2025-02-01T07:46:05Z https://nostr.now Fragment https://nostr.now/npub18gu2rewgx4hmje3npfm6m5fmdwynv2spc0cdgzvqa7mrldlhru8q98lkwr https://fedi.yesmap.net/system/accounts/avatars/112/665/356/582/996/627/original/16a03bab68874617.jpg https://fedi.yesmap.net/system/accounts/avatars/112/665/356/582/996/627/original/16a03bab68874617.jpg https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsz2jzfgswgexzq4y0mmp6rk9u5yjjevg9700zl7cdku7az4ac06eqzyqar3g09eq6klwtxxv980tw38d4cjd32q8plp4qfsrhmv0ah7u0sumtdyr3 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs80ha30w6yq0r7nqnhawrxmpf2mecyyp544dufhrf0snv9rjr79scdmg4xg'>nevent1q…g4xg</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>whatever. 2025-02-02T05:24:47Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqswxnk4qup0uhe6yayjgp34yy7r5wckpu3eq7lr39748zmkgec4r3gzyqar3g09eq6klwtxxv980tw38d4cjd32q8plp4qfsrhmv0ah7u0sukyvfvp In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsr936kqj2h8atstepfpzuhfmjx3hf9g3ykhchxgx5dc4ft3a7sgmc9zawlt'>nevent1q…awlt</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>this time it was pro-c people complaining that Mu isn’t radically pro-c enough. Apparently a guest blog from an anti-c perspective is a turnoff and uncool.<br/><br/>I should just leave the community altogether. Let people get arrested or commit suicide and not care. It’s not my problem. I’ve got my own shit to deal with. 2025-02-01T10:51:48Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsf6c2q2s0funl57578hzv9wqz3l23gwdu3vqc5rsv0f6qzkayn6rgzyqar3g09eq6klwtxxv980tw38d4cjd32q8plp4qfsrhmv0ah7u0sudctnx4 No matter how hard I seem to try I get just as much criticism as positive feedback from the community (from both sides).<br/><br/>Makes it really hard to stay motivated. I try my best to support all other MAPs in their efforts, even if what they’re doing doesn’t resonate with me. Isn’t that what solidarity is about?<br/><br/>Why do we work so hard to tear each other down? Don’t the antis do that for us enough? 2025-02-01T10:11:35Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqs8gjz9vdex6et4a7dnct008yl4wg7hzpm6vgzqyf0wx47e4v7as6gzyqar3g09eq6klwtxxv980tw38d4cjd32q8plp4qfsrhmv0ah7u0suywmqu6 So I finally had my interview with Little Nicky. Two parts, 60 minutes each. I would love you to listen.<br/>Part 1: <a href="https://fstube.net/w/4bmc3B97iHsUA8rgyUv21S">https://fstube.net/w/4bmc3B97iHsUA8rgyUv21S</a><br/>Part 2: <a href="https://fstube.net/w/tTzRE29yrrA3xqXUaFuV9G">https://fstube.net/w/tTzRE29yrrA3xqXUaFuV9G</a> 2025-01-26T09:47:06Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsfysfjulhrc9c8xfwyclx7dva637vm24qu747a2k8fgzfy8vlsttczyqar3g09eq6klwtxxv980tw38d4cjd32q8plp4qfsrhmv0ah7u0suktwx84 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsxxdq9q0gmqufdjv8mp85ugmnyjaegnmhmzvcd8qnjgr5pz9gvevgpcry8j'>nevent1q…ry8j</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>the majority of both the left and the right love punishment. Only some libertarians and some radical socialists actually have an aversion to punishing people (especially victimless offenders). 2025-01-21T08:57:34Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqs8jjms5znwdnckgqp2da44vkxaxjhnplaks56arsk7qdxmfjtadsczyqar3g09eq6klwtxxv980tw38d4cjd32q8plp4qfsrhmv0ah7u0sus2p07p <span itemprop="mentions" itemscope itemtype="https://schema.org/Person"><a itemprop="url" href="/npub1fx634fg9xah570pd5647hcjpwacu8aym3v5ylmqs646auqnvv6xq4pk8tc" class="bg-lavender dark:prose:text-neutral-50 dark:text-neutral-50 dark:bg-garnet px-1"><span>Hina</span> (<span class="italic">npub1fx6…k8tc</span>)</a></span> you’re alive? Wtf! 2025-01-21T01:57:00Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqstdxuxuwnx3csquy3cnguvls2tmgx3lg0a34ct0vw4mzd4aaq5tkgzyqar3g09eq6klwtxxv980tw38d4cjd32q8plp4qfsrhmv0ah7u0su5fatwl Across both my accounts 26 people voted. 10 people believed prison abolition was more likely. 16 thoughts AoC abolition was more likely.<br/><br/>I guess removing one specific type of punishment seems more likely than removing the system of punishment altogether. I still think MAPs should be actively engaged with prison abolition and reform, though. It disproportionately affects our community. Even if you’re anti-c. 2025-01-20T23:24:28Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqs8nuvdd45gk639s3gmdv2gfjz7mmj8zqqrq0v3mdg7y6y4nwndgkszyqar3g09eq6klwtxxv980tw38d4cjd32q8plp4qfsrhmv0ah7u0surgevlq The three levels of society:<br/>1) totally anti pedo “you tell an adult if someone touches your privates”.<br/>2) reasonably pro pedo “you tell an adult if someone touches your private’s and you don’t like it”.<br/>3) absolutely pro pedo “you tell an adult if someone touches your privates so I can talk to the person and rarionally assess the relationship based on its actual merits”. 2025-01-20T13:45:36Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsx9uzfr2zz4ay7wkrn0kmm30pyp4fflcq9arkdmd9xkl829auk9kqzyqar3g09eq6klwtxxv980tw38d4cjd32q8plp4qfsrhmv0ah7u0su26lp70 I don’t care about your contact stance, but if you don’t support MAPs who cross the line and end up incarcerated then you can go fuck yourself. You are just plain anti and have no claim to be supporting MAPs.<br/><br/>You might believe what they did was wrong and that they needed more support in not doing it. But leaving them to the pigs, or even being an accomplice?<br/><br/>If anyone like that is following me (though I doubt it) please stop immediately. You are worse than antis because you should know better. 2025-01-10T11:13:02Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsd6exprxnftrrskpjhnnt02flvz75ucge872mnmr2p7gft0rg0w4czyqar3g09eq6klwtxxv980tw38d4cjd32q8plp4qfsrhmv0ah7u0suksgfel In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsfn7lqaa264q253kwy8cak9kgat2jtr4tegn3ma64qd7q0lcwvfvs53vxte'>nevent1q…vxte</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Back before libertarians were totally cucked and coopted into the far right. 2025-01-10T07:29:48Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqs0lqtdm909wpmc4ykm3x2hqgryf6lnu3macahfhgwncgkmj5c0argzyqar3g09eq6klwtxxv980tw38d4cjd32q8plp4qfsrhmv0ah7u0su5d2n0a Survivors have a right to share their experiences and have them be heard.<br/><br/>That&#39;s where it should end.<br/><br/>Your experiences aren&#39;t universal and believe it or not, you don&#39;t know better about the intentions of &#34;offenders&#34; than they themselves do (though obviously they have a strong incentive to paint themselves in a good light).<br/><br/>We don&#39;t give victims of theft the power to control the narrative regarding stealing. 2024-12-30T13:26:26Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqstacxzmsvd76xgydphehv3vr3drg6f48h20hpc462uh3u8e55mt2szyqar3g09eq6klwtxxv980tw38d4cjd32q8plp4qfsrhmv0ah7u0su5fu0hn Well, my sentencing didn&#39;t go well and while I&#39;m out on bail until my appeal, it&#39;s likely I&#39;ve got a 2 year custodial sentence and forced deportation after that. (My appeal is unlikely to succeed but buys me time with my family in this country.)<br/><br/>I&#39;ll be taking a step back from MAP stuff to focus on my family as much as I can before I&#39;m taken away from them. 2024-12-20T08:10:50Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsd82jl03f2gefzeu3jemlmclmakhzuj52e90lpe70cg2997tqwylgzyqar3g09eq6klwtxxv980tw38d4cjd32q8plp4qfsrhmv0ah7u0sumk4zr8 <a href="https://x.com/iFightForKids/status/1850077953196990662">https://x.com/iFightForKids/status/1850077953196990662</a><br/><br/>Alex Rosen getting arrested. Win! 2024-10-26T08:24:26Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqs27x6nnqkpcjjhzwnmngf3a55fkryc0cmrrr83wxayr469whdqrfgzyqar3g09eq6klwtxxv980tw38d4cjd32q8plp4qfsrhmv0ah7u0suzdtu40 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs27efcfu25jd6hm95fq607ncwv5lnupdgcyjmpvl49fs3qlv6jrxq0urfnx'>nevent1q…rfnx</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>children engaging in sexual play is a good thing according to the charities. Unless the child has previously had a sexual encounter with an adult, then the same behavior is suddenly problematic. 2024-10-24T09:13:02Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqs0746px6vp8xqccclzy69vsp8fkqnyzylpk9cuzruapjptj3esxhczyqar3g09eq6klwtxxv980tw38d4cjd32q8plp4qfsrhmv0ah7u0suw0wmtq “Problematic sexual behavior” being listed as a negative outcome of CSA confuses me.<br/><br/>Anti “My child was touched by an adult and now I sometimes catch them masturbating!”<br/>Me “And the problem with masturbation is…?” 2024-10-24T04:46:11Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsqnnu6xglahj68tv68cwqu2laq5379d2t8ehwp947gep9mr4aum2czyqar3g09eq6klwtxxv980tw38d4cjd32q8plp4qfsrhmv0ah7u0sudzfaxh <a href="https://fstube.net/w/a3JNKZVffSr9uBjKof1h77">https://fstube.net/w/a3JNKZVffSr9uBjKof1h77</a><br/><br/>Is this the new &#34;what if was your son&#34; type ad, but for MAPS, and in Chinese? 2024-10-21T13:40:20Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsq70x8hnyf05wqjnsjwtdamq6k7e7pczyta3gxyv0wcxtt2vru3tqzyqar3g09eq6klwtxxv980tw38d4cjd32q8plp4qfsrhmv0ah7u0sueges8h Holy shit this essay is well written:<br/><a href="https://heretictoc.com/2024/10/17/deconstructing-the-lion-and-the-lamb/">https://heretictoc.com/2024/10/17/deconstructing-the-lion-and-the-lamb/</a> 2024-10-19T11:56:28Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsp3pjqds7zg73ejcduneptwl3vjalpyg9xh0zr7au9yfqnmwlfqtqzyqar3g09eq6klwtxxv980tw38d4cjd32q8plp4qfsrhmv0ah7u0sul8zw2k In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsg5wl6purvrlpt63n234slegdu0h4wc6jm7vlnm55qr5kchuckhxqe6w3eq'>nevent1q…w3eq</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>what is the mark though? Death penalty in Idaho and Florida and that’s still not seen as crossing the line. There’s not serious outrage from civil libertarians. 2024-10-19T01:08:03Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsdafkafehkxgr7vex3jfg2hg0c580lk95qktk4sfanaz0sz0gw4fgzyqar3g09eq6klwtxxv980tw38d4cjd32q8plp4qfsrhmv0ah7u0su089edh <a href="https://www.iwf.org.uk/news-media/news/public-exposure-to-chilling-ai-child-sexual-abuse-images-and-videos-increases/">https://www.iwf.org.uk/news-media/news/public-exposure-to-chilling-ai-child-sexual-abuse-images-and-videos-increases/</a><br/><br/>Can these cunts just fuck off and die? 2024-10-18T13:10:13Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsz2lhhaq7j63j0nlqtjh2xk25xqe9kjff9u4t74r85dzxf8kp98kgzyqar3g09eq6klwtxxv980tw38d4cjd32q8plp4qfsrhmv0ah7u0suwrkad0 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqszsrlprvs609z2xfp593g0l98e4afeus4y2ahmx6pvlvgmusgfsmcskfsge'>nevent1q…fsge</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Society’s rules and my own choices have left me no fucking choice. I don’t get to be happy anymore. I don’t get to pretend to be “normal” anymore, even though I am fucking normal. As normal as any other fucked up individual human on this planet, anyway.<br/><br/>I’m exhausted and sick of it already. But all I can do is fight. In the places where I actually have some control. And in the places I don’t, I just bow my head and resign myself to my fate. There’s no point in pissing off the executioner. 2024-10-14T11:05:10Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqszsrlprvs609z2xfp593g0l98e4afeus4y2ahmx6pvlvgmusgfsmczyqar3g09eq6klwtxxv980tw38d4cjd32q8plp4qfsrhmv0ah7u0sutsyg6a In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs2gdcehxpush9vs95accsyjx67rv4huhumpc9wd2ur8a5dq6ympuq89f59w'>nevent1q…f59w</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>And I don’t fucking want to.<br/><br/>I’ve met some great people who are MAPs, I’ve met some interesting people. If I want to live in total honesty I have to meet people through these communities. But as much as I like you, I don’t want to be forced onto pedi, I at least want the fucking choice of Twitter.<br/><br/>Some people like to embrace their sexual orientations as identities and build their communities and networks around that. Honestly, that’s never been for me. But now I have no fucking choice. 2024-10-14T11:04:38Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqs2gdcehxpush9vs95accsyjx67rv4huhumpc9wd2ur8a5dq6ympuqzyqar3g09eq6klwtxxv980tw38d4cjd32q8plp4qfsrhmv0ah7u0sut4hqew I’ll keep on doing my best to do what I think counts as activism. But why should I fucking have to? Why should I have to spend hours every day thinking about what to do or what to write that MAPs might be given an inch of something that might be called a “right”.<br/><br/>Everyone else just gets to go about their mundane lives doing their mundane shit. But unless I want a life of living in the shadows, denying my true self and pretending I don’t get that mundane life, I’m forced to fight. 2024-10-14T11:04:11Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsfmapznxl60m4p07lrd62wswrn785drndjx3de2vtzqczdu4wle2gzyqar3g09eq6klwtxxv980tw38d4cjd32q8plp4qfsrhmv0ah7u0suaxh2sl The Sun’s response to our article on Nicholas Prosper:<br/>“Nonces please don&#39;t bother to email us again.”<br/>Nice professional response from a major tabloid. At least they said please. 2024-10-12T03:14:21Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqswfk4tw60xhx7f6xkffazt94twzhl9hmnmal2j34fj5q9f3fptprszyqar3g09eq6klwtxxv980tw38d4cjd32q8plp4qfsrhmv0ah7u0sua28r82 Mu&#39;s most recent article is pretty disturbing. A small copy edit was all I could contribute to it.<br/><br/><a href="https://www.map-union.org/blog/perspectives/the-push-how-nicholas-prosper-became-a-murderer">https://www.map-union.org/blog/perspectives/the-push-how-nicholas-prosper-became-a-murderer</a> 2024-10-10T23:26:37Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsdrxd2mgfelvht58cwame0zw462saudpy4tvtwwgeggux46fjrffszyqar3g09eq6klwtxxv980tw38d4cjd32q8plp4qfsrhmv0ah7u0susfn8ae In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs8unqln9l64a609p06zlxz626uyyjl703npyu722zgk6mgruxgy4qtaz27g'>nevent1q…z27g</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I still believe there are basically two kinds of gay men- bottoms and BLs. 2024-10-10T03:09:47Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqszrmr3p4l9wdnzvf6vdm5l6kfe67cngpvhxt9ghk284cauh845xyczyqar3g09eq6klwtxxv980tw38d4cjd32q8plp4qfsrhmv0ah7u0suufegc2 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqswxhmtzk23skvmcpcu5n8hwjemrvc7lfxsk5urwfgxzwfr9w88x9savsvcl'>nevent1q…svcl</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>so far? Exists and posts newsletters. Which is better than it not existing.<br/><br/>I’m not sure if they’ve sent out press releases that have just gone ignored. Or if they haven’t sent them. 2024-10-08T03:05:58Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsgja477u8gfw9asgjcary458u9dlslcwrz9j9uy9zp4v970spml3gzyqar3g09eq6klwtxxv980tw38d4cjd32q8plp4qfsrhmv0ah7u0suzyq0gn In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsw8xsaeyech0wyvlla50mhr2faavutxgtf5s0t6upxhjlfedye6cseqysez'>nevent1q…ysez</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>If MAPs do struggle with mental health and end up committing terrible crimes maybe, just maybe, it’s indicative of the all consuming oppression and stigma we face, rather than anything else. 2024-10-07T23:51:19Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqs044apmpya8vhxevhtzc6zqqgfvjvlmzhz4g2ksllqjaegch7z3eqzyqar3g09eq6klwtxxv980tw38d4cjd32q8plp4qfsrhmv0ah7u0suja598g In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsvhtm4dvkk7xa3mqtwpvuxa0w7a5kjhlpf8nk2322arwl20uk6uucxnqs3q'>nevent1q…qs3q</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>1990: They don&#39;t feel they&#39;ve done anything wrong so is there really any point to jail?<br/><br/>2024: They don&#39;t feel they&#39;ve done anything wrong so shouldn&#39;t be cut off their balls? 2024-10-07T12:32:01Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqswweurlt3cw0jkunnyznzy9ykfn4w58j4858w52gfehgctgyln8mszyqar3g09eq6klwtxxv980tw38d4cjd32q8plp4qfsrhmv0ah7u0suutmazx In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs2pmdvdspcpl3estqv0hkjyt3kjscm67hhsp0uyz5sqt0x7sqj96c6fxdhr'>nevent1q…xdhr</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>yeah, Tyred is a massive troll. His talking points were pro-c, though. He knew a lot of the pro-c evidence. Whether that&#39;s through newgon or elsewhere, I&#39;m not sure.<br/><br/>I don&#39;t think anti-c people are any more immune to losing their shit and going off the deep end after a life of being oppressed, though. 2024-10-05T01:17:15Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsfq48gww7w5p8ftr5p4z84rfzuddy0yccaay6rz8wc67trqqrzh8czyqar3g09eq6klwtxxv980tw38d4cjd32q8plp4qfsrhmv0ah7u0sum7xgt5 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsyswdqlqzvz93gx43anys2qc9909vs4gzxmc56hsafj6x26rfxreq8qe5j7'>nevent1q…e5j7</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/><a href="https://www.boychat.org/messages/1632491.htm">https://www.boychat.org/messages/1632491.htm</a><br/><br/>Referencing this, by the way. Pro-c guy seems to have killed his family. 2024-10-04T14:42:38Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsyswdqlqzvz93gx43anys2qc9909vs4gzxmc56hsafj6x26rfxreqzyqar3g09eq6klwtxxv980tw38d4cjd32q8plp4qfsrhmv0ah7u0su08ldf5 Was BLR actually right about The Push?<br/><a href="https://wiki.yesmap.net/wiki/Essay:The_Push">https://wiki.yesmap.net/wiki/Essay:The_Push</a> 2024-10-04T14:32:12Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsztcftgrcsute9t9gkj5hme8f2528ye5jkrwylqxaedv572vrp4mczyqar3g09eq6klwtxxv980tw38d4cjd32q8plp4qfsrhmv0ah7u0su6n87q7 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsg6xur7pyde3pm703eakt0fycqkfhutq0apajp6e284qhdnp9mtdguyuxmg'>nevent1q…uxmg</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>6 MAPs and 1 teleio- if they guess who the teleio is by the end, they win cash. 2024-09-30T02:51:40Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsypeprx6maryq3nww6mp20k489hn9vkaymw9ps2ef9w3ndyu7m6mczyqar3g09eq6klwtxxv980tw38d4cjd32q8plp4qfsrhmv0ah7u0sug5hkyc In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsyjp85uqeq4fcscryvcw7kvwup59zd576xw6axr3phn38wfaeqf4s7z5l3l'>nevent1q…5l3l</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Sounds like a business opportunity. Being a remote manager providing support and infrastructure, but mostly letting them do their own thing. 2024-09-30T02:42:44Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsxdx6fmyxx4xpfdyuf9246dplrdy5tcw76lyn4x7apunu08sa4fdczyqar3g09eq6klwtxxv980tw38d4cjd32q8plp4qfsrhmv0ah7u0suhjzes3 <a href="https://www.map-union.org/blog/mu-analysis-map-mental-health-crisis">https://www.map-union.org/blog/mu-analysis-map-mental-health-crisis</a><br/><br/>I didn&#39;t enjoy writing this one very much. 2024-09-29T15:33:28Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsduuerezvglnvdngspghl62nrs2y0pujxzm2k0vgz6mdvytw3msaqzyqar3g09eq6klwtxxv980tw38d4cjd32q8plp4qfsrhmv0ah7u0sul4g7zp In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs99swtuxx6kh7qvgqvwjtln8rtxeanvtuhace437sk76ahzu4edxsk8n7c4'>nevent1q…n7c4</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>One of the risks of long-term pro-c activism seems to be that even reasonable policy measures can be linked to a past history of more radical activism. 2024-09-29T07:46:02Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsddgfyjj8czn49cxwfu3zkdmn9qne2ggvfhgxppr9klf3s5g95yygzyqar3g09eq6klwtxxv980tw38d4cjd32q8plp4qfsrhmv0ah7u0sugjkt3j In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs8qsh7qykxfpzsua4xanf6udpq79fjqx2e53k8w23qmh9c9xra4nqumful4'>nevent1q…ful4</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>The IWF does not care about NOMAPs. Being an uncle Tom does nothing for our cause. 2024-09-28T16:24:26Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsqgdmy4y4la8ahqcccse844afsxw3x8vpv5xcd3d324yt9kjtgfhczyqar3g09eq6klwtxxv980tw38d4cjd32q8plp4qfsrhmv0ah7u0suvj438h In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqszlmt7whtay7r6n4z5h2q4nqy3c86mcs98kzg3txr7qys7uatw2gsmz848f'>nevent1q…848f</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Considering Mu&#39;s membership seems pretty evenly split between BLs and GLs I&#39;m not sure your opinions really help our community. 2024-09-28T04:08:19Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqs8hw4wtkvdhpuct3j0ewf8zdvmtltfstzzrqnkd4wdvnnd0adxj2szyqar3g09eq6klwtxxv980tw38d4cjd32q8plp4qfsrhmv0ah7u0su5rnthn In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqstec4tv90r6ld6lwx8t4dkyrt9yacal3vqut7qpf20rajkextxqagpz8zvm'>nevent1q…8zvm</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>At this point it&#39;s almost just fucking high school politics.<br/><br/>Mu got some good coverage regarding our MAP Camp statements (that Jim didn&#39;t even write). But apparently the very fact that it came from &#34;Newgon&#34; makes it worthless. 2024-09-27T14:32:10Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsyg59gqpn66gw0uzr53v9znfwadj5ptpq02frnfl9m2jgkfvtptvqzyqar3g09eq6klwtxxv980tw38d4cjd32q8plp4qfsrhmv0ah7u0su7ewaex In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqst80nrht62tz68znkp0mnepn4emscvemzs8yzll3255866zpu29kgtnwpyg'>nevent1q…wpyg</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Maybe it&#39;s okay if you&#39;re a transnazi? 2024-09-27T03:50:35Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsvva09tlxkjzvqu0net2ep3xcldqx7tdheh657djshus7s9vlreyqzyqar3g09eq6klwtxxv980tw38d4cjd32q8plp4qfsrhmv0ah7u0su8sm8qe In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsvtzszazz6dnujc7ydjsegp40m7ml82n8gdzchuh0z5t8pvrqd6jgqnu379'>nevent1q…u379</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Homeland security were called in to protect a school because a small group of MAPs were planning a camp out nearby. It became quite the news story.<br/><br/>Blocking someone is mild by comparison. 2024-09-25T13:10:14Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsylyjzedlk9r08zs4kyzzll20wle6c9jwt0sk5srxl0xd6r8nrhgczyqar3g09eq6klwtxxv980tw38d4cjd32q8plp4qfsrhmv0ah7u0su82xqgh In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsr0ngtq54ck5d9th686s2wxmczhjvdmczrhd4thz6qe6nx8ayrwds3wfd8p'>nevent1q…fd8p</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Have you heard about MAP Camp? 2024-09-25T13:05:51Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsvew0c89axtj72v8q475jyj7erh5ju4gg6s4r8shwywgkgdjlvsrczyqar3g09eq6klwtxxv980tw38d4cjd32q8plp4qfsrhmv0ah7u0su9mghhn In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsv36fm8vcm0jps00lxdjxwhcd9y6pcfwluhgmgzfu37rald0hesqqrva6cc'>nevent1q…a6cc</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>&#34;We don&#39;t want to look bad so we&#39;ll just pretend we don&#39;t even exist, which makes us look really bad.&#34;<br/><br/>Internalized guilt/ shame is really shitty. We haven&#39;t done anything wrong. MAP Camp didn&#39;t do anything wrong. There is no reason to hide (except for the obvious &#34;safety&#34;). 2024-09-24T06:55:39Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqswwwqdvdtcvr6rqhl0gc5nkgyvn07elnhq437kthchsd7nls3wnwgzyqar3g09eq6klwtxxv980tw38d4cjd32q8plp4qfsrhmv0ah7u0sucd7c69 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs25t4k2e556gftgu33j4y9uq36d02ng0g3ecvl2q3ec5l5f0hx60stnaw3r'>nevent1q…aw3r</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Also, I don&#39;t know why pro-c / anti-c is even that much of a debate in Germany. K13 put forward a proposal to reduce the AoC from 14 to 12. Two years. TWO FUCKING YEARS. And suddenly that&#39;s a massive chasm that the community can&#39;t overcome through discussion?<br/><br/>Someone who thinks the AoC should be dropped from 18 to 16 wouldn&#39;t even be considered pro-c in the anglosphere (Lecter is considered anti-c despite supporting 16). Why the drama over 2 years? 2024-09-24T06:53:04Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqs8u0hsumuyse3wcwsxvyqr8acmvdzv3whh06xqqhzmg6hn00ay8hszyqar3g09eq6klwtxxv980tw38d4cjd32q8plp4qfsrhmv0ah7u0suchjllr In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs25t4k2e556gftgu33j4y9uq36d02ng0g3ecvl2q3ec5l5f0hx60stnaw3r'>nevent1q…aw3r</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>How do these anti-cs think that pro-c MAPs should go about activism? Pro-c activism will always exist. Do they want to work together on the 90% of issues on which we agree? Or do they want pro-c activism to run independently (without any moderating effect of anti-c opinion)?<br/><br/>Pro-c isn&#39;t just going to disappear as much as they may hope it did. So are we working together as allies or not? 2024-09-24T06:49:07Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsyxuvl4z36d2trmr0gcy35557dgtdnrv34hlgwymcrd4wzgjrk6vczyqar3g09eq6klwtxxv980tw38d4cjd32q8plp4qfsrhmv0ah7u0su9rj8yh You&#39;d have thought that MAP Camp would&#39;ve been something to bring the community together. Something like a mini Stonewall.<br/><br/>Instead half of the community seems to be focused on being critical of other MAPs.<br/><br/>Imagine if Stonewall was characterized by drag queens being called out for bringing police attention to the venue, instead of everyone uniting to tell the police to back the fuck off. 2024-09-23T14:34:59Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqs2xzqa35c58lhnzx539kf43hmjzcwzrtgg5x62xq5ttyzky7guxnqzyqar3g09eq6klwtxxv980tw38d4cjd32q8plp4qfsrhmv0ah7u0susj3h3t In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsyc95sv4e7ejp0n72w35ydj8srnxgkmqc977566ndl2q38p5eaf3sjv2p3f'>nevent1q…2p3f</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>MAP related offence? 2024-09-23T14:23:39Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsptycm9h2qnwxg9cygpev4x5akv8cfwlt6a5jw4np9qhjmf3mp2hszyqar3g09eq6klwtxxv980tw38d4cjd32q8plp4qfsrhmv0ah7u0su9w62vt Andy Ngo screenshotted me. And gave visibility to a post where I&#39;m saying &#34;MAPs need more visibility&#34;. Thank you!<br/><br/><a href="https://x.com/MrAndyNgo/status/1837189153705926728">https://x.com/MrAndyNgo/status/1837189153705926728</a> 2024-09-20T18:49:06Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsf7jrvkq0tt4qru0l2ev5n79psuez42dzz9gm4j08gxwdcwa6q63gzyqar3g09eq6klwtxxv980tw38d4cjd32q8plp4qfsrhmv0ah7u0su0ap4sp <a href="https://www.map-union.org/blog/press-release-mu-denounces-the-hysterical-and-violent-response-to-map-camp">https://www.map-union.org/blog/press-release-mu-denounces-the-hysterical-and-violent-response-to-map-camp</a><br/><br/>Mu response to the MAP Camp situation. 2024-09-20T17:02:14Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqst7djr7ekx47kcjlfr77gsylqdlnylg8smjasn32ex4l8drg8uwdqzyqar3g09eq6klwtxxv980tw38d4cjd32q8plp4qfsrhmv0ah7u0sus75xsu In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs2lcjpv2vtdsa0776exr36rk4eat0natlcnsh48w6s3lwa727je5qmc7fuw'>nevent1q…7fuw</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Such a mild critique.<br/><br/>Given that the original material was clearly jesting in nature it makes me wonder if they&#39;re actually stupid enough to take it at face value, or deliberately misreading because outrage mob. 2024-09-20T14:24:27Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqspfdr2zf2pjpl4xl3jpqnwgxj2qwwtevr2kdp6kzzsfj5xseyzpzqzyqar3g09eq6klwtxxv980tw38d4cjd32q8plp4qfsrhmv0ah7u0sueth9zk Community survey for Mu article.<br/><br/><a href="https://forum.map-union.org/viewtopic.php?t=316">https://forum.map-union.org/viewtopic.php?t=316</a><br/><br/>It requires registration on the MAP Union forum. But we are really interested in hearing from a wide range of people. We&#39;d love to get opinions from people Pedi who don&#39;t usually use forums for communication. 2024-09-18T11:42:24Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsp2ktajtku0vegjep0dxnas6htd8fe992dp5tns75muz0rx5f4sdqzyqar3g09eq6klwtxxv980tw38d4cjd32q8plp4qfsrhmv0ah7u0su2xlu5k In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs9q9zl38vkxluv2sr9vn0y049xp0dsp9fck3w2v52mrg747xg4ftgps2jj5'>nevent1q…2jj5</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>It&#39;s basically the same argument as always on wikipedia, though. Should wikipedia use value neutral language on controversial topics, or should it use language self-definitional like &#34;abuse&#34; or &#34;molestation&#34; that&#39;s used in the mainstream? 2024-09-14T16:08:44Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqst5p4pzptu8k8wvs9majsunfrycp5k25gzqjhzt6gtz3dutuw8c9gzyqar3g09eq6klwtxxv980tw38d4cjd32q8plp4qfsrhmv0ah7u0sueuwvk9 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs9q9zl38vkxluv2sr9vn0y049xp0dsp9fck3w2v52mrg747xg4ftgps2jj5'>nevent1q…2jj5</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>At the minimum it should be changed to &#34;which some have said justifies child molestation&#34; 2024-09-14T16:07:05Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqszs29r9mw7p6xx3f3775um8d2pez0ehkjazprew4gq5w9jcft43kszyqar3g09eq6klwtxxv980tw38d4cjd32q8plp4qfsrhmv0ah7u0su7zlx7x From 1979:<br/><br/>Leaders of the New Jersey Assembly, responding to widespread fears about a new criminal code that lowers the age of sexual consent to 13 years, said today they expected the Assembly to pass a stopgap measure tomorrow to restore 16 as the age of consent. The legislators hope to allay fears that the state is endorsing sexual activity by teen‐agers.<br/><br/>The problem was, is and always has been &#34;sexual activity by teenagers&#34;. 2024-09-14T12:26:51Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsg5hz5krgtqeshdqslp39slcqx37ac4ulfemvw34mljtku6pkx0dszyqar3g09eq6klwtxxv980tw38d4cjd32q8plp4qfsrhmv0ah7u0suucq08f In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsrrepr3aj6594f5ete24kymt9z8cvp5a4l27vmszvgy3vwlc9wa7qvcxahk'>nevent1q…xahk</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>The MAPs that look like that are probably happily having consensual relationships without having to worry about therapy. 2024-09-14T11:06:06Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsfzlz979psv43fml8jrft0fsghg4vex4q4d40ue4uhs8wt0fhmzegzyqar3g09eq6klwtxxv980tw38d4cjd32q8plp4qfsrhmv0ah7u0su4g5vtv &#34;We recognize that children need more than sexual freedom and self-determination; they need economic self-sufficiency and the right and power to control all aspects of their lives, with help from but without interference by adults. NAMBLA favors the empowerment of young people in our society. Children should be treated as full human beings, not as the private property of their parents and the state.&#34;<br/><br/>80s NAMBLA.<br/><br/>Youth lib messages by MAPs weren&#39;t accepted then. What is different this time? 2024-09-14T10:04:29Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsynd797h8kwwxfk87pcqt6km8n8wzznvf867gskk45x7k92c0lvjczyqar3g09eq6klwtxxv980tw38d4cjd32q8plp4qfsrhmv0ah7u0su7mp269 There is no justice. The ruling against Marthijn and Lesley was upheld on appeal. They should&#39;ve bribed the judges.<br/><br/><a href="https://wiki.yesmap.net/wiki/Essay:The_Gruesome_Consequences_of_a_Hysterical_Witch_Hunt">https://wiki.yesmap.net/wiki/Essay:The_Gruesome_Consequences_of_a_Hysterical_Witch_Hunt</a> 2024-09-14T06:29:07Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqs8md2wqq8krrm4pehzvyxm8zj40k7anemwvhtnuj2v9r0wjc84jfczyqar3g09eq6klwtxxv980tw38d4cjd32q8plp4qfsrhmv0ah7u0suwnxww5 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqstgn0j50rfhkcl8j5qhhdvef5g6vl0kvsugvy27rhgqw8f92h820q7qxal5'>nevent1q…xal5</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>The remedy to bad speech is more speech and all that.<br/><br/>Stefi&#39;s views include many that I&#39;m strongly opposed to. But would I rather chat to him than having him off in a ghetto talking to other potential storm troopers? For sure. 2024-09-13T12:00:56Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsw0rtld5yhgtwdxaaj0fd6p608xqgggvdtxrvq0ehzj6yryk5492gzyqar3g09eq6klwtxxv980tw38d4cjd32q8plp4qfsrhmv0ah7u0su3ph363 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqswp2wn9hz33xq36rusnx8c0l2tlaakvcrfa4rhnv466khtgnd9wfq8skrkd'>nevent1q…krkd</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>If this community put half the effort into outwards facing activism that it put into internal squabbles... 2024-09-13T05:29:25Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqspt42hewxayegtj2vv9xxxmpzqd5s50hmhmad89yhrvr960y3g5fczyqar3g09eq6klwtxxv980tw38d4cjd32q8plp4qfsrhmv0ah7u0suw08mwv As much as I want to show love and understanding to everyone regardless of their sexuality, if you&#39;re a pro-contact exclusive nepiosadist, I&#39;m sorry but I can&#39;t be your political ally.<br/><br/>I don&#39;t have a good solution for how you should manage your feelings, either. But I hope you find a way to get through. 2024-09-08T17:10:43Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsrjpljqlrsvln5vurjd6tcytyrpflvx479rmxfzjz5cwwtc2egs7qzyqar3g09eq6klwtxxv980tw38d4cjd32q8plp4qfsrhmv0ah7u0suw9xdgz In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs994wamh4fwgmt0trppf06wp866f50qfxejvafd7nnxw7uqlpx63cwxlhfm'>nevent1q…lhfm</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Non-pedi post concerning youth rights popped up on my feed. I couldn&#39;t help but reply to it.<br/><br/>Funny that they distinguished hebephile from pedophile apologism, though! 2024-09-07T02:17:12Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsda49w736zyq68dyvek6hu838cvaah5fwcj9uuxju9a0e826klluczyqar3g09eq6klwtxxv980tw38d4cjd32q8plp4qfsrhmv0ah7u0suqra94e <a href="https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.1080/00224499.2016.1271101">https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.1080/00224499.2016.1271101</a><br/><br/>&#34;we found that the more participants from the pedohebephilic group tended to give socially desirable responses, the less they agreed with arguments against adult–child sex.&#34;<br/><br/>Interesting. Pro-c MAPs are more likely to have pro-social attitudes than anti-c MAPs. Rather than pro-c people being more independent and selfish, it seems they&#39;re more interested in fitting in (outside of the obvious exception). 2024-09-06T09:26:17Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsyzg49yhzn63hya59whkxr74se5ugvg07euqj2kttlw6tv2e89h2szyqar3g09eq6klwtxxv980tw38d4cjd32q8plp4qfsrhmv0ah7u0suayrafw <a href="https://www.map-union.org/blog/perspectives/16-12-pro-reforms-position-on-amsc">https://www.map-union.org/blog/perspectives/16-12-pro-reforms-position-on-amsc</a><br/><br/>Brian and I rewrote the pro-reform 16/12 proposal on AMSC.<br/><br/>The pro-reform position is focused on maintaining a balance of freedoms, responsibilities and protections for MAPs and young people. Obviously, one of the most contentious issues is AMSC (Adult-Minor Sexual Contact). Almost always viewed through the negative lens of child sex abuse, legal definitions of what constitutes criminal sexual contact are highly arbitrary and vary significantly around the world. 2024-09-05T06:27:06Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqs0yya45psv9r30t50224vssgveu36da63nndf0zezx64f5cy03lagzyqar3g09eq6klwtxxv980tw38d4cjd32q8plp4qfsrhmv0ah7u0suk8gnqv In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs9mx44s92c8ahk25qtwl7y73zpdhjxnvd952mqljhaj0y57hj5vucsd53al'>nevent1q…53al</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Now that&#39;d be perpetuating a dox, wouldn&#39;t it? 😘 2024-09-04T16:21:59Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqswyxq6mcrmanwgcf599uwvenfx7d054c49g7urc3xq99v6u73yvvczyqar3g09eq6klwtxxv980tw38d4cjd32q8plp4qfsrhmv0ah7u0su7m597a In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs0jkupclpqp4v92dwa9zs683xptv6tfv8gqfpmlt7zqstcwwads0qf6uvr6'>nevent1q…uvr6</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Does revealing personal information like this count as doxing? 2024-09-04T13:20:49Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqs8d9mckswpuacj0u7nhyddht6txl0ceahwrk880p3ndapuprgml8szyqar3g09eq6klwtxxv980tw38d4cjd32q8plp4qfsrhmv0ah7u0sujp3ptp In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs0zuwppz7a340wzht9n434sc9puhf5nhutzw89ejff3fvlqs03yjc9xr6vs'>nevent1q…r6vs</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>At least the judge is being honest. It&#39;s probably true that they care less about children than they do about their idealized conception of &#34;childhood&#34;. It is their concept of a childhood of &#34;innocence&#34; and free of sexuality that they are trying to protect with laws against AMSC and PIM.<br/><br/>They&#39;d probably try to ban masturbation if they could. Like Finklehor says about CSA, it took causes moral, but not empirical harm. 2024-09-04T07:26:09Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsp0nmpsnqqptukkg3xyleqkswuz9mnmkxgl2w2chxnlc0vqk3tqzgzyqar3g09eq6klwtxxv980tw38d4cjd32q8plp4qfsrhmv0ah7u0suz8qw6s In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqswjkdn4z602xap9n6pm2mrmt8yjpw3cjp2t7x6l3xf9ha893av59qz56ra7'>nevent1q…6ra7</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>an article that was only written in response to the MAP wiki article which also contains screen caps.<br/><br/>It seems there are certain members of the community that don&#39;t like being held to their own standards. 2024-08-22T11:21:07Z