2026-10-25T17:20:57Z https://nostr.now LilaHexe https://nostr.now/npub1g5969qdg88d6xzjy3hjmknap4av6whq3pjzfc7md2g3pkrjjcp3sdtmh9t https://fedi.lilahexe.top/files/4386c36e-a16a-4154-8114-643a65aad19f https://fedi.lilahexe.top/files/4386c36e-a16a-4154-8114-643a65aad19f https://nostr.now/nevent1qqs9u8hmqv9ep0xj3yaf8vm9fka5kddmxq7uvjksddmh64d09crgucszypzshg5p4quahgc2gjx7tw605xh4nf6uzyxgf8rmd4fzyxcw2tqxxgq6w77 I need one of these 2026-10-03T02:41:05Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqspmcv6qyjfty3qm6a6fh87r3nq44uqp9apwtmk8uh4ky8nkqne2yszypzshg5p4quahgc2gjx7tw605xh4nf6uzyxgf8rmd4fzyxcw2tqxxjqm9ws In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsvdwj4sjkkcfhwxfnmt8uakt9a6qlxrl0amd7z8gxzvgg6lv7vvksyln0yd'>nevent1q…n0yd</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Excuse me, there is one that doesn&#39;t!! 2026-09-05T15:47:19Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsgggsyp6fs3wmvf8gzmuf9n8rnt898a0lxqxwz25xj9k3h7tg64egzypzshg5p4quahgc2gjx7tw605xh4nf6uzyxgf8rmd4fzyxcw2tqxxktnwv5 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs8ut9sc84n8gxgk0jkfuwprwskcg47xkyfgmce93k5pcmuewjapjqmlxd4t'>nevent1q…xd4t</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I remember seeing some dude there who was trying to cut a metal pipe with a wood saw for at least 5 full minutes 2026-05-22T20:07:33Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsxjkve5u5g0fjunc7s0ah7veusvnjst0n9weu879ukpq9e0rev4sgzypzshg5p4quahgc2gjx7tw605xh4nf6uzyxgf8rmd4fzyxcw2tqxxu2m5uq &gt; My advice to incoming graduate students is very simple: AI is the Trillion Dollar Zombie, and extended use is likely to lead to your brain being eaten. The Zombie feeds in small bites, so it can be hard to detect, but every time you offload your decision-making and analytical powers to the machine, you are letting it take a nibble.<br/><br/>&gt; You might think this is an extreme stance, far outside what we commonly hear in mass media. I think it is a reasonable way to treat a poorly understood public health threat, and AI is very much a threat to our well-being. While the technology is still young, we are already seeing in the news the awful effects on people in the tail end of the distribution of users. People who use AI heavily for counseling or romantic relationships tend to go right off the deep end. Their brains have been eaten. We even see effects on MathOverflow - people who are convinced that they have proved some big problem, and some AI has told them they are right and even helped to write a plausible-looking paper. Similar to other public health threats like heavy-metal poisoning, we initially only see direct effects with certainty on the tail end of the distribution, and normal effects are likely to be uncertain and depend on other susceptibility factors. This is not a reason to conclude that it is safe for normal levels of use. Indeed, we should learn from the history of how we have treated public health threats in the face of fat wallets, and listen more to people with small voices who sound alarms.<br/><br/>(<a href="https://mathoverflow.net/a/511268">https://mathoverflow.net/a/511268</a>) 2026-05-14T16:46:48Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsrtcf28tuxmmmp5d632hfgfdfd6k7gdky7rxnx5xy5e0k2ns8etgqzypzshg5p4quahgc2gjx7tw605xh4nf6uzyxgf8rmd4fzyxcw2tqxx3dyahq In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs285h46wjtu3jlcqfx9czdlmh3px0xd3wzz3gy4ygxrq98ekykplgmqf4w5'>nevent1q…f4w5</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Damn I should change careers 2026-05-07T11:26:31Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsfjfl8tgqap8hrwkfpkrhzs28r30uj7rdsqw6c2jnqa5fmgg2p69szypzshg5p4quahgc2gjx7tw605xh4nf6uzyxgf8rmd4fzyxcw2tqxxpwy87u So this article about a recent study is floating around my feed at the moment: <a href="https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/08862605261432630">https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/08862605261432630</a><br/><br/>Basically, the gist is that &#34;95.1% [of surveyed men] reported having recently used at least one of the strategies to [force] a woman to have sex who they knew did not want sex and had not consented.&#34;<br/><br/>Which is fucked. Extra fucked that the study only asks about the last 4 years. So these are all *recent* occurrences.<br/><br/>But there are some things I would like to note:<br/><br/>- The study is not, and does not claim to be, representative. That &#34;95.1% [of surveyed men]&#34; should not and cannot be extrapolated to all men. The rate for men in general is probably still staggeringly high, but I seriously doubt it is *that* high.<br/><br/>- Before the survey, &#34;The consent form indicated that the survey was men’s opportunity “to provide their side of the story given that we have heard so much from women”&#34; which would *presumably* make the demographic that does not force women to have sex, run the fuck away from the survey.<br/><br/>- There is an error in one of the tables, probably because the data was at some point written out by hand, instead of being copy-pasted from an automatically generated table. This doesn&#39;t directly mean anything about the quality of the data, but it is a bit odd that this happened. I&#39;ve contacted the authors to clarify what happened here.<br/><br/>To be clear, I still think this study is valuable. As the article says: &#34;This is one of the first studies to our knowledge to directly survey men anonymously about recent attempts to force an unwilling and nonconsenting woman to have sex.&#34; That&#39;s incredibly, incredibly valuable.<br/><br/>The scientific community needs to start focusing on the perpetrators of sexual violence - because those are the people who need to change, to help ensure the safety of everyone. And this study, despite its flaws, takes us all one step closer to that.<br/><br/>Disclaimer: I&#39;m an *amateur* sexologist, which is a fancy way of saying that I find sex and sexual relationships very interesting, but I have zero formal qualifications. I&#39;m also not an expert in interpreting academic writings. I may have missed or misinterpreted something important. 2026-04-14T21:35:21Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqs2xt30nhgcaf6uhvzzzt2aa4clau9a086lcymevytclj7h5ag7flqzypzshg5p4quahgc2gjx7tw605xh4nf6uzyxgf8rmd4fzyxcw2tqxxnrays6 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsd09spjstpgdza5gs2qr556an48wtyehf4thkll2yq3qt3daye87qd8gmq4'>nevent1q…gmq4</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>wow brave of you to come crawling back to fedi 2026-04-09T15:23:34Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqs2zs3ev082kjhtr8pprnycgrk5w8n6jeq72nd8esfc7ql2ssha4xszypzshg5p4quahgc2gjx7tw605xh4nf6uzyxgf8rmd4fzyxcw2tqxxgqqhmt In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsvyzg5ec8l8r9hwm4q8hsachatnezvvnt3vcnnxfc025mt03f4kvc0vxxmm'>nevent1q…xxmm</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>lmao WHAT 2026-04-02T16:10:59Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqswqeqckdl4ru4xh6wchpc9f4kpgv8eekz0wnrlj225kgawqt86qaczypzshg5p4quahgc2gjx7tw605xh4nf6uzyxgf8rmd4fzyxcw2tqxxcpn6rj In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs0gyl6492kuw984zl5r0vnnttj55guu3x0t4ktrsrp8t2xqtftwngedjya2'>nevent1q…jya2</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>when mcafee on pmOS? 2026-04-02T15:16:43Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqstq7j5z3vdh225ry9u25s9ftp7w2e3j3ww87hny8l0d6fyvfztf9czypzshg5p4quahgc2gjx7tw605xh4nf6uzyxgf8rmd4fzyxcw2tqxxjglrka In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqstfgcrpchyklxhnd2amawv7hqm95dee0emay8dczt2nuwtrvywz0cu92xfg'>nevent1q…2xfg</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I love it so much.<br/><br/>I have a domain which is very similar to the university I&#39;m a student at. Could I please have your permission to make a copy of that page and host it on the &#34;ai&#34; subdomain of that fake page?<br/><br/>I&#39;d obviously edit the text at the bottom to credit you and link back to the original page.<br/><br/>Also, no worries if you&#39;d rather not! Then I can do a redirect and it&#39;ll still be funny 2026-04-02T14:08:05Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsrqz8j99txdumvvyvw7k3vv2fftgva2v8z4yhjgtc7lmzzcz36lgqzypzshg5p4quahgc2gjx7tw605xh4nf6uzyxgf8rmd4fzyxcw2tqxxxeg9h7 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs07265vgr0c8789ujq07qedv3u3pkdttfk3exkmdp730sm0jj3ugca6ynhf'>nevent1q…ynhf</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>it&#39;s important to be friends with yourself! 2026-04-02T12:16:17Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsrm4fdgmz0jzp4t833uh42jdhw7f2elzamd626w53hgy7pth8jkeqzypzshg5p4quahgc2gjx7tw605xh4nf6uzyxgf8rmd4fzyxcw2tqxxzrz4ee I&#39;m looking for an alarm clock. Definitely no internet, radio is fine tho. Needs to work *every time*, and be reasonably loud for at least a minute when ringing. Needs to be silent when it isn&#39;t ringing (no ticking!). Cheaper alarms are preferred<br/><br/>Bonus points if it&#39;s purple 2026-03-17T18:19:51Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqszdner5ey3fcsnrwkgc4xlp0mzm987ck484gxmtpfmkaqrcaq7jrgzypzshg5p4quahgc2gjx7tw605xh4nf6uzyxgf8rmd4fzyxcw2tqxxagzm0p Does anyone want a ticket to firebound (<a href="https://www.firebound.de/">https://www.firebound.de/</a>)? I can&#39;t go because it is right after another event I want to go to. I&#39;m selling it for the very-early-bird price I paid for it (169EUR) 2026-02-10T16:37:55Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqs0d84p0se4a87epjvsclf2u6axm8nn5fplphkffltemdgfnepmmmczypzshg5p4quahgc2gjx7tw605xh4nf6uzyxgf8rmd4fzyxcw2tqxx5g6v96 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsfj2ycnj32zkpz5dn7tn6a2hehpj035px5x8grff0n8z2kmg788sqn5erv6'>nevent1q…erv6</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>omg same!!!! 2026-02-07T22:59:37Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsdf4qta50swtvcc4rpgjty7xpazq7qzw9ppxk36m83pnrxlp6jfhczypzshg5p4quahgc2gjx7tw605xh4nf6uzyxgf8rmd4fzyxcw2tqxx9fsqlv In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs83axk95t0jxyeejd55w4wqseydh9y7ecr47hhxwm9xzphxtajkaqny0qwn'>nevent1q…0qwn</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>ooooo purple!! 2026-02-07T20:35:31Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqszz7gaftd93w8j52mpjj5v4ckt2jjv8mtj9lezcec4zcq32vca0uqzypzshg5p4quahgc2gjx7tw605xh4nf6uzyxgf8rmd4fzyxcw2tqxxncqfnw Anyone know where I could get a high-quality vegan straitjacket? Bonus points if it&#39;s purple 2025-12-12T23:26:08Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqs86gy26w8t2dszv27t2am9lwkmqghfx3mjhfjaymqr95tf8tykseczypzshg5p4quahgc2gjx7tw605xh4nf6uzyxgf8rmd4fzyxcw2tqxxp7yvgp In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsrnr9csahq65z2n0ansn3egw03uefewdcdn4zhlc7tmhvz8ryr0dqtljhaz'>nevent1q…jhaz</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>...what?? 2025-10-10T13:44:15Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsz7zrx0kkw9jtfcrftasdv4wvrrw7v85h8qsnud5depm47nkc892czypzshg5p4quahgc2gjx7tw605xh4nf6uzyxgf8rmd4fzyxcw2tqxx6lmhvc So many pride flags represented here 🥰<br/><a href="https://fedi.lilahexe.top/files/8938cf4d-19ed-4929-a78b-598d4d903a55">https://fedi.lilahexe.top/files/8938cf4d-19ed-4929-a78b-598d4d903a55</a><br/> 2025-06-07T17:16:44Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqs0a0f3vu0c5gxhl0ml40g9tanuedvkptkf6zqa6r48e2dh2630npqzypzshg5p4quahgc2gjx7tw605xh4nf6uzyxgf8rmd4fzyxcw2tqxxesrhnd In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqstyhp7fk376aafwqcq8kv737lpwgama0j0v890xdu0pt0j244gvlct6c2f0'>nevent1q…c2f0</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>unfortunately it is not as cut-and-dry as the law seems to say: <a href="https://www.anwalt.de/rechtstipps/neue-rechtsprechung-zur-genehmigungsfiktion-im-krankenversicherungsrecht_169857.html">https://www.anwalt.de/rechtstipps/neue-rechtsprechung-zur-genehmigungsfiktion-im-krankenversicherungsrecht_169857.html</a><br/><br/>TL;DR the &#34;Fiktionsgenehmigung&#34; is only valid until the insurance company denies the request. Then it counts as denied again 2025-05-10T08:20:12Z