2024-04-02T03:19:56Z https://nostr.now des https://nostr.now/npub1mj2n5g2gsq4rhcqwmgegvux42dq5alfp3gv4zw8jnuw06zdwelysxxz5r2 https://m.primal.net/HqYz.jpg https://m.primal.net/HqYz.jpg https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsg03zk6mc9sdf4fltxdmf7jz454nm4h82tcy6hs9fn5kk2d2qwdgqzyrwf2w3pfzqz5wlqpmdr9pns64f5znhayx9pj5fc7203elgf4m8uj4szff0 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsqh66ev2xvc9mn9r4pcylvxfuarwn49c390gsu3vwlqefuw624k2ssx8944'>nevent1q…8944</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I love this idea! Is this something I can do now? 2024-04-01T18:40:57Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsvn5fj9sjk76rxm8av6tn8wy5wmsu8ez9esw4l0h8c474k7fs4m4qzyrwf2w3pfzqz5wlqpmdr9pns64f5znhayx9pj5fc7203elgf4m8ujn65985 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsxu22y5qz9lc6lvnzt5h46kpuv26xvg2sd8pq70cvh34d4ptwjy2q53ndx7'>nevent1q…ndx7</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Other platforms allow users to be blocked and reported and potentially banned from using the platform for hate/harassment/etc. This isn’t the case on nostr of course because that completely goes against the whole foundation of nostr. <br/><br/>There’s too many issues to list, but you can research it if it’s helpful. To me, it feels like a microcosm of being a woman in the world. For example, I posted a picture of myself but then received hate for it because I’ve brought up mistreatment by other nostr men (aka if I post a picture like that then I deserve mistreatment). We’re held to the same BS societal guidelines here as we are in the real world. And when women bring up the issues here (in a kind way), we’re still unheard, harassed, and not considered. We just want our experiences to be considered, not dismissed. I hope that helps. 2024-04-01T17:09:56Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsf4tjk68rykm3euzqadrxqfmckw5p2mvwmt68w3kn0fdrxun5g55gzyrwf2w3pfzqz5wlqpmdr9pns64f5znhayx9pj5fc7203elgf4m8ujysa95y I think it’s easy to say just mute the person. But if you don’t have the lived experience of being a woman, or being part of a marginalized group, you will never understand our experience, especially what it’s like to be on nostr.<br/><br/>I love nostr AND it’s challenging to be here because it feels like (again, from my perspective) another man’s world; built by men, for men, that only men will truly benefit from (if you feel defensive after reading that, you may want to self-reflect on why). <br/><br/>I understand the purpose and updates being made consistently. But without some type of protection from the /harassment/hate, I just can’t see nostr expanding the ways it’s envisioned. <br/><br/>I appreciate the men on here that have been kind to me and have my back. You’re the only reason I’ve stayed 🫂 <br/><br/>And please don’t come for me, I’m tired today 😂<br/><blockquote class="border-l-05rem border-l-strongpink border-solid"><div class="-ml-4 bg-gradient-to-r from-gray-100 dark:from-zinc-800 to-transparent mr-0 mt-0 mb-4 pl-4 pr-2 py-2">quoting <br/><span itemprop="mentions" itemscope itemtype="https://schema.org/Article"><a itemprop="url" href="/note18yj7n9w9sz2w6qurttjszzrr5qq4qdyg4xv7f9naz7tt2xa4qc2qqdyql0" class="bg-lavender dark:prose:text-neutral-50 dark:text-neutral-50 dark:bg-garnet px-1">note18yj…yql0</a></span> </div> I'm tired of the crazies chasing women off of Nostr.<br/>This place doesn't need to be a sausage fest. That is your choice, anon. </blockquote> 2024-04-01T16:33:00Z