Nostr notes by Alfred Pomeroy Jones

The fuck?? ...

2026-08-10T09:26:17Z

The fuck??
https://www.theguardian.com/environment/2026/aug/10/harry-potter-fans-force-relocation-of-430m-undersea-cable-to-avoid-dobbys-grave?CMP=Share_iOSApp_Other

Any of my #Melbourne Mastodon friends need furniture? I've ...

2026-07-25T05:18:07Z

Any of my #Melbourne Mastodon friends need furniture?

I've got

- A load of bookshelves I'm not taking to Sydney.
- Couple of workbenches (the kind with the pegboard back,
- a nice marble-topped kitchen island,
- a hydraulic sit-stand mini desk and an office chair
- a nice TV/entertainment unit
- a modular sofa
- a fabric bench seat
- Some 1080p monitors
- hydraulic monitor arms
- A giant cable drum coffee table
- Loads of other random bits and bobs.

All sorts of stuff. Some of it might end up at a charity shop or trashed if it's not taken away. I can't take it ALL to Sydney, and besides it won't all fit.

They're all going cheap or free.

If #CountBinface doesn't win, Clacton should get in the sea ...

2026-07-17T06:01:46Z

If #CountBinface doesn't win, Clacton should get in the sea

when I am benevolent dictator of this nation, the people that ...

2026-06-19T05:03:53Z

In reply to nevent1q…lngn
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when I am benevolent dictator of this nation, the people that designed that system will be gibbeted outside parliament house and there will be free shuttle buses so they can have rotten produce pelted at them for the rest of recorded time.

“we should improve society somewhat”

2026-06-19T03:27:14Z

In reply to nevent1q…8n0d
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“we should improve society somewhat”

the idea that a social safety net can “fine” you is ...

2026-06-19T03:25:55Z

In reply to nevent1q…qqsh
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the idea that a social safety net can “fine” you is abhorrent.

it kinda is. Blatant social media fodder, but fun for Lego nerds ...

2026-06-13T08:03:27Z

In reply to nevent1q…aj4a
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it kinda is. Blatant social media fodder, but fun for Lego nerds like us.

And the local parents seem to love it because there are two separated off playrooms, meaning they get a break and the kids get tired out.

We are at the instagram-trap restaurant “Brick Valley Yum ...

2026-06-13T07:33:04Z

We are at the instagram-trap restaurant “Brick Valley Yum Cha” in Glen Waverley

There is a LOT of Lego.

I have issues with news organisations paywalling web content. I ...

2026-06-04T05:47:27Z

I have issues with news organisations paywalling web content.

I do not mind that they want to monetise their journalism. People need to be paid for their work.

I’m fucking annoyed though that none of them have figured out that the equivalent of “buying the paper” is “buying a day pass”

They all want us to subscribe for a month.

Fuck right off. That’s not how this shit works and you are ruining the web with this shit.

Luxury hound ...

2026-06-03T10:30:25Z

Luxury hound

My boy understands 5:4 time. Might need to buy him some better ...

2026-05-22T11:30:06Z

In reply to nevent1q…t6lz
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My boy understands 5:4 time.

Might need to buy him some better drums.

Apparently baby Milo really likes “Money” by Pink Floyd. ...

2026-05-22T11:28:05Z

Apparently baby Milo really likes “Money” by Pink Floyd. Pulled absolutely joyous faces through the version on Delicate Sound of Thunder with Guy Pratt on bass.

Good boy Milo.

And nothing of value was lost ...

2026-04-25T10:37:14Z

And nothing of value was lost
https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/2026/apr/24/millionaire-hunter-dies-elephants-gabon

Here’s the podcast ep. Tell me if I’m missing something here. ...

2026-04-21T04:53:46Z

In reply to nevent1q…p2dx
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Here’s the podcast ep. Tell me if I’m missing something here.

https://pca.st/episode/6610d38c-6f03-443a-b4bc-ee6d8a374775

Fuck me, I'm in an outer suburb at the moment and if I had to ...

2026-04-21T04:52:39Z

In reply to nevent1q…xaku
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Fuck me, I'm in an outer suburb at the moment and if I had to actually commute, and if we hadn't moved here during lockdown, forcing WFH and localised activity, my career and my mental health would be in a fucking hole right now.

Swan: "Isn't it weird that people in Brunswick fill more ...

2026-04-21T04:51:19Z

In reply to nevent1q…cmn9
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Swan: "Isn't it weird that people in Brunswick fill more ADHD prescriptions than Sunshine West? Must be because ADHD is cool and they're all faking it"

Me: NO IT'S NOT. IT'S BECAUSE ADHD PEOPLE ARE CHRONICALLY LATE AND CHRONICALLY UNDERSTIMULATED AND FALL APART IN OUTER SUBURBS

This is concerning because Swan is an influential voice but I ...

2026-04-21T04:48:34Z

In reply to nevent1q…vxxq
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This is concerning because Swan is an influential voice but I think he's missing something crucial about #adhd here.

Listeing to Norman Swan on an ABC podcast talking about Adult ...

2026-04-21T04:47:55Z

Listeing to Norman Swan on an ABC podcast talking about Adult ADHD diagnoses and where they're most prevalent in Australia. He's pointing out that it's weird that it's more common in more "fashionable" suburbs, suggests that's misdiagnosis, and I think his reasoning might be slightly backwards.

ADHD people end up in the suburbs he's cited (Inner west sydney, blue mountains, Brunswick, Darebin) BECAUSE they have ADHD. We make life choices that end up influencing where we live *differently* to neurotypicals.

We WANT to live close to work because commutes are a living nightmare. We also want to live in interesting places because we crave positive stimulation. Just look at *my* residential history FFS.

When I moved to London, I deliberately spent a shitload of money to live in Regent's Park, where I could easily get to work on one train AND hit up my social circles in a short travel. Otherwise I'd be chronically late.
In Sydney, I ended up Inner West and Surry Hills for the same reasons, and I went INSANE when I moved outwards.

And to explain The Blue Mountains - I moved to Bright because I craved positive stimulation and Sydney was not doing it for me - a similar deal to the Blue Mountains.

We actively choose interesting places because living in a boring place and traveling to interesting places DOES NOT WORK FOR ADHD PEOPLE.

Back at the hospital. Doing duolingo/clozemaster with the baby on ...

2026-02-22T01:32:15Z

Back at the hospital. Doing duolingo/clozemaster with the baby on my lap while ashley snoozes.

Could not be happier.

At last, a pint. Mum and bub reunited & on the ward for ...

2026-02-21T11:47:40Z

In reply to nevent1q…nm0l
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At last, a pint.

Mum and bub reunited & on the ward for recovery. Dad kicked out because visiting hours ended at 8. I got the first nappy change, first feed of formula and first difficult dress-the-baby-in-a-onesie because mum was being stabilised after theatre.

IT HAS BEEN A DAY.

Aaaand shortly after that a midwife came out to tell me it’s ...

2026-02-21T06:44:23Z

In reply to nevent1q…9rv5
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Aaaand shortly after that a midwife came out to tell me it’s all gone well.

Heading into recovery in a few minutes!

Well, today has been quite a thing. Currently at Monash Hospital, ...

2026-02-21T06:35:52Z

Well, today has been quite a thing.

Currently at Monash Hospital, in a waiting room outside the operating suites. Ash is in for an early version of the c-section that was planned for Wednesday.

We arrived early afternoon, went through the assessment and pain management phases, then everything totally kicked off at about 5pm. I’m not in the room right now - anaesthetic protocol doesn’t allow it if they use a general…

So “quite a thing” and only going to get more so.

IT IS A PERFECTLY CROMULENT WORD, NY TIMES. ...

2026-02-14T09:09:29Z

IT IS A PERFECTLY CROMULENT WORD, NY TIMES.

Despite the imminent popping of the baby, we went to trivia. Ace ...

2026-02-12T09:25:07Z

Despite the imminent popping of the baby, we went to trivia.

Ace of Base came up in the music round and I had the dubious pleasure of pointing out their Nazi roots.

https://www.vice.com/en/article/ace-of-bases-secret-nazi-past/

I figured discretion is the better part of valour with regard to ...

2026-02-12T06:27:35Z

In reply to nevent1q…wwyl
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I figured discretion is the better part of valour with regard to protests when there could be a red alert at home.

"Baby is in the engaged position" feels like a strong excuse, but I do wish I was there.

Won’t make it to the protest. Midwives have declared the baby ...

2026-02-12T06:04:03Z

Won’t make it to the protest. Midwives have declared the baby could go off at any time. Godspeed though friends.

Good. I’ve never fully understood why it’s tolerated to just ...

2026-01-30T04:38:35Z

Good. I’ve never fully understood why it’s tolerated to just leave your car on public land for free. And don’t even get me started on those arseholes who think they literally own the public road outside their front door.

https://amp.9news.com.au/article/0dfcf1a0-ffc5-4afd-82ce-bb15bba3e2ae

Not so many years ago, computer users - like us - needed faster ...

2025-11-27T12:47:40Z

Not so many years ago, computer users - like us - needed faster processors and more RAM because we literally couldn’t run what *we* needed in what we had.

These days it feels like computer users need more power and more storage because *developers* want it.

Browsers use gigabytes of RAM not because they’re giving users a better experience. They need it because corporate shitheads want to load a hundred third-party trackers in any given website.

Apps need 32GB of ram not because rendering a spreadsheet is hard, but because a pack of shithead developers poked with pitchforks by a bunch of shithead executives WANT TO STEAL YOUR ATTENTION AND YOUR DATA.

I think you understand my point here…

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2025-11-26T12:12:28Z

#instapostswiththreateningauras

Had an absolutely awful work week last week. So, like every other ...

2025-10-12T23:15:21Z

Had an absolutely awful work week last week. So, like every other ADHD person before me, I am attempting to fit the entire previous week into one Monday morning.

All other things being equal, the world is a much better place ...

2025-09-15T03:08:06Z

All other things being equal, the world is a much better place without Charlie Kirk in it.

Unfortunately, all other things are not equal. His scumbag allies are already using it for their own ends, and they're being helped by a fourth estate that's just throwing up its hands and saying "who knows??"

WE KNOW. The shooter in custody was a Groyper, a right wing arsehole, and a bigot with a shit eating grin who talked in code.

And there are still outlets uncritically echoing bullshit about "left wing and trans ideology".

Sigh.

Dumb jokes with #3dprinting : A stool sample ...

2025-09-05T11:35:03Z

Dumb jokes with #3dprinting :

A stool sample

oh no. That's really sad to hear. Ours will get extra treats ...

2025-08-04T00:22:28Z

In reply to nevent1q…072k
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oh no. That's really sad to hear.

Ours will get extra treats when I get home. Especially senior iggy, who's been a bit of a worry lately...

The UK’s age verification changes are, naturally, dumb and bad. ...

2025-07-31T13:30:21Z

The UK’s age verification changes are, naturally, dumb and bad. But here’s a tip for my pommie friends.

A little while ago, I hopped onto a UK VPN endpoint.

For reasons.

And while I was there, I confirmed that Teh Bay of Buccaneers is very much accessible (and just packed to the rafters with that tasty content we all want).

So that’s nice.

"Oh but what can we do about it? AI is coming whether we like ...

2025-07-30T09:21:55Z

In reply to nevent1q…yh8z
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"Oh but what can we do about it? AI is coming whether we like it or not"

BUILD
GUILLOTINES

The first 15 minutes of that AWS meetup was literally "AI AI ...

2025-07-30T09:20:31Z

In reply to nevent1q…up2n
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The first 15 minutes of that AWS meetup was literally "AI AI AI", and nobody seemed annoyed that what's happening here is the ownership class consolidating "coding knowledge" into a bunch of giant data centers so they can disempower the uppity coding masses who they currently *need* to make their dystopian visions come true.

And the junior coding masses are lapping it up, because it makes it look like they can do software wheelies.

In fact, they're not doing software wheelies AT ALL.

Biff Jeezus's big computer in the sky is doing the wheelies, and as soon as their bosses realise they're now replacable because their "expertise" lives in a cloud service that can be rented for pennies on the dollar, those "engineers" are fucking GONE.

7pm, failure to turn it round. There’s some sit-stand game ...

2025-07-30T09:01:02Z

In reply to nevent1q…dhak
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7pm, failure to turn it round. There’s some sit-stand game bullshit which is VERY autism-incompatible. Back to the pub.

I don’t know if they’re just failing to recognise that this ...

2025-07-30T08:59:55Z

In reply to nevent1q…xude
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I don’t know if they’re just failing to recognise that this push to AI is *disempowering* or if they know it and they don’t care.

Fucking dystopian bullshit this. They have five minutes to turn ...

2025-07-30T08:55:59Z

In reply to nevent1q…p7v7
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Fucking dystopian bullshit this. They have five minutes to turn it around then I’m the fuck out of here.

Might go back to the pub actually.

2025-07-30T08:46:18Z

In reply to nevent1q…9uqj
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Might go back to the pub actually.

Trying to slog through the inevitable GenAI marketing guff. No, ...

2025-07-30T08:45:34Z

In reply to nevent1q…sshr
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Trying to slog through the inevitable GenAI marketing guff.

No, don’t care. Fuck off. I’m not interested in a global project to consolidate knowledge under the control of a small cabal of fascist billionaires, thanks.

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2025-07-30T08:32:10Z

Meetups ain’t what they used to be…

Well, that was an interesting phone scam attempt. Claimed to be ...

2025-07-19T03:54:56Z

Well, that was an interesting phone scam attempt.

Claimed to be from Telstra, dangled a 40% discount but very specifically didn't tell me what services I was using, if any. Read out a valid GMail address that I do still use for some services, and which has been involved in a few data leaks in the past.

Then told me to check my phone for a login code "from Telstra".

MFA code arrived *from Google*.

That seems suspiciously like someone trying to log in to or reset the password on my GMail account.

I was playing along just out of boredom, but I could see that catching someone out for sure.

Here's a tip:

ALWAYS HAVE MFA
but
NEVER READ OUT AN MFA CODE OVER THE PHONE.

Also: have a password manager, and have unique passwords for everything. And never trust phone calls.

Honestly I think I’ve found the most hilariously effective ...

2025-06-16T03:32:14Z

Honestly I think I’ve found the most hilariously effective #ADHD anxiety fix ever.

When I find my brain starting a worry spiral, I take the topic that’s causing it, and write it on a dedicated to-do list.

The ADHD then takes care of that by never, ever thinking about it again.

Vyvanse consumed, pre-requisites managed. Bagel acquired #AuDHD ...

2025-06-02T02:49:26Z

In reply to nevent1q…femv
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Vyvanse consumed, pre-requisites managed. Bagel acquired #AuDHD

I want breakfast/brunch but there are too many pre-requisites to ...

2025-06-02T01:46:03Z

I want breakfast/brunch but there are too many pre-requisites to take care of (clean pan, cut bagel, find fillings, clear bench, add bin liner, empty sink to fill kettle, fill coffee machine) so I’m just not going to eat.

Yeah, sure I ditched the fucking mental health hazard side partner and so I have more bandwidth available. However I still have not entirely caught up.

The #AuDHD should have been obvious years ago.

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2025-05-30T08:14:22Z

Fri-yay

See me Captain? ...

2025-05-24T07:08:25Z

In reply to nevent1q…d5g2
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See me Captain?

At the tattoo place, ready to channel the Fourth Drowned, Alfred ...

2025-05-24T06:32:15Z

At the tattoo place, ready to channel the Fourth Drowned, Alfred Pomeroy Jones, sealawyer.

Booked in for a new tattoo on Saturday afternoon. My artist likes ...

2025-05-22T06:20:01Z

Booked in for a new tattoo on Saturday afternoon.

My artist likes to have the design 24hrs ahead, so I have a little time to decide, and *I'm accepting suggestions*.

My provisional idea is the simple phrase "Buttermilk and whippets", from Under Milk Wood by Dylan Thomas, possibly in cursive but probably in a classic book typeface (I'm going to play around with that later tonight to see how it looks).

Only proviso for suggestions is it has to be worksafe because this one will be visible in short sleeves. So do not suggest I get "autistic fuckwit" written across my forehead in gothic, as much as that might be a fitting suggestion.

#poly Our first followup is in just under one week. We have a ...

2025-05-10T03:54:54Z

In reply to nevent1q…sqgc
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#poly

Our first followup is in just under one week. We have a soft launch happening now to let everyone calm the fuck down, get used to the new world order and consider further steps. Small mistakes this week will lead to no major consequences beyond small, collaborative changes to the protocols, which include:

- Proper shared calendar, with considerations around privacy and flexibility. I have suggested titling it “Triple Advisor”
- Group chat notifications muted, especially our NSFW channel. Only check channels when it is appropriate to do so
- Inter-party messaging defaults to no-notifications channels, so that party A is not intruding on quality time between B&C and vice versa.
- Being careful with the words “we” and “us” because they could mean the nesting couple, the outer couple or all three depending on context and ambiguity. There has been conflict and misunderstanding on this issue before.
- Plenty of notice for schedule changes (super important for idiot autistic boy over here, because he cannot cope at all with schedule changes)
- Always try to assume positive intent, especially when something is ambiguous (a joke is not always a dagger between the ribs, folks)
- Everyone has the right to opt-out of a situation without being judged for it
- Longer blocks of personal and couple time for everyone
- lots of flexibility and space for when there is a lack of spoons, not only for the “officially disabled” one but for everyone. Nobody is obliged to do anything when they are strung out and close to limits except rest and look after themselves. And if one *is* in that situation, it doesn’t just default to “other couple” time. The spoon-deficient person must be given space, consideration and safety.
- robust protection around shared resources, like car, home, master bedroom, en-suite and so on, so that personal space, privacy and safety remain pristine. I am personally providing Uber credit for times when using the car will be contentious, for example
- robust, protected ability to break any and all comms rules in an actual emergency, and a way to quickly provide support (for which I will be provisioning an “emergency fund” debit card account)

Big mistakes in this coming week - especially repeat mistakes of the kind we have already highlighted - might well lead to firings, and everyone on the team has been made aware of that. We would all rather that didn’t happen if possible but a nuclear option and escape route has to be considered.

I am now accepting expressions of interest to act as your polycule’s Agile Coach. Rates available on request.

For further context, I have been threatening for some time to ...

2025-05-10T03:54:17Z

In reply to nevent1q…c3nw
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For further context, I have been threatening for some time to shatter this #poly thruple/triad thing we’ve had going on since January.

Yesterday I pulled the pin on the grenade, shouted “fire in the hole” and detonated the whole bunker. It was the only thing I had left to hand, so I asked my fiancee how long it would take her to move out, because that was what I wanted.

The considered, open, informed and consensual parts of the relationship had started to break, everyone was jumping to conclusions, getting angry, taking steps without forethought and generally fucking shit royally up. Things were happening for spite, doors were being slammed, mums were being summoned and nobody was happy.

Most of all, everyone had got so anxious and hypervigilant that even innocuous jokes to break the tension were being seen as vicious personal attacks.

So last night after much negotiation through the day, the three of us went to neutral but familar ground and thrashed things out.

And because I am a professional software team guy and, above all else, autistic as hell when under stress, I ran it very much like I would a Post-Incident Review after a major outage.

I recommend this approach, should you ever need it. Recognise the issues, identify the mistakes, assign NO personal blame, take no retributive action, keep focus on desired outcomes, give everyone space for input, consider all viewpoints on their merits and leave with concrete actions to prevent future incidents, while scheduling follow-ups to ensure the remedial actions have been executed and are working as intended.

Guardian Quick Cryptic done. Lunch arrived. This is the fucking ...

2025-05-10T02:31:06Z

In reply to nevent1q…wgyr
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Guardian Quick Cryptic done. Lunch arrived. This is the fucking life, people.

THIS is what peak performance in self-care looks like. Pub lunch ...

2025-05-10T02:12:47Z

THIS is what peak performance in self-care looks like.

Pub lunch with best dog. IPA. Sunshine. Free dog treats from the Bunnings tool counter.

Everyone: Polyamory? Wow that seems like a whole load of fucking ...

2025-05-09T14:00:01Z

In reply to nevent1q…rur8
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Everyone: Polyamory? Wow that seems like a whole load of fucking and absolutely no downside
Poly folk: [fires up the 400GB group spreadsheet, prepares to mail merge it into a group email with attached calendar invite to mention that someone just noticed that monogamy is not the only option]

Did a fuckton of emotional labour on behalf of our weird little ...

2025-05-09T13:56:04Z

Did a fuckton of emotional labour on behalf of our weird little V/triad this evening, so I am now at home listening to “The Photographer” by Philip Glass and explaining to Ashley about the history of “Fools Gold” by The Stone Roses.

You know, like a totally neurotypical absolutely not fucking autistic person would do.

https://music.youtube.com/playlist?list=OLAK5uy_kVPeI0IcSC_GlMabj4h3ojYwl4GkmwvdU&si=ZgJPYpZtiv5xZFQc

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fools_Gold_(song)?wprov=sfti1#

I caved in and gave her one of the presents. So l can reveal. I ...

2025-03-04T10:07:22Z

In reply to nevent1q…96em
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I caved in and gave her one of the presents. So l can reveal.

I Shibari-wrapped Ashley’s presents, and they look AWESOME.

Spent a couple of hours in the pub giftwrapping presents for ...

2025-03-04T05:20:49Z

Spent a couple of hours in the pub giftwrapping presents for Ashley’s birthday. I can recommend wrapping at the pub, much better way than furtively at home while the recipient isn’t nearby.

When you’re poly and a nerd and you make a joke about the Three ...

2025-02-22T11:17:03Z

When you’re poly and a nerd and you make a joke about the Three Body Problem WHICH COMPLETELY FAILS TO LAND.

FFS. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Three-body_problem?wprov=sfti1

Anybody doing a print run of the Elon salute on vinyl stickers in ...

2025-01-21T09:00:21Z

Anybody doing a print run of the Elon salute on vinyl stickers in order to guerilla a bunch of Teslas?

Not that I would suggest such a thing, obviously.

Y'know, peanut butter toast is severely underrated. ...

2025-01-19T23:36:05Z

Y'know, peanut butter toast is severely underrated. Especially a nice, premium, crunchy, not packed-full-of-sugar peanut butter.

American style peanut butter is an abomination designed for the palate of a three year old with incompetent parents and on this I shall brook no debate

The Singer Of Theseus

2025-01-16T10:53:05Z

In reply to nevent1q…um2a
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The Singer Of Theseus

he’s older than me FFS.

2025-01-16T10:09:50Z

In reply to nevent1q…zaze
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he’s older than me FFS.

2nd place in Brewery Trivia. We were tripped up by Robbie ...

2025-01-16T09:29:11Z

2nd place in Brewery Trivia.

We were tripped up by Robbie Williams being deceptively old as fuck also the chaos of Eastern Europe in general.

Yeah yeah, I edited it shut up ...

2025-01-15T00:03:46Z

In reply to nevent1q…z9xd
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Yeah yeah, I edited it shut up

https://www.theguardian.com/australia-news/live/2025/jan/15/australia-news-live-anthony-albanese-peter-dutton-election-campaign-nbn-education-school-cost

"Star Trek fans reportedly 'shocked'" ...

2025-01-15T00:03:24Z

"Star Trek fans reportedly 'shocked'"

This works for EVERYONE, not just those of us with ADHD or other ...

2025-01-11T08:04:34Z

This works for EVERYONE, not just those of us with ADHD or other cognitive issues.

Just do it, it's cheap.

https://disabled.social/@A11yAwareness/113808546024668335

well yeah!

2025-01-09T11:21:25Z

In reply to nevent1q…x48p
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well yeah!

I shall try to find an appropriate fidget toy.

2025-01-09T11:12:58Z

In reply to nevent1q…63zh
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I shall try to find an appropriate fidget toy.

Came third at brewery trivia. New format, so couldn’t bring the ...

2025-01-09T10:28:14Z

Came third at brewery trivia. New format, so couldn’t bring the a-game, also there was sport AND a music round which was about 40% breathy close-to-the-microphone female artists from the last five years, a glaring hole in my knowledge areas.

Also I am apparently bleeding because I scratched a hole in my arm while focusing on other stuff, is this another ADHD thing or one of those “go get that ASD assessment you’ve been told to get several times now” things?

I mean, well done Tomiko Itooka. You either lived way longer than ...

2025-01-04T12:10:10Z

In reply to nevent1q…56c5
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I mean, well done Tomiko Itooka.

You either lived way longer than anyone expected or you managed to get a bunch of extra cash out of the state, so congrats I guess?

I would just like to remind you that research out of University ...

2025-01-04T12:08:52Z

I would just like to remind you that research out of University College London suggests that many if not most reports of ante-centenarians and hyper-longevity occur in areas with poor record keeping and are suggestive of pension fraud.

https://flipboard.com/@bbcnews/world-c8sqdvr9z/-/a-yaRzTTLURW-cX8nmRSApLw%3Aa%3A3199692-%2F0

https://www.aljazeera.com/news/2024/9/26/the-secret-of-blue-zones-where-people-reach-100-fake-data-says-academic

I am very rarely enthused about seeing a movie in an actual ...

2024-12-27T09:45:33Z

I am very rarely enthused about seeing a movie in an actual cinema, but I just booked two LUX tickets for Nosferatu on New Year's Day, and we're absolutely going to suit up, take an Uber to the venue and get cocktailed up to fuck.

I don't think it'll be a patch on the original B&W movie at The Sydney Opera House with a live soundtrack by Darth Vegas, but nevertheless I intend to enjoy.

Marzipan is surprisingly interesting ...

2024-12-24T14:13:16Z

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Marzipan is surprisingly interesting

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Marzipan

It is midnight here in Australia, so it's officially the 25th ...

2024-12-24T13:02:28Z

It is midnight here in Australia, so it's officially the 25th

Happy Coronation Day of King Sweyn Forkbeard to you and yours!

I don’t think it’ll fundamentally change much, but it would ...

2024-12-16T04:20:13Z

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I don’t think it’ll fundamentally change much, but it would maybe allow me to be less hard on myself about how I react to some situations, and maybe avoid them in the first place?

Like having meltdowns in public because a noise happened, for instance.

well given that a GP part-timing behind the bar at a brewery ...

2024-12-16T04:09:59Z

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well given that a GP part-timing behind the bar at a brewery spotted it in about ten minutes, I think it may be relatively obvious.

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2024-12-16T03:59:22Z

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Since I’m lying down trying not to hurl, I finally got round to ...

2024-12-16T03:55:54Z

Since I’m lying down trying not to hurl, I finally got round to doing an online autism spectrum questionnaire, which a GP friend sent me like three months ago.

No substitute for an actual diagnosis, I know but it’s a baby step towards actually doing something.

Anyway I think I won.

Bonus thing that can fuck off: - had a nice cup of ginger tea to ...

2024-12-16T03:14:36Z

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Bonus thing that can fuck off:

- had a nice cup of ginger tea to settle my stomach. Mmmm, yummy ginger tea.
- Immediately threw it all up again
- Do I have sufficient exec function to clean it up?
- absolutely not

I’ll have another ritalin in a bit and hopefully I can recover this shitty day

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2024-12-16T03:00:17Z

It's too hot. I don't like it. Today can absolutely fuck off.

Oh it might well replace those jobs. And it'll be absolute ...

2024-12-15T13:19:35Z

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Oh it might well replace those jobs. And it'll be absolute dogshit at doing it.

The management class are dumb as fuck.

PSA: If you are 53 or over, you were born closer to WW1 than to ...

2024-12-15T11:52:55Z

PSA: If you are 53 or over, you were born closer to WW1 than to today.

You're welcome, you old fucks

Signed,

someone who is 50 and will be joining you soon (calculations by my very, very good friend here who... ummm... well, I'll let him do the thing)

https://mastodon.cloud/@elronxenu/113656596500223627

“Sorry folks John Howard is dead and I have to drink this $500 ...

2024-12-14T09:22:57Z

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“Sorry folks John Howard is dead and I have to drink this $500 champagne, see you tomorrow! <click>”

It'll probably happen in the middle of the day while I'm ...

2024-12-14T09:15:36Z

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It'll probably happen in the middle of the day while I'm in a work video meeting and I'll have to explain I'm logging off and taking the rest of the day because the death champagne just unlocked.

And I'd be fine with that tbh.

Thinking of doing a little IoT project with a mini fridge, an ...

2024-12-14T09:12:17Z

Thinking of doing a little IoT project with a mini fridge, an arduino, a controllable lock and a little news scanning Lambda function

Bottle of very nice champagne goes into mini fridge. Fridge is locked. Arduino calls out occasionally to a web service which maintains a list of complete fucking arseholes who aren't dead yet.

When one of them dies, the arduino sends a message to my phone, sets off a party popper and unlocks the fridge.

Burn. The. Goat. Burn. The. Goat. Burn. The. Goat. Burn. The. ...

2024-12-13T11:19:19Z

Burn. The. Goat.
Burn. The. Goat.
Burn. The. Goat.
Burn. The. Goat.
BURN. THE. GOAT.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vDFPpkp9krY

ooooh, that's good. I was going to put a bunch of music ...

2024-12-13T03:00:42Z

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ooooh, that's good.

I was going to put a bunch of music biographies and stuff in there, I've got Tom Waits, Primus, Pink Floyd, a few others. And some music theory stuff and songbooks.

I have been declared a nerd for having Stratocaster Bookends. ...

2024-12-13T00:26:26Z

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I have been declared a nerd for having Stratocaster Bookends. Well, if that's all it takes....

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2024-12-13T00:10:28Z

Pakkidge!!

Oh, and apparently I can deal with loud music in a pub if ...

2024-12-05T04:34:35Z

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Oh, and apparently I can deal with loud music in a pub if it's a band I like.

I mean, we all can... but if it's a thing I don't like, I literally go into fight-or-flight

I don't know why but I am far less tolerant of unwanted ...

2024-12-05T04:32:47Z

I don't know why but I am far less tolerant of unwanted sensory stimuli than when I was under 40.

I've been shrugging it off - post ADHD diagnosis - as "COVID took away my coping strategies", but... I dunno, maybe I was always like this but considered masking to be an acceptable trade-off?

Like, I can absolutely deal with a loud concert or nightclub _if I want to be there_. If the noise is incidental or unnecessary or unexpected, then I head rapidly down Panic Attack Alley.

I fleetingly just though about opening an archery/axe ...

2024-12-05T00:08:47Z

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I fleetingly just though about opening an archery/axe throwing/shooting venue for these events called “Objectively Dangerous Shit But You Will Not Die If You Follow The Rules” then realised no single neurotypical person would pay for that.

I just saw one of the staff literally “coaching” a couple of ...

2024-12-04T23:59:56Z

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I just saw one of the staff literally “coaching” a couple of poor throwers from about 2m *in front of them* while their arms were raised ready to throw and that shit would not fly on an archery range.

4. This axe throwing venue makes my inner archery coach flinch ...

2024-12-04T23:57:40Z

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4. This axe throwing venue makes my inner archery coach flinch with shooting line violations

Notes to self: 1. Axe throwing is not good 2. Throwing axes? ...

2024-12-04T23:47:08Z

Notes to self:

1. Axe throwing is not good
2. Throwing axes? That’s fine. It’s *axe throwing* that’s the problem
3. Guven the sensory overload I just experienced, I should definitely book in that ASD assessment I was told to get like three months ago.

I'm gonna be in Sydney for a few days next week but I've ...

2024-12-01T11:59:20Z

I'm gonna be in Sydney for a few days next week but I've decided when I get back I'm going to practice making naan (gluten-free, naturally).

Never done one before, obviously don't have a tandoor at home, only a standard, not-hot-enough domestic oven, but I've found a couple of recipes that reckon you can do an acceptable version on a smoking hot skillet, which I definitely have under control.

Given that I've now pinned down a good version of Dal Makhani and Aloo Bonda, why wouldn't I expand the repertoire? That'll be a great little meal

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2024-11-30T03:13:38Z

Is it beer o clock yet? Asking for a definitely me.

Who had “airborne prions” on their 2024 bingo card? ...

2024-11-30T03:12:52Z

Who had “airborne prions” on their 2024 bingo card?
https://mastodon.social/@MatWright/113569712055040696

Husband: "my craft thing is going wrong what should I ...

2024-11-30T02:26:21Z

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Husband: "my craft thing is going wrong what should I do?"
Wife: "do this thing"
H: "I don't understand, why is it going wrong??"
W: "do this, it'll fix it"
H: "I can't google it, the words have double meanings"
W: "do the thing I said"
H: "I'm gonna ask AI"
W: <stares at camera>
H: "ChatGPT says I should do this thing"
W: <Googles "divorce lawyers near me">