hdpnkndugszhlkxuu3rh3ctsul2u55tyd70w48gcrq59ldgkc4jf7'>nevent1q…4jf7</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>i agree with this. there is an inherent risk to something like this, and that risk should be made known. but i think it&#39;s a step too far to tell people what decision to make. by reporting them you&#39;re removing the ability for people who want to take the risk to take it. we can&#39;t force people to live in secrecy, we must let people brave unsafe scenarios if they want to. we should present them with the facts, not our opinions about it <br/>she asked me to put this info up on my website, but i chose not to because i didnt know how safe it was. but i knew it wasn&#39;t my right to tell her not to do it at all. so i told her how people would react and how to make it as safe as possible. and yes i told her what websites to try and spread the info on because i wanted to give her a chance at making this succeed if she was that dedicated to seeing it happen 2026-03-06T21:41:10Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsxueuwjezgluwtl9e3spn3wwt35mhag0m9z8g7vez0w5prmf28algzyqysjg74alrucs63pw27uunul54se3df8vh9tg2d9cvdz3gyjncq25000v0 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqszzdqmajyarmtjjr849akynhnegwm6ed35wdylqcn4tm0zde5887g004xpz'>nevent1q…4xpz</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>at this point I absolutely hate &#34;its unsafe!&#34; or &#34;safety is the most important thing!&#34;. It may be a hot take, but I do not think those are true. I think progress is the most important thing, and in order to make progress things are going to have to be a little unsafe. Stonewall was unsafe, and look where that led us. 2026-03-06T18:30:30Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsfl6swgvq6ty4v7307ansl8a86y98arlk7an9c5jmwyv8fxhyxx2szyqysjg74alrucs63pw27uunul54se3df8vh9tg2d9cvdz3gyjncq2m64hel What if a nose job was when you used your nose to get someone off 2026-03-05T07:22:37Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsv64j4ycazxug9q6gheu059py85zx89n2tlff68elhy0fnw3cxtuczyqysjg74alrucs63pw27uunul54se3df8vh9tg2d9cvdz3gyjncq2eavveu Call me crazy but high school girls are hotter than kids imo. I consider myself a MAP, but my preference is usually towards young adults (which I consider 16+ to be an adult) 2026-03-03T08:09:12Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsp8rs0j7magn9p37e64xxppske7pxkh4ldtjwduand7tpsp8uz2tszyqysjg74alrucs63pw27uunul54se3df8vh9tg2d9cvdz3gyjncq29xzna8 wow i was expecting this to get 50 responses over the course of the next few months, i didn&#39;t think it would get that in its first few hours lol. <br/>thank you to everyone who&#39;s taken the survey so far! i&#39;m already finding some interesting things. <br/>the plan is to run it until June, but if there gets to be a point where it stops getting responses then i&#39;ll end it early 2026-03-01T21:43:21Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsvw87zzj8zz3adeenkaacyaj3m0u82a84g7czhzz0u24xr99dzq9szyqysjg74alrucs63pw27uunul54se3df8vh9tg2d9cvdz3gyjncq2z00vak # Big Radqueer Survey Out NOW <br/> <br/>Hey everyone, I&#39;ve been working on a survey for you radqueers and it&#39;s finally done! It&#39;s a big survey with lots of questions, all designed to give me some insight of who our community is, where we&#39;re at, what we want to see, and how that all correlates. All the questions are optional, but the more you answer the better data I&#39;ll get. It&#39;s hosted on Cryptpad, an anonymous, end-to-end encrypted survey hosting website. The findings of the survey will be made public, however, text answers will be rephrased to maintain anonymity, and individual results will not be made public. Please share it to those you know! <br/> <br/>[<a href="https://cryptpad.fr/form/#/2/form/view/Slk9iDnr2ghNsUJltoFonWwk3HTLWgty7QEtea+x+8w/">https://cryptpad.fr/form/#/2/form/view/Slk9iDnr2ghNsUJltoFonWwk3HTLWgty7QEtea+x+8w/</a>](<a href="https://cryptpad.fr/form/#/2/form/view/Slk9iDnr2ghNsUJltoFonWwk3HTLWgty7QEtea+x+8w/">https://cryptpad.fr/form/#/2/form/view/Slk9iDnr2ghNsUJltoFonWwk3HTLWgty7QEtea+x+8w/</a>) 2026-03-01T18:32:11Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsx0r2ecxr4s57gffwdwdu36rg89pdlh3cm8lpcknflfdukwpwz2hqzyqysjg74alrucs63pw27uunul54se3df8vh9tg2d9cvdz3gyjncq24v6nxl I left a comment on [brian ribbon&#39;s article](<a href="https://www.brianribbon.com/home/the-sorry-capitulation-of-beyond-the-plus-and-bl-talk">https://www.brianribbon.com/home/the-sorry-capitulation-of-beyond-the-plus-and-bl-talk</a>), but i also want to make a message here responding to it: <br/> <br/>please don&#39;t make me out to be the bad guy because of what happened to bt+. we left the decision to dissolve up to our members. i tried to convince people to let it stay, but only a couple of our members who had actually ever been to events wanted us to stay public. every other member either wanted us to cease operations, hadn&#39;t logged into our website in months and hadn&#39;t seen the announcements, or had just stopped participating <br/> <br/>it&#39;s no one&#39;s fault that bt+ ended. the truth is that people weren&#39;t ready for this. the only reason i &#34;ran with my tail between my legs&#34; was because no one involved except for violet was going to be willing to stick up for me if things got dangerous. being an activist isn&#39;t about doing risky, dangerous things and not thinking about the consequences, it&#39;s about strategy. and there&#39;s no reason for me to piss a bunch of people off who want me dead if no one is going to step up to protect me. otherwise i might just end up dying, and what then? <br/> <br/>i had every intention to stand up for my community when things got scary, and i did until the very last day. but at the end i didn&#39;t have anyone i was standing up for. what was i supposed to do, continue running events that no one except for antis were going to show up at? 2026-02-27T04:24:41Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsftce3svx7xkmhjc7279rlzvdezwy6f2gfzuyend5n68rd325lmxszyqysjg74alrucs63pw27uunul54se3df8vh9tg2d9cvdz3gyjncq2gavsaq as mentioned im working on a survey. what might be some good incentives to get more people to take it? 2026-02-23T22:01:38Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsfhlxh0uzh3lmyzcaf4spv0r02mmm0g3pl4l6qngy6whn26ytyhdqzyqysjg74alrucs63pw27uunul54se3df8vh9tg2d9cvdz3gyjncq2nfg7jt In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsvqkjuyp77qyecuvs70c2nc4328xjfcq5xtfwrew8qmpny56z8dgq06563v'>nevent1q…563v</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>yeah, but if theres a risk of getting raided by the police then it doesnt matter how free it is, it shouldnt be self hosted. if you cant afford to host it somewhere secure then dont host it at all 2026-02-23T00:57:24Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsf3azyqy9pyyplm6n27svqdq0ma6rwplllp502hd2aep4yfz2gh4qzyqysjg74alrucs63pw27uunul54se3df8vh9tg2d9cvdz3gyjncq2xlq57k In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsgq5h4y979xscs0jc5d5wsxa2ye56jnuufyqa9r48fatwt0emc3tq59agwt'>nevent1q…agwt</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>then why would they use poland and not like some VPS provider? 2026-02-23T00:46:27Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqspayal0qpkhcg4fp7dyw6la69hkxcqzaxl9ng29njjjf06kzuj7kqzyqysjg74alrucs63pw27uunul54se3df8vh9tg2d9cvdz3gyjncq23lcnep In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs2lf30a96x8mmm6ey3dc74mxu3fp4lrterk407hrv9rt5kdx6cndq3rc6u0'>nevent1q…c6u0</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>? 2026-02-22T22:37:50Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqstz8q4wd83cudrvwh9ejx0z2rdq3l7uzfx936659l25sexhhjczvgzyqysjg74alrucs63pw27uunul54se3df8vh9tg2d9cvdz3gyjncq2vraugu i need to get a nice school uniform... the really nice ones are so expensive tho &gt;.&lt; 2026-02-14T06:05:44Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsfdj8pmjm8xu377tucw2p4v27tfv4zde0vpa8fl8lmzudsftk3fegzyqysjg74alrucs63pw27uunul54se3df8vh9tg2d9cvdz3gyjncq2dvgd5a In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsqsaph4ryufu9zg8zjh63wnkkuqqk5j6q06tm9v6cgtvqu4k9u8wg5cgy7l'>nevent1q…gy7l</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>personally I selfhost nextcloud. It has file storage (with optional server side encryption) and it has a desktop sync app so I can have my files locally and edit them and stuff. Then I run pika backup (Borg backup) daily to backup the files. I plan on getting some sort of flash drive for them to be backed up to that way if my PC fails I can just grab the drive and it&#39;ll have the most recent shit. <br/>Borg is also supposed to run backups on next cloud on my VPS but I ran out the storage again lol. Music and stream archives are big 2026-02-13T03:18:38Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsdz20wvcgplz4juq6cehzuepr6axtyl0s4un2zh9dzns3sslcuwfszyqysjg74alrucs63pw27uunul54se3df8vh9tg2d9cvdz3gyjncq2g83r04 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqspzn5y49hu3j65rzlguxvqf9mrzye5q6s7w32x8w5r6k9xxm8kadq7pangf'>nevent1q…angf</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>and something end to end encrypted like proton, at that 2026-02-12T23:27:29Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqspzn5y49hu3j65rzlguxvqf9mrzye5q6s7w32x8w5r6k9xxm8kadqzyqysjg74alrucs63pw27uunul54se3df8vh9tg2d9cvdz3gyjncq2al2lf0 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsg45cnjjacrzhkp9cntffxv282cths758q9qryklk6l2uueg6z2rsmld6h9'>nevent1q…d6h9</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>shouldn&#39;t be relying on it, yes, but better to use real cloud storage than discord lol 2026-02-12T23:02:08Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqs90zt2s7xexzcfx6gg04hf063usnxv5d806lfkmzhgp4fwuv0kgwgzyqysjg74alrucs63pw27uunul54se3df8vh9tg2d9cvdz3gyjncq2klzlne In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs95s72mvtwupt92yqk4kkcdyd327fsqgu04w2umjnn4pxg0677kxslvt07m'>nevent1q…t07m</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>wdym? what are you storing on discord? how are you storing stuff on discord? 2026-02-12T20:27:43Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsy23c24jzewjkxru73pkpcp3m8wm8lf9kn8drr7u0u4mryd8lqf3czyqysjg74alrucs63pw27uunul54se3df8vh9tg2d9cvdz3gyjncq2th2d0q Fuck discord BTW. I&#39;ve been drafting up a blog article about why everyone should leave discord and since its topically appropriate I&#39;ll probably publish it next month 2026-02-12T19:11:08Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsvsuem59sl78947lsl0j2lhg8yrsz5s2l7wl0lpl85k5xy4xzs5rqzyqysjg74alrucs63pw27uunul54se3df8vh9tg2d9cvdz3gyjncq2qtxrux In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsrjn2fqxqk3s4d0ch7vnhqj2frhfdnmdmqlfg7vuktahpc6clf24c8vqel8'>nevent1q…qel8</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>idk if natalie has messaged me or not, i dont see anything yet. additionally, if its the natalie im thinking of, i think we have each other on signal? 2026-02-03T00:26:36Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqs8jn9343uz3z9tuyk064z0xzcqfemy6hxguh5ntkk347gy0kpa66czyqysjg74alrucs63pw27uunul54se3df8vh9tg2d9cvdz3gyjncq2ua0rew lmao someone reported me for being pro-c. idk if it was supposed to federate or just be local to their instance or what <br/>hmmm. what do yall think, should i ban myself from my personal instance? 2026-02-02T22:55:31Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqswzyzhkp5g8748cdsachs2726etzhsadsh53yfdwev35f5f20dztszyqysjg74alrucs63pw27uunul54se3df8vh9tg2d9cvdz3gyjncq2vn3vpk In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsx85fy4uev5qskzd46f8gj7ttlq3sq0tlt8e56r6gp3ev64q6pjyq4saq7a'>nevent1q…aq7a</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>well, i have this instance, but it&#39;s just for me 2026-02-02T22:53:44Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsx85fy4uev5qskzd46f8gj7ttlq3sq0tlt8e56r6gp3ev64q6pjyqzyqysjg74alrucs63pw27uunul54se3df8vh9tg2d9cvdz3gyjncq2kt8k98 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsvnmjjcn0zn8x4c4xd0zvjxnza9c97fgkg9z5yjzs9ehzk5gkmhlg20uf0w'>nevent1q…uf0w</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>i dont have an instance? i used to though. can you ask her what instance she&#39;s referring to? 2026-02-02T22:52:50Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsyhlrp3v3xjn62rwck0g0sgwlu5jm0xwrrpf3zlt00u8q70e56tggzyqysjg74alrucs63pw27uunul54se3df8vh9tg2d9cvdz3gyjncq2qvq5y3 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqspvaky43wxh7u02786884362c39zk9yte40vg8rcdfmlwa7avaays5lg8rc'>nevent1q…g8rc</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>uh hello? Sometimes my instance doesn&#39;t federate messages so I&#39;m unsure if this is part of a thread or if you&#39;re just tagging me fsr. Is something up? 2026-02-02T22:25:07Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqswsr8e6z3g8gnthtvy8vu0kskxl468cz8qwj2pflvnrlnjrvxl32qzyqysjg74alrucs63pw27uunul54se3df8vh9tg2d9cvdz3gyjncq2ujnqed Morning ramen<br/> <img src="https://media.allykotetsu.com/media/6c38a13a49cf0376543e7f35f7faf400be60c61a28c700131a2831cbbac9f310.jpg"> <br/> 2026-01-31T18:47:51Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqst0qhclysx7n6xkmwtw4j2qnvms2rg309xxv7z7gqdf4ss3ezss8szyqysjg74alrucs63pw27uunul54se3df8vh9tg2d9cvdz3gyjncq2ejuxvs Another piece of free MMS swag I was gifted. Looks great on my backpack!<br/> <img src="https://media.allykotetsu.com/media/2b7ebdeb3dd1417a7680381c4ef02fd2eb7248f7ae9f8f686065e9e99384fd67.jpg"> <br/> 2026-01-17T00:30:19Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqs0z48n4wzkf548mvye5t65we7a6vsuude8jdshmhfa64yygaa5veczyqysjg74alrucs63pw27uunul54se3df8vh9tg2d9cvdz3gyjncq2c6xsy9 Do you think minor attraction could become more socially accepted by the end of your life? For the purposes of this poll i am defining social acceptance as approximately half of the population of the country you live in accepting people of your contact stance 2026-01-14T22:16:44Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqs8gyzmxr5h9aaef9lpttuhtk4g8muj64fm32k8ha9fwmx0tp738qqzyqysjg74alrucs63pw27uunul54se3df8vh9tg2d9cvdz3gyjncq2fumsfc In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqszszwhz7avvpugz33zkc6gxd2wye6u6nd45559cp6wk0307ya4sdcvdzqpk'>nevent1q…zqpk</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>yes, Washington state (not Washington DC) 2026-01-12T20:56:24Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqs2f2xzparuftfrqc5lvqxp8zfd03remm457t35twql6n8949zmzwgzyqysjg74alrucs63pw27uunul54se3df8vh9tg2d9cvdz3gyjncq20mumrh In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs8xuf4hdkc5cu9a4ugajpvf7etgkjxcvaqnvrzml658k4wh586phsux4y5z'>nevent1q…4y5z</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Share this with anyone you know who lives in WA. This state is fairly progressive so there&#39;s a chance we could stop it 2026-01-12T20:51:28Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqs8xuf4hdkc5cu9a4ugajpvf7etgkjxcvaqnvrzml658k4wh586phszyqysjg74alrucs63pw27uunul54se3df8vh9tg2d9cvdz3gyjncq2572t6s For anyone who lives in WA, age-verification for access to porn online is being introduced as a bill. I know our legal system and government is broken, but you can still make a difference! <br/>You can made your voice heard by commenting on the bill, or even attend the hearing (either remotely or in-person) to testify. <br/>Fight it here: <a href="https://app.leg.wa.gov/billsummary?BillNumber=2112&amp;Year=2025&amp;Chamber=House">https://app.leg.wa.gov/billsummary?BillNumber=2112&amp;Year=2025&amp;Chamber=House</a> 2026-01-12T20:48:58Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqswfst342n9slr7r6fgzez8farrvke3tfedu4tgdvm8v9z29p6xz4czyqysjg74alrucs63pw27uunul54se3df8vh9tg2d9cvdz3gyjncq2dcq9k7 <img src="https://media.allykotetsu.com/media/0a5189f71c878bdaa8df9989232e5ce3b07651048054941fd15394b892e24f1e.jpg"> <br/> <img src="https://media.allykotetsu.com/media/e7eae9791a3aac8c38b8258a5be309d1a2dd93898561dbc970da5b66402e967a.jpg"> <br/> 2026-01-10T04:29:09Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsve2puuy6hl4dh6plejjg6le04qgar22gcz2ceh73ajzqd4dsqwgszyqysjg74alrucs63pw27uunul54se3df8vh9tg2d9cvdz3gyjncq2n8xezj I find myself wanting to have my own online community again. I used to have a Discord server where I posted Minecraft modding stuff, music, and live streams. I miss discord but I won&#39;t go back to it, which leaves me with a few options <br/>I&#39;m seriously considering Matrix, which kinda sucks but not that much. If I did I&#39;d probably have to self host it tho, which isn&#39;t so bad but my server is suffering lol <br/>The other option is Stoat (previously Revolt). Its a discord clone that&#39;s pretty cool. Its not encrypted but it can be self hosted. But I think if I did that people wouldn&#39;t want me hosting their info in plaintext <br/>I wish there was a good option 😭 I could use Signal but these days I only give out my Signal account to people I know well, that and it&#39;s not organized the same way Discord is. Seriously considering forking Stoat to add e2ee 2026-01-09T08:36:04Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqs9fklzf9fdzftrjk9jhnmsd8pmccljxyyqsq6xzk647gayt74ndeqzyqysjg74alrucs63pw27uunul54se3df8vh9tg2d9cvdz3gyjncq25pewdu Today&#39;s breakfast: pikachu waffle tower with peanut butter and maple syrup<br/> <img src="https://media.allykotetsu.com/media/145f14b1e826b52e6aa38960a46ffc5a597c3e669daf752370287a74bd9c8ac0.jpg"> <br/> 2025-12-22T19:29:00Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqs80yemls8qycslz69dqgge6ndxlfmux04lx7gu8hwpkj749y0q5mczyqysjg74alrucs63pw27uunul54se3df8vh9tg2d9cvdz3gyjncq2c7jd94 someday i think it&#39;d be cool to bring an artist or two onto Bt+ to do stuff for the blog. we could have a monthly/weekly cartoon (like the ones in a newspaper), or maybe even a webcomic 2025-12-21T06:17:27Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsqek8507d37993c74gt98xfj64dakgh6lva9stelns94dmse7jvfszyqysjg74alrucs63pw27uunul54se3df8vh9tg2d9cvdz3gyjncq2eg3yhd Haven&#39;t been drunk in a while lol, this feels nice 2025-12-20T03:10:33Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsyjer2vm4hpvmu7csdv5vnrrcemfqt7jpm2lecqqhpgmqv2mg88nqzyqysjg74alrucs63pw27uunul54se3df8vh9tg2d9cvdz3gyjncq20erx3a In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsw6w0759wpnh0nerxl4fxt03ksgmytaay8t463dmzvme6nga98g6qug46zx'>nevent1q…46zx</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>its also important that we involve youth in the fight. MAP issues are equally about adults and youth. We&#39;ll never have our rights if they don&#39;t have theirs. Youthlib is the cornerstone of MAP rights 2025-12-17T07:33:14Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqs8c34eem4zeutf982vp6cwklcrchudy2p4ar4te434k9nwdcz694gzyqysjg74alrucs63pw27uunul54se3df8vh9tg2d9cvdz3gyjncq29xhqpm In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsw6w0759wpnh0nerxl4fxt03ksgmytaay8t463dmzvme6nga98g6qug46zx'>nevent1q…46zx</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>in order for laws to change we need people behind that. You&#39;re not gonna get people to protest and sign petitions and stuff while we&#39;re all so spread out. Its crucial that we be forming communities (public or private ones) to bring people together and give people something to fall back on in case activism causes them harm. But at that point then yes we should be fighting stigma. But its also important to note that while MAPs are still underground people aren&#39;t gonna take our message seriously. Trying to change an anti&#39;s mind is gonna work if they&#39;re Hardset on being an antimap, cuz they&#39;re not gonna read whatever you say. Opinions are changed when people come face to face with those they are oppressing. Only then they can challenge their preconceived ideas, when its somewhere they can&#39;t ignore and coming from someone they already trust and know isn&#39;t a monster 2025-12-17T07:30:02Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsdemdqj02884cawsf2aas7kf2gsp000dr3ezax0t2y530vesyuglczyqysjg74alrucs63pw27uunul54se3df8vh9tg2d9cvdz3gyjncq2rmymfu In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsxrmljd7fth5fs2mn7v8g4nw82tvze6wpw8p8jhd6k4sekskrq63sl58szr'>nevent1q…8szr</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Zach haddel. He voices pym from smiling friends. He&#39;s the orange crappy fish 2025-12-17T07:25:20Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqs9q0pkgs2a3sj0pd63mrruwz9nw3h4c2g7rshjlmg5hp97unmwwvszyqysjg74alrucs63pw27uunul54se3df8vh9tg2d9cvdz3gyjncq22cu8gq In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsd57mvfjljyz2j3m00mwpe88saxwwhzqgqdcph3z00srunja9u9ksusa58q'>nevent1q…a58q</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>i liked it! also had somewhat mixed feelings, but i think those are related to the show&#39;s overall pacing and less the episode itself. i liked the zach haddel cameo lol 2025-12-16T22:02:49Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsrhs75t5lgemnlm7ncaedj7dxj4elj76nuhegsh62avusuynnhakszyqysjg74alrucs63pw27uunul54se3df8vh9tg2d9cvdz3gyjncq255ka8q Finally figured out how to make a hidden service for Bt+! Anyone browsing who wants a boost to privacy can use Bt+&#39;s onion link through TOR. The link can be found on the bottom of any page on the site. <br/>I know some sites have a popup appear when using TOR to show that you can use the onion link, not sure how they do that though. 2025-12-16T04:04:06Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqst0seuufgj8erg7awhzsgw6f72yq9p2w59q5p2lfke8hzum3tn6wqzyqysjg74alrucs63pw27uunul54se3df8vh9tg2d9cvdz3gyjncq2pjsxvz I should start a band and name it &#34;Dennis and the Implication&#34; after Its Always Sunny In Philadelphia. That scene is gold 2025-12-13T16:19:24Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsrm2uxpkk3evz5z6k8r5xw4wtt8zm82c7gjrwupnhayw6pe0hdvgqzyqysjg74alrucs63pw27uunul54se3df8vh9tg2d9cvdz3gyjncq2wt90h7 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs8n72cssyp53lzm4n2vwcv420shkn962axlj78qh0tpuassxlwumgsxsrzq'>nevent1q…srzq</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>its important to recognize that mainstream science used to think being queer was a fetish too, and for a long time being trans was thought to be a fetish as well. <br/>MAP and zoo attraction is not seen as a fetish for a few reasons. Its not always sexual, there are asexual MAPs and zoos. There&#39;s also the aspect that feet and urine elicit an erotic response naturally due to being a fetish, whereas for MAP and zoo kids and animals don&#39;t. Its not that they are sexually exciting, but that they expand the realm of who we are attracted to. In the same way that being gay isn&#39;t a fetish for men, its having that shape your orientation as a whole 2025-12-13T01:31:54Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqs2q379668jm8ezgwlvjp32xaq2v6n0az6ajzp65pzdqqyqysjvy8szyqysjg74alrucs63pw27uunul54se3df8vh9tg2d9cvdz3gyjncq23na5wh In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs9qn8rv87j4lzu68rr4uy8352ty8nd8c2u7zz7plvgxupjsp7l8pqkjm26t'>nevent1q…m26t</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>out of curiosity why don&#39;t you think they&#39;re queer? 2025-12-13T01:23:01Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsf0efmxkdx97mfcze4ze2as522g2rkpt733ce9pgs3m9f8q2n0ayczyqysjg74alrucs63pw27uunul54se3df8vh9tg2d9cvdz3gyjncq25h8ypa new digital circus in an hour AAAA im so excited! 2025-12-12T22:01:12Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsqlckydvfh3xm04t3r0y6lxppdp68hvdwzppvc7w737she8xtx60gzyqysjg74alrucs63pw27uunul54se3df8vh9tg2d9cvdz3gyjncq2twar08 # Poll <br/>Do you know any other radqueers/maps/transid/etc IRL? 2025-12-12T20:38:10Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqs2kpnx87sky70wn5pxd598ztl6y9j60ssgc3tpn9wnz8sckgevpnqzyqysjg74alrucs63pw27uunul54se3df8vh9tg2d9cvdz3gyjncq2cafyym my biggest hot take: activism is dangerous work. there can&#39;t be a radical movement for people to gain rights if there isn&#39;t some risk involved. sure, there are safer forms of activism that are valid, but if we all let fear control our actions then we wont get anywhere. we should prioritize safety above all else, but the best activism work will never be 100% safe, and people need to learn to be okay with that 2025-12-10T02:22:15Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsvyn8zqvr6e7x4at0p8h7evtn2dm492crdjly4hz933e3gkz9myrczyqysjg74alrucs63pw27uunul54se3df8vh9tg2d9cvdz3gyjncq2xzxel7 Everyday I am reminded of how awful social media is and I wonder why I came back to pedi. What&#39;s the point of trying to get my message out here and help the radqueer community when everyone would rather goon, doom scroll, and blindly follow instance admins? <br/>Everyday it gets harder and harder to believe that the majority of this community isn&#39;t feds trying to dishearten the rest of us, it would certainly explain a lot if that was true 2025-12-08T21:39:22Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsyrllr9ycjs0rw523c8wfunqen0qnv2krug57sggklxzndhd25k6szyqysjg74alrucs63pw27uunul54se3df8vh9tg2d9cvdz3gyjncq2k6huqg If Bt+ were to be able to offer something to members besides events, what would be something we could do? 2025-12-04T18:24:13Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsvq3c6dd67h0ultzstp2z8a20x2vl5e25ejdjd2ll7366yw3lchcczyqysjg74alrucs63pw27uunul54se3df8vh9tg2d9cvdz3gyjncq2q0cmad How is it already December tomorrow... Where has this year gone 2025-11-30T18:56:58Z