2026-10-24T07:26:55Z https://nostr.now Manuela Malasaña https://nostr.now/npub15yyxfnd75l4uhscfdey34y97jaam8zf8x27yw6zjcjztwp3ey5eswd7y37 https://6-28.mastodon.xyz/accounts/avatars/000/007/775/original/3099920efd91b29e.jpg https://6-28.mastodon.xyz/accounts/avatars/000/007/775/original/3099920efd91b29e.jpg https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsp2vkulj950s8lp8psyq7q09za388shnqqwgymxuxw3c76m34w40czyzsssexdh6n7hj7rp9hyjx5sh6thhvufyuetc3mg2tzgfdcx8yjnx24d26h In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsym2ves08exewteh2lcdv73k6asw3nh73dut9zhvkh3r0qq7ly7fshu70fz'>nevent1q…70fz</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>in most of my last few jobs I have been the literal only female senior engineer or one of the only female senior engineers. I&#39;m like the only women these guys see regularly other than their wife. I get what you are saying but if I held the men I worked to against standards I would have zero career 2026-10-21T13:37:09Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsynhrzygpgntuljzwf5qxhrxh7kuftldue7pyzfpld8y3pdqyuzdszyzsssexdh6n7hj7rp9hyjx5sh6thhvufyuetc3mg2tzgfdcx8yjnxhpxw0n In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs26lzup8hhdka9hnp39j0p6fear7x573de03f384ms0u3ccwqa6sqenrvjj'>nevent1q…rvjj</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>most common ancient brain benign sexism being things like &#34;because women all want children/like being told what to do/are naturally drawn to knitting/are emotional, they are very good at [skill utterly unrelated to whatever it was]&#34;<br/>and then they think they have paid me a compliment lol 2026-10-02T00:53:26Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqs26lzup8hhdka9hnp39j0p6fear7x573de03f384ms0u3ccwqa6sqzyzsssexdh6n7hj7rp9hyjx5sh6thhvufyuetc3mg2tzgfdcx8yjnxral8le In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsygkulpgj6hpzlseskn6pa3gxlpjmxuefpllzz7xvznmx4c542j9s924pu7'>nevent1q…4pu7</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>lol every now and then ive met some old wizard with stories who&#39;s like &#34;ah yes when we used drum memory&#34; or &#34;mind you this was before compilere...&#34; and then they will drop some wild-ass sexist statement outta nowhere. (usually in the form of benign sexism) and it&#39;s like, this guy is going to be dead in a decade or two. I can react with offense and feel all self righteous or I can keep listening to rare antediluvian tech lores 2026-10-02T00:50:17Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsv5q7wedvyphq00s7r8z9cpjnwkqkrnpzynwlyvk3sww73rdj2wxczyzsssexdh6n7hj7rp9hyjx5sh6thhvufyuetc3mg2tzgfdcx8yjnxvlhss9 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsrpjskdu5ku6tdhjrd3wymagkw06crtcdm04vnfm2uha2jrwjsnhq39ty2a'>nevent1q…ty2a</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>the tragic truth is that nearly all men (and some women!) have subconscious beliefs that women are less intelligent, less competent, should be subordinate, etc etc etc. But nearly all the men I&#39;ve worked with do not consciously believe these things. They know these are patriarchical lies and genuinely desire to see women excel in tech. (There are some malicious freaks but that&#39;s a topic for another thread)<br/>More &#34;don&#39;t do a sexism&#34; isn&#39;t the solution because they already don&#39;t want to do a sexism 2026-10-02T00:36:26Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsrpjskdu5ku6tdhjrd3wymagkw06crtcdm04vnfm2uha2jrwjsnhqzyzsssexdh6n7hj7rp9hyjx5sh6thhvufyuetc3mg2tzgfdcx8yjnxc0r9a4 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsd8z0sy5rhhxd3cwgvsxda7gj0s857nlv5a3rt89n8rsxycwa0ldg8gfyxv'>nevent1q…fyxv</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>If you asked any of those guys directly about when their kids were little, they probably would be practically weeping with gratitude towards their wife, talking about how amazing she is and how hard she worked.<br/>But subconsciously it&#39;s out of sight out of mind!<br/>It&#39;s not their fault, it&#39;s the programming they got since they were boys<br/>Since it&#39;s not their fault, make it impossible for this flavor of sexism to happen by setting up interviewing and hiring processes that remove the possibility 2026-10-02T00:22:30Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsd8z0sy5rhhxd3cwgvsxda7gj0s857nlv5a3rt89n8rsxycwa0ldgzyzsssexdh6n7hj7rp9hyjx5sh6thhvufyuetc3mg2tzgfdcx8yjnxu5td6j In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsw50wq5wl5nvnpgcjgkjhthjknx03zlt3j3nm34tar2zq77ehca0gt872lh'>nevent1q…72lh</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>two of the three guys i overheard having that discussion had children!<br/><br/>the fact that they weren&#39;t thinking &#34;ah yes, when the kids are that age it&#39;s hard to find time for gaming&#34; is extremely telling.<br/>Because it means that when their kids were that age, those guys had all the time in the world to play video games.<br/>I wonder why!<br/>And you can tell how little, subconsciously, they value their wife&#39;s childrearing when they think &#34;well I could play lots of vidya when MY kid was 2, so what&#39;s her deal?&#34; 2026-10-02T00:18:16Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsw50wq5wl5nvnpgcjgkjhthjknx03zlt3j3nm34tar2zq77ehca0gzyzsssexdh6n7hj7rp9hyjx5sh6thhvufyuetc3mg2tzgfdcx8yjnxffupqq In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqswt30rutwpm8s7z8gj705t7wfl8sa3zxma8uaws6cqecmtc32pmcs2q0g7c'>nevent1q…0g7c</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>They didn&#39;t like her because at lunch she admitted she had no idea what the latest video games or sci fi/fantasy TV shows were because she had two young children so she is saturated in kids media. <br/><br/>because of that they passed on her and hired some jackass who vaped all the time in our cramped open office and made the place reek of chemical vape flavor<br/><br/>managers had not the slightest clue they were Doing A Sexism. Looking for &#34;culture fit&#34; is a policy which leads to sexist outcomes 2026-10-02T00:05:36Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqswt30rutwpm8s7z8gj705t7wfl8sa3zxma8uaws6cqecmtc32pmcszyzsssexdh6n7hj7rp9hyjx5sh6thhvufyuetc3mg2tzgfdcx8yjnxlnnc78 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsx3emqtvh7jc93z3k9sg4l6f0555khn0lpyzg85rnume8lallh05sv4w2ec'>nevent1q…w2ec</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>One of the more disturbing instances of sexism I saw was in enterprise when team was interviewing a bunch of senior SWEs. Late in the interview proceess team takes candidate to lunch to assess &#34;culture fit&#34; When I interviewed, because im a turbonerd I aced the &#34;culture fit&#34; test. A SWE I worked with at another job interviewed and I knew her skills were just what the team needed. <br/>I overheard managers talking about it. She aced whiteboard, tech round, etc<br/>&#34;ugh but she&#39;s just such a mom&#34; 2026-10-02T00:01:15Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsx3emqtvh7jc93z3k9sg4l6f0555khn0lpyzg85rnume8lallh05szyzsssexdh6n7hj7rp9hyjx5sh6thhvufyuetc3mg2tzgfdcx8yjnxy879f7 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqstdrcd6rxuxpx5qzfgqx45fcjguf27f98shp8smp0w9t07xkqatdst34pgv'>nevent1q…4pgv</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>lol I have also seen the dreaded &#34;ask senior female engineer to make coffee&#34;, and each time it wasn&#39;t some alpha male power play, it was a breathtakingly stupid move by a guy who hadn&#39;t had his coffee yet. okay so his subconscious brain thinks women should do domestic labor. he probably is in denial about it because his conscious brain knows that&#39;s bad. Make the easiest action be to not ask a woman to make coffee by havin one of them fancy coffee machines with buttons n shit 2026-10-01T23:53:04Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqstdrcd6rxuxpx5qzfgqx45fcjguf27f98shp8smp0w9t07xkqatdszyzsssexdh6n7hj7rp9hyjx5sh6thhvufyuetc3mg2tzgfdcx8yjnx2u9jtw In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs95j2wc2d20x9fz99f3pv7jtaawlqx40zzgsxpcvz88ktgmyqm5yqfqsa8j'>nevent1q…sa8j</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>calling men who commit micro-aggressions sexist is like telling people to stop climate change by using paper straws. In the case of the classic &#34;talk over woman during meeting&#34; and similar, calling some tired out guy who fell back on the shitty behavioral script programmed into him from childhood a sexist and shunning him does nothing. Excusing it does nothing. Instead, make systems in which the easiest choice for someone who is tired and distracted is one that isn&#39;t sexist 2026-10-01T23:46:23Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqs95j2wc2d20x9fz99f3pv7jtaawlqx40zzgsxpcvz88ktgmyqm5yqzyzsssexdh6n7hj7rp9hyjx5sh6thhvufyuetc3mg2tzgfdcx8yjnxh6df2d Like half the men I&#39;ve worked with have done something sexist, and most of those guys were usually cool<br/>most of the time it was something when they were already mentally taxed and not something they&#39;d have done if they weren&#39;t distracted (ie, they&#39;re behind schedule, someone needs to take notes from meeting. Make the only woman engineer take notes without examining why they thought that&#39;s who should have to take notes, proceed to worry about 5 unrelated things)<br/>It&#39;s a UX issue, not a user issue 2026-10-01T23:36:59Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqs2xvc9wmxmnn54lhlrm65gqqxr9rcyp2zhzqv2zcq9d5na03sz2xqzyzsssexdh6n7hj7rp9hyjx5sh6thhvufyuetc3mg2tzgfdcx8yjnxqfcxnd i regret to inform everyone that yet again a home repair task i procrastinated on for months was completed in less than five minutes 2026-09-22T07:34:53Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsqlyg4mf8qer09te8ydv68naxn5j0p8v3859zazlmzmj3xetcx3ugzyzsssexdh6n7hj7rp9hyjx5sh6thhvufyuetc3mg2tzgfdcx8yjnxunjpg0 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs96rkxvyzh6tvgn7hhnf3lt0fwqxnm285te4vy9elycc2fdehlrygxdrx57'>nevent1q…rx57</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I think a cause of much of the confusion about what capitalism is comes from claims that ending capitalism will in itself solve society&#39;s problems, so people reject a definition of capitalism that doesn&#39;t include those problems. Capitalism can&#39;t mean &#34;a system of capital accumulation&#34; because if u get rid of that there are still problems!<br/><br/>the thing is that ending capitalism won&#39;t fix misogyny, racism, war, etc. Ending capitalism will make fixing those things a hell of a lot easier though 2026-08-24T14:46:24Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqs96rkxvyzh6tvgn7hhnf3lt0fwqxnm285te4vy9elycc2fdehlrygzyzsssexdh6n7hj7rp9hyjx5sh6thhvufyuetc3mg2tzgfdcx8yjnx20twna In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsyej9jtk90yqd3954659fkpmdx4rsye8pf6g5nls0v97z8f0gxaeqq2ypxg'>nevent1q…ypxg</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>the other thing i get whenever i do a thread like this is people telling me that the fact i have a degree in economics or use academic definitions makes me tainted and a fake leftist or something<br/><br/>hey so if the only people allowed to study economics are capitalists, guess who will be the only people who have studied economics 2026-08-24T14:31:56Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsyej9jtk90yqd3954659fkpmdx4rsye8pf6g5nls0v97z8f0gxaeqzyzsssexdh6n7hj7rp9hyjx5sh6thhvufyuetc3mg2tzgfdcx8yjnxkpsh6k In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqswja3psqfcq7st7gj98lmwpvh4q5m5e2u0ngaaz76fckha9xl6tls7ux8u8'>nevent1q…x8u8</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I frequently have people mad at me for saying capitalism is not literally misogyny, white supremacy, war, slavery, nation states, etc. Look, if &#34;capitalism&#34; is &#34;everything wrong with the human condition&#34; then fighting it requires solving &#34;everything wrong with the human condition&#34; so might as well not try.<br/><br/>but capitalism is not &#34;everything wrong with the human condition&#34; it&#39;s organizing society around capital accumulation. <br/><br/>we *can* dismantle that. that&#39;s doable. don&#39;t you think? 2026-08-24T14:19:03Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqswja3psqfcq7st7gj98lmwpvh4q5m5e2u0ngaaz76fckha9xl6tlszyzsssexdh6n7hj7rp9hyjx5sh6thhvufyuetc3mg2tzgfdcx8yjnxhdy52u In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs9ex7d0uv47cghzpx8uxhjaky4jlexred057g470kp0dv8e0fvzxqjxdlde'>nevent1q…dlde</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Mailbag! From a prior thread on &#34;trade != capitalism&#34;<br/><br/>&#34;you&#39;re using economic definitions of capitalism which is capitalism apologia&#34; ok u have created an unfalsifiable argument where if anyone actually uses economic terms u call them a capitalist <br/><br/>they then conflate intersectionality with the thing itself. capitalism intersects with and amplifies misogyny, white supremacy, war, etc but capitalism is specifically a system of private property and accumulation of capital<br/> <img src="https://6-28.mastodon.xyz/media_attachments/files/117/150/804/789/858/232/original/bbaaa5667a3546c8.jpeg"> <br/> 2026-08-24T14:06:57Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqs9ex7d0uv47cghzpx8uxhjaky4jlexred057g470kp0dv8e0fvzxqzyzsssexdh6n7hj7rp9hyjx5sh6thhvufyuetc3mg2tzgfdcx8yjnxjs76kx In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsguetuw6kyyfehtzl6ck2ktrherwgjh4tlaltahhw2plxar3xh8sc2axzp3'>nevent1q…xzp3</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>also, even if they are right and exchanging goods leads to evil<br/><br/>capitalism still doesn&#39;t mean &#34;exchanging goods&#34; 2026-08-24T13:44:05Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsguetuw6kyyfehtzl6ck2ktrherwgjh4tlaltahhw2plxar3xh8sczyzsssexdh6n7hj7rp9hyjx5sh6thhvufyuetc3mg2tzgfdcx8yjnxpyktn3 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsz5cc53g6xepex3ejc8d38jmmak6t9q009cfs99995wasd2fdqedgdgfk05'>nevent1q…fk05</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>We&#39;ve got a live one!<br/>Okay but don&#39;t bother replying to this person. This is a common style of reply I get every time I get on my &#34;capitalism is not exchanging goods&#34; soapbox, let&#39;s examine it<br/><br/>This is a textbook slippery slope argument, if we accept this premise then two neighbors sharing tools leads to the prison industrial complex.<br/><br/>We also have the classic &#34;why is your imagination so limited?&#34;<br/>ok how does an insulin or microchip supply chain work when we just &#34;share objects of value&#34;?<br/> <img src="https://6-28.mastodon.xyz/media_attachments/files/117/150/752/499/214/532/original/68a4dc5ecd189974.jpeg"> <br/> 2026-08-24T13:42:27Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsz5cc53g6xepex3ejc8d38jmmak6t9q009cfs99995wasd2fdqedgzyzsssexdh6n7hj7rp9hyjx5sh6thhvufyuetc3mg2tzgfdcx8yjnx0g8fgw In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsz8zv9phjsfzcjhxn4v4nmrekuk8nutcqf85huwd6us5rjvdenqhq634jks'>nevent1q…4jks</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>It&#39;s like &#34;emotional labor&#34; which is supposed to mean &#34;being forced to perform emotions during wage labor&#34; but has turned into &#34;tolerating DMs from that annoying friend I don&#39;t like&#34; 2026-08-24T13:08:38Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsz8zv9phjsfzcjhxn4v4nmrekuk8nutcqf85huwd6us5rjvdenqhqzyzsssexdh6n7hj7rp9hyjx5sh6thhvufyuetc3mg2tzgfdcx8yjnx0tez94 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs2pq2ry9ewnph68cyrw9jlqzjrsnvgc828a8ldw8j5ylf0jkx3lvsaedexv'>nevent1q…dexv</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>half the people in my mentions: mutual aid doesn&#39;t mean charity! <br/>half the posts in my timeline: MUTUAL AID REQUEST! help I am a neurodivergent disabled trans woman of color and the primary caretaker of my dying mother and we need $500 by the end of the month or we will be evicted! please boost!! 2026-08-24T13:01:11Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqs2pq2ry9ewnph68cyrw9jlqzjrsnvgc828a8ldw8j5ylf0jkx3lvszyzsssexdh6n7hj7rp9hyjx5sh6thhvufyuetc3mg2tzgfdcx8yjnxc3yk6f In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsd0nhppxjpvukjneyqduetnhzfslm3hq9gxxmgtfz06sjtcgm9w3shklk4g'>nevent1q…lk4g</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>utopia test: it&#39;s not utopia unless assholes are treated decently.<br/>Because otherwise someone is going to change the definition of asshole to mean you 2026-08-22T18:42:01Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsd0nhppxjpvukjneyqduetnhzfslm3hq9gxxmgtfz06sjtcgm9w3szyzsssexdh6n7hj7rp9hyjx5sh6thhvufyuetc3mg2tzgfdcx8yjnx2vu8kf In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqspkjcu74prmhpq0rvavph9y5g7994g0zv8zlk62vdll9tfyslxezcqsdf3e'>nevent1q…df3e</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Bonus hot take: &#34;mutual aid&#34; is a symptom of a failed society. The ideal society is not built on mutual aid. In the ideal society someone can get the resources they need without having to publicly broadcast their own desperation and perform humble supplication for the approval of benefactors. In the ideal society even assholes get what they need with dignity and privacy. Because if an asshole can get what they need nobody can deny you because they &#34;didn&#39;t like your tone&#34; or whatever 2026-08-22T18:40:32Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqspkjcu74prmhpq0rvavph9y5g7994g0zv8zlk62vdll9tfyslxezczyzsssexdh6n7hj7rp9hyjx5sh6thhvufyuetc3mg2tzgfdcx8yjnxc0ukj2 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs9u274pfjj5l4p3884kj0wcvyvz6yjz029n9yzuzhen95e2s5r3sq8mh3jv'>nevent1q…h3jv</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>So we return to<br/>Not capitalism: I sell a sock to get money to buy a pizza<br/><br/>capitalism: some asshole in Belgium sells shares in the British East India Trading Company to get money to buy shares in the Dutch West India Company 2026-08-22T18:21:08Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqs9u274pfjj5l4p3884kj0wcvyvz6yjz029n9yzuzhen95e2s5r3sqzyzsssexdh6n7hj7rp9hyjx5sh6thhvufyuetc3mg2tzgfdcx8yjnx4rngxr In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsqawadfy6uagnv83ycn7tcs2wdfww6we4dhx0ztrg79ed8hncvatq0z8gru'>nevent1q…8gru</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>What was so capitalistic about the Atlantic slave trade vs the ancient Roman slave trade for example was that the Atlantic slave trade was turbocharged by relatively newly introduced financial instruments (stocks, bonds, futures) incentivizing wealthy Europeans who lived in nations in which slavery was illegal to invest in the slave trade to get a slice of the pie<br/>You see here how capitalism - CAPITAL - made something already bad so much worse 2026-08-22T18:18:25Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsqawadfy6uagnv83ycn7tcs2wdfww6we4dhx0ztrg79ed8hncvatqzyzsssexdh6n7hj7rp9hyjx5sh6thhvufyuetc3mg2tzgfdcx8yjnxm3vg2d In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs9a99jxfs2adzpujnvqjnpuz0gcedrresdu72ac8ud29vw7ctg82gz3eaan'>nevent1q…eaan</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Then they got mad when i argued chattel slavery is not capitalism, accusing me of being a slavery apologist. no. slavery is evil. capitalism is evil. capitalism drove the atlantic slave trade and all atrocities thereof. but capitalism and slavery are two entirely different things. u can tell because they are spell different. more than one kind of thing can be bad. pls keep up 2026-08-22T18:10:38Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqs9a99jxfs2adzpujnvqjnpuz0gcedrresdu72ac8ud29vw7ctg82gzyzsssexdh6n7hj7rp9hyjx5sh6thhvufyuetc3mg2tzgfdcx8yjnxgjx9su In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsglzm62dxa9g78qev758qzkj74ln96q9lvwujlzak8r7wq2802kgq8cup3c'>nevent1q…up3c</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Another unhinged argument I had on here was when I asserted that corporations (which I defined as a legal entity that is used to engage in commerce) are not inherently capitalistic (for example, a co-op enterprise) <br/>They did NOT like that.<br/>When I pointed out that there were legal corporations in Japan over a thousand years ago, their counterargument was &#34;they used SLAVES&#34;<br/>okay but that is also not the same as capitalism.... 2026-08-22T18:01:21Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsglzm62dxa9g78qev758qzkj74ln96q9lvwujlzak8r7wq2802kgqzyzsssexdh6n7hj7rp9hyjx5sh6thhvufyuetc3mg2tzgfdcx8yjnxmwzf0h In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsgx80fpdqeh5cqgj66kkw6fkzkcxzu2krtn8aka4tfwy92dj8utpgq6yp9x'>nevent1q…yp9x</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>i have a bachelor&#39;s degree in economics from saint louis university 😂 2026-08-22T17:46:15Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsgx80fpdqeh5cqgj66kkw6fkzkcxzu2krtn8aka4tfwy92dj8utpgzyzsssexdh6n7hj7rp9hyjx5sh6thhvufyuetc3mg2tzgfdcx8yjnxzd54qm In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs27flrxkj2eenlvm436rwv46llmcyeqde2u2wfq6fcfmx0stpjtsskfdnly'>nevent1q…dnly</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>What is alienated labor? I am glad you asked! Marx gives us four different ways it can happen<br/><br/>1. You don&#39;t own what you make<br/>2. You don&#39;t control when or how long you work<br/>3. You don&#39;t have any creativity or agency<br/>4. You have to adopt a seige mentality against other people<br/><br/>If you can only do art as a response to a mutual aid request you are alienated on axes 2 and 3 right there<br/>If you have to fight fellow artists for a limited number of requests, you get 4 as a bonus! 2026-08-22T17:45:26Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqs27flrxkj2eenlvm436rwv46llmcyeqde2u2wfq6fcfmx0stpjtsszyzsssexdh6n7hj7rp9hyjx5sh6thhvufyuetc3mg2tzgfdcx8yjnx9yl9fs In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqspuxsxed2magcvzcj6m9j5zk48mza8p2klmzrue3t5lk33hznhjqgy0ee94'>nevent1q…ee94</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>capitalism causes alienation of labor. labor done because you just feel like it is *unalienated* labor. the entire point of socialism is to allow people to do labor that fulfills them, this &#34;unalienated&#34; labor. when you are like: no, you are not allowed to hone a craft or practice a trade until you get a support ticket!!! you have completely lost the plot 2026-08-22T17:35:28Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqspuxsxed2magcvzcj6m9j5zk48mza8p2klmzrue3t5lk33hznhjqgzyzsssexdh6n7hj7rp9hyjx5sh6thhvufyuetc3mg2tzgfdcx8yjnxj2pkkf In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsw8vk0h2a68x2a0484k84j77d8c6kme8zcftsdzg3vkj7tm8ar5gc863r65'>nevent1q…3r65</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>One of the more unhinged arguments I had on here was with someone who told me that in a socialist society I should not be able knit stuff for no reason (hats, socks, scarves I don&#39;t actually want to keep) then sell them to get more yarn, I should only make knitted goods in response to a mutual aid request. I would get yarn by making a mutual aid request.<br/><br/>glad we are fighting the capitalist &#34;shut down infrastructure, those in need rely on private charity&#34; model with the literal exact same model 2026-08-22T17:29:42Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsw8vk0h2a68x2a0484k84j77d8c6kme8zcftsdzg3vkj7tm8ar5gczyzsssexdh6n7hj7rp9hyjx5sh6thhvufyuetc3mg2tzgfdcx8yjnx64c26s In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqspd98ecafrp79n3rrdcxdnylv9xa7fnjcmuwx2zfmkjsplyyg0twgpzg3sp'>nevent1q…g3sp</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>if u dont like that take it up with marx cuz thats a direct paraphrase of das kapital<br/><br/>yes he was very concerned with video gam 2026-08-22T17:05:05Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqspd98ecafrp79n3rrdcxdnylv9xa7fnjcmuwx2zfmkjsplyyg0twgzyzsssexdh6n7hj7rp9hyjx5sh6thhvufyuetc3mg2tzgfdcx8yjnx2nkd6e In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsfgfz555rvxe65s2uksd0zwnfek8mljcnhh3ze78z8dsvwsx92cdsdyq0t4'>nevent1q…q0t4</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>not capitalism: you sell a thing to get money to use to buy a thing you consume (pizza, video game, sock)<br/><br/>capitalism: you sell a thing to get money to use to buy stuff for making more money (other people labor to make more thing to sell, factory equipment, lawyer) 2026-08-22T17:02:09Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsfgfz555rvxe65s2uksd0zwnfek8mljcnhh3ze78z8dsvwsx92cdszyzsssexdh6n7hj7rp9hyjx5sh6thhvufyuetc3mg2tzgfdcx8yjnxvl93xt In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqst76mxttc0h3x2vmptck70xuwrthl6du82n4n0cnezen5ht0k427ckf53yk'>nevent1q…53yk</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>small children exchange toys and snacks. ANIMALS exchange goods with each other. you cannot design a society in which this will never occur without spending most of that society&#39;s resources on surveillance and punishment. please do not get your definition of socialism from capitalists. definitely plesse don&#39;t get your definition of socialism from capitalists and then go &#34;yes that sounds great to me!&#34; 2026-08-22T16:48:25Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqst76mxttc0h3x2vmptck70xuwrthl6du82n4n0cnezen5ht0k427czyzsssexdh6n7hj7rp9hyjx5sh6thhvufyuetc3mg2tzgfdcx8yjnx76c2p8 i have run into far too many fellow leftists on here who believe that literally exchanging objects of value for goods and services is capitalism and will freak out if any proposed socialist society permits this to occur. i beg of you, if you are going to fight capitalism please first learn what capitalism is (hint: it involves capital) 2026-08-22T16:44:40Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsx97z64lwcagw0y87klesevperm5znnccyky5x7tr7uuek0x5ay9szyzsssexdh6n7hj7rp9hyjx5sh6thhvufyuetc3mg2tzgfdcx8yjnx4pa688 same<br/> <img src="https://6-28.mastodon.xyz/media_attachments/files/116/573/733/196/736/676/original/05aaa289e26d1154.jpeg"> <br/> 2026-05-14T15:53:59Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqs9k0putg95jkvsatqwjqmgr45y6shu20xplrrdlacvxjdwe3mmyzszyzsssexdh6n7hj7rp9hyjx5sh6thhvufyuetc3mg2tzgfdcx8yjnx66accv i have been getting into the opera Roberto Devereux by Donizetti lately. the opera&#39;s plot can be summarized as follows (SPOILERS): once upon a time there was a guy named roberto who fucked around and, tragically, found out. the end 2026-04-04T03:20:46Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsgn6jm2hjqevuxzw32mxx2nxzq526dk4auh5k0drdnaudqxavh5yszyzsssexdh6n7hj7rp9hyjx5sh6thhvufyuetc3mg2tzgfdcx8yjnxvndntj In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsvdjncwcq7cay7ch8564dv58x87kvetmqv9vduxh75qpw6e9x277q9wgrgl'>nevent1q…grgl</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>a woman should not have to be exceptional in order to suceed in tech. Competence and reliability should be enough. It&#39;s certainly enough for men. As it should be. It is statistically impossible for everyone to be exceptional 2026-03-09T10:23:11Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsvdjncwcq7cay7ch8564dv58x87kvetmqv9vduxh75qpw6e9x277qzyzsssexdh6n7hj7rp9hyjx5sh6thhvufyuetc3mg2tzgfdcx8yjnx7h5jkc In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsdfuaschjrknd7r74dp32llphyfn9p3r30eq4l2t6edyvjfgzldhqm5qxdr'>nevent1q…qxdr</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I have been able to suceed in my career as a female game developer due to my exceptional ability. All the other female developers I&#39;ve worked with have also been exceptional. It&#39;s not that women are better devs, it&#39;s that mediocre female devs are brutally ejected. Nearly any man believes that there exist exceptional women who are very capable. What&#39;s more unusual is a man willing to tolerate a mediocre woman with the compassion he extends to a mediocre man 2026-03-09T10:20:07Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsdfuaschjrknd7r74dp32llphyfn9p3r30eq4l2t6edyvjfgzldhqzyzsssexdh6n7hj7rp9hyjx5sh6thhvufyuetc3mg2tzgfdcx8yjnxsd9z3x In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs93esh3p4gg9m93pvhvnmqwxzh9ax75fkasgzc75t324znhpu3zugfk2jvr'>nevent1q…2jvr</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>A comforting lie that a lot of men tell themselves is that sexism exists because some fools don&#39;t believe that women are as intelligent or capable as men, so if we just *show* them, when confronted with the evidence, they will stop being sexist. And you see this attitude projected backwards in historical fiction, men 200 years ago must not have known women can do any intellectual task a man can! They did know. They do know. This &#34;just show them the evidence&#34; strat doesn&#39;t work bc they&#39;ve seen it 2026-03-09T10:14:49Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqs93esh3p4gg9m93pvhvnmqwxzh9ax75fkasgzc75t324znhpu3zugzyzsssexdh6n7hj7rp9hyjx5sh6thhvufyuetc3mg2tzgfdcx8yjnx9l9035 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqszjm5pd2ewvnzj5m2fmwzvtx9jvsl4gqfpafh9xp303l3kpsheghcgdwe5d'>nevent1q…we5d</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>The most sickening variation of this to me is how women have been in competitive video gaming scenes since inception, but their history has been completely omitted from cultural memory and women are still being treated as newcomers to the scene. The fact that women existing in that space for decades didn&#39;t &#34;pave the way&#34; but were instead erased entirely 2026-03-09T09:59:18Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqszjm5pd2ewvnzj5m2fmwzvtx9jvsl4gqfpafh9xp303l3kpsheghczyzsssexdh6n7hj7rp9hyjx5sh6thhvufyuetc3mg2tzgfdcx8yjnxhz0ew3 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsw2yvavffcru7c2cur9hkmny9e6p2uxenty9dmg2rfsdz6t5cwfyqj5v7pk'>nevent1q…v7pk</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>sorry about how everything is kinda fucked up, it&#39;s just that you are so unique there is no precedent for people like you existing here<br/><br/>Fascinating how this same line of bullshit is given to me as a female programmer in the tech industry and as a contralto in classical singing when actually there have been people like me for over a hundred years in both 2026-03-09T09:55:07Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsw2yvavffcru7c2cur9hkmny9e6p2uxenty9dmg2rfsdz6t5cwfyqzyzsssexdh6n7hj7rp9hyjx5sh6thhvufyuetc3mg2tzgfdcx8yjnxl8ysg8 Reflecting on all the times in my career as a software engineer I have been told that, yes, things were a bit unfair to me as a woman, but that I was being a trailblazer, I was the one discovering and establishing the path that would enable others to follow.<br/><br/>But you go back to the 70s and you see the same number of women programmers, being fed that exact same line<br/>And in the 80s<br/>and the 90s<br/>and so on to today. The &#34;trailblazer&#34; narrative is a lie told by managers to make themselves feel better 2026-03-09T09:52:13Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsqpahr6f5r90g9qa38ewlakut5g4ffnzxe0fmfrcpj7kft45pf8lszyzsssexdh6n7hj7rp9hyjx5sh6thhvufyuetc3mg2tzgfdcx8yjnxfzlvff call from unknown number in this area code<br/>I pick it up. Silence<br/>After a second I ask &#34;who is calling?&#34;<br/>&#34;Is this Manuela?&#34;<br/>&#34;Who is calling?&#34;<br/>&#34;Is this Manuela?&#34;<br/>&#34;Who is calling?&#34;<br/>&#34;This is Seton women&#39;s health, we got a referral from your physician...&#34;<br/><br/>the fact that even legitimate callers take so long to identify themselves is fucking infuriating because it takes that much longer to discern if it&#39;s a spam call or not. it used to be the caller would say who they were what the hell has happened? 2026-01-08T15:25:43Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsycxa0snjww4v5r9wv6d3crurdqagxr8jgdfrv76c3amzf7z4pjdczyzsssexdh6n7hj7rp9hyjx5sh6thhvufyuetc3mg2tzgfdcx8yjnxhgjxjw In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs9t4f8wpjd9j4vf77qejsrxmc2u0fa0q2qq38ftk2ya59ctuhc9rc2fxduf'>nevent1q…xduf</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>me: i am a socialist<br/>liberal: yes i love social democracy<br/>me: sorry, let me clarify - i am a ｓ ｏ ｃ ｉ ａ ｌ ｉ ｓ ｔ 2025-12-22T23:04:05Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqs9t4f8wpjd9j4vf77qejsrxmc2u0fa0q2qq38ftk2ya59ctuhc9rczyzsssexdh6n7hj7rp9hyjx5sh6thhvufyuetc3mg2tzgfdcx8yjnxtgavc7 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsydfn8ljjyfyjxlnsdlhmk6txw7qcycwngts7tr0ej23w3n25vsps0auclp'>nevent1q…uclp</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>the first Christmas after he and my sister got married I didn&#39;t get him anything not out of malice but because I forgot. He got me a sort of Ruth Bader Ginsburg fandom novelty card game I suppose because I&#39;m a woman of left leaning politics. I politely accepted this gift, keeping my opinion that i cannot even jokingly idolize RBG due to her complicity in strengthening the grip of capitalism to myself, but still looking like jerk cuz he got me something and I got him fuck all 2025-12-22T23:00:48Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsydfn8ljjyfyjxlnsdlhmk6txw7qcycwngts7tr0ej23w3n25vspszyzsssexdh6n7hj7rp9hyjx5sh6thhvufyuetc3mg2tzgfdcx8yjnx8xrch0 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqswllpgc7vgh4eterxlj640kvw9ml6tqus4vqwecl03cy5ayl3sm0sne40ts'>nevent1q…40ts</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>if we had a functional friendship this would not be an issue, it&#39;s the fact that relations are chilly and for my long term lack of annoyances i am trying not to let things get any worse that make this seem a bit dicey. he will certainly at a minimum perform gratitude because he is a functional human, so that is not a concern 2025-12-22T22:45:24Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqswllpgc7vgh4eterxlj640kvw9ml6tqus4vqwecl03cy5ayl3sm0szyzsssexdh6n7hj7rp9hyjx5sh6thhvufyuetc3mg2tzgfdcx8yjnxclu4dk In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsqs9v078fqjxd6fxj8t3c3dsmvdfs3k3684qqvvncz7wladgvsc5ceyjaur'>nevent1q…jaur</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>i got him these <a href="https://darntough.com/collections/the-classic-hiker/products/mens-merino-wool-hiker-micro-crew-cushioned-midweight-hiking-socks">https://darntough.com/collections/the-classic-hiker/products/mens-merino-wool-hiker-micro-crew-cushioned-midweight-hiking-socks</a><br/><br/>ha! ha! ha! how thoughtful i am! i thought<br/><br/>...an attempt was made 2025-12-22T22:37:15Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsqs9v078fqjxd6fxj8t3c3dsmvdfs3k3684qqvvncz7wladgvsc5czyzsssexdh6n7hj7rp9hyjx5sh6thhvufyuetc3mg2tzgfdcx8yjnxqavddc In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs0q9d5h6cr5zz7sq58dflymdftvtd2pvngj0uylqu87j6l8wuvqesahxm3m'>nevent1q…xm3m</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>sock semiotics 2025-12-22T22:32:09Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqs0q9d5h6cr5zz7sq58dflymdftvtd2pvngj0uylqu87j6l8wuvqeszyzsssexdh6n7hj7rp9hyjx5sh6thhvufyuetc3mg2tzgfdcx8yjnxa2hk90 my brother in law (who i do not like) is an avid hiker so for christmas i got him some really high quality hiking socks recommended by Serious Hiking People. I was thinking I&#39;d done my duty as a functional member of a family but it just occurred to me that socks is THE archetypal gift an asshole gives for christmas. ah fuck 2025-12-22T22:29:00Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqs0lrd794qnx40c2tlqe95mclfthc20aaa6r2hcrse8egygz847g5gzyzsssexdh6n7hj7rp9hyjx5sh6thhvufyuetc3mg2tzgfdcx8yjnxf2d2ey In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqszpts8n4rdnc7pmln659nl8nv7n5gfusncln3rs2726y0vypmr9rqmf6fsa'>nevent1q…6fsa</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>and now for the real fun: direct comparison with the equivalent identity reveal scene in Paisiello&#39;s Barber of Seville<br/><br/>HQ on Youtube: <a href="https://youtu.be/XB2V0Zk5d7M">https://youtu.be/XB2V0Zk5d7M</a><br/><video controls width="100%" class="max-h-[90vh] bg-neutral-300 dark:bg-zinc-700"><source src="https://6-28.mastodon.xyz/media_attachments/files/115/727/441/901/835/973/original/13eaa94b1b754d97.mp4"></video><br/> 2025-12-16T04:51:11Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqszpts8n4rdnc7pmln659nl8nv7n5gfusncln3rs2726y0vypmr9rqzyzsssexdh6n7hj7rp9hyjx5sh6thhvufyuetc3mg2tzgfdcx8yjnx6mqgwp I did the recitative from Rossini&#39;s Barber of Seville in which the Count reveals his identity to Rosina in English. holy moly is Rossini&#39;s Count a high-sitting tenor role. Aha but hey look I&#39;m actually doing a contralto role for once with Rossini&#39;s Rosina<br/><br/>HQ on YouTube: <a href="https://youtu.be/iUQxgg1L9g4">https://youtu.be/iUQxgg1L9g4</a><br/><video controls width="100%" class="max-h-[90vh] bg-neutral-300 dark:bg-zinc-700"><source src="https://6-28.mastodon.xyz/media_attachments/files/115/727/370/494/462/719/original/d5ee8803ae8f0d3d.mp4"></video><br/> 2025-12-16T04:34:43Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsv8g3nwr8j8ddw873ufyh62jxedkxqz89f2gjjj799vtcxa9nqz3qzyzsssexdh6n7hj7rp9hyjx5sh6thhvufyuetc3mg2tzgfdcx8yjnxzsyh3p In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsyk7ay3ctgt695l4zdkzjx237mg7ym2lt42nyg3r9xhrlckmkq09gctsa6h'>nevent1q…sa6h</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>me: you still have food<br/>frankie: that is patently untrue<br/>me: look<br/>frankie: i am looking!<br/>me: <br/>[i pick up the bowl, shake it, and set it down]<br/>frankie: holy shit 2025-12-15T00:42:20Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsyk7ay3ctgt695l4zdkzjx237mg7ym2lt42nyg3r9xhrlckmkq09gzyzsssexdh6n7hj7rp9hyjx5sh6thhvufyuetc3mg2tzgfdcx8yjnxvlc22g In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsgddzxwr3wqejmrr5xarwtnwt3rpq6ysqj8g227s7vpxly4g9s29caaaex0'>nevent1q…aex0</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>frankie: i love you. i love you. i lo-o-o-o-ove you<br/>me: you&#39;re hungry<br/>frankie: no. noooo. i just love you soooooo much<br/>me:<br/>frankie: a bit. im a bit hungry yes. but also i love you<br/>me: <br/>frankie: i am on the brink of death 2025-12-15T00:37:32Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsgddzxwr3wqejmrr5xarwtnwt3rpq6ysqj8g227s7vpxly4g9s29czyzsssexdh6n7hj7rp9hyjx5sh6thhvufyuetc3mg2tzgfdcx8yjnx9m5ya8 frankie: give me what you&#39;re eating<br/>me: it&#39;s bread<br/>frankie: cool. give it here<br/>me: you dont like bread<br/>frankie: i want this more than i have ever wanted anything in my life<br/>me: too bad<br/>frankie: ok. i get it. i see how it is. ...what&#39;s that?!<br/>me: what?<br/>[frankie takes a big bite of bread then spits it out]<br/>me: ah you hairy bastard! well now you see all the good that did you<br/>frankie: actually i changed my mind can i have more 2025-12-15T00:26:43Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqs8rqljc96djdzkefnhhelf7dnal8j3487eauvq8hgweuqa5s5ledqzyzsssexdh6n7hj7rp9hyjx5sh6thhvufyuetc3mg2tzgfdcx8yjnxj7w2n5 stray thought: one of the coolest features of English is that any noun can be used as a verb and while the result may not successfully convey meaning, it will be grammatically sensible. it is extremely tragic that you can&#39;t just append &#34;-ear&#34; to any random Spanish noun without sounding like a fucking moron<br/><br/>quiero verboear todos los sustantivos pero no se puede 🥲 2025-12-13T02:26:12Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsfg6s4vh58yztt4pnfqnldp2ngz9vjruxlz6w7nkv5ekztmvu6kvszyzsssexdh6n7hj7rp9hyjx5sh6thhvufyuetc3mg2tzgfdcx8yjnxtukc06 the original Ecco Ridente<br/><video controls width="100%" class="max-h-[90vh] bg-neutral-300 dark:bg-zinc-700"><source src="https://6-28.mastodon.xyz/media_attachments/files/115/591/956/824/681/429/original/85fab6aa80e6bc06.mp4"></video><br/> 2025-11-22T06:35:38Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqszmzz4f6lc8sct4ykgy0kj2a9d2mc83adj5n3wkvnthjg0ccz4fzszyzsssexdh6n7hj7rp9hyjx5sh6thhvufyuetc3mg2tzgfdcx8yjnx546w9q I got laid off from Schell. I&#39;m super burned out so I plan to just chill til like maybe January so I&#39;m not looking for immediate opportunities but if y&#39;all happen to see anything for a senior graphics engineer I wouldn&#39;t mind hearing about it 2025-11-03T21:48:03Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsgf00ylla5fx2lqefuj59qggwns0jf9l0k77jltupre3v0tf7cngczyzsssexdh6n7hj7rp9hyjx5sh6thhvufyuetc3mg2tzgfdcx8yjnx0ufxx0 it&#39;s really a genuine tragedy that spam calls have made phones nearly useless. i get so many spam calls i dont pick up for any number i don&#39;t have in my contacts and nobody else picks up for an unknown number either so we&#39;re all walking around with these fuckin phones that ring all the time yet we never answer 2025-10-22T18:40:59Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqstkw79xc5ktvycwd5puejw7rth9r6txnw79003dh3vgtyvedgxf9szyzsssexdh6n7hj7rp9hyjx5sh6thhvufyuetc3mg2tzgfdcx8yjnxnlhlpl In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsv3damjk263wpx0gdkupcl3sf64g3nacd43dcvc7clf8g7a5qjefqg80qxc'>nevent1q…0qxc</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>if i had a dime every time a reply guy claimed their reply to the effect of &#34;your joke&#39;s premise is flawed&#34; was actually itself a joke i would be rich enough to buy back twitter 2025-08-30T11:07:47Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsv3damjk263wpx0gdkupcl3sf64g3nacd43dcvc7clf8g7a5qjefqzyzsssexdh6n7hj7rp9hyjx5sh6thhvufyuetc3mg2tzgfdcx8yjnx50prrd In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqstqdw6ywdgcccytyxdwum8unqweyjkmkngue98d54js5ved64g9csqtw90n'>nevent1q…w90n</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>compare with this actually funny &#34;correction&#34;<br/> <img src="https://6-28.mastodon.xyz/media_attachments/files/115/117/354/470/321/553/original/f613d93cce1269bd.jpeg"> <br/> 2025-08-30T10:58:52Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqstqdw6ywdgcccytyxdwum8unqweyjkmkngue98d54js5ved64g9cszyzsssexdh6n7hj7rp9hyjx5sh6thhvufyuetc3mg2tzgfdcx8yjnx5gvqrs In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsvnnhl0n82ayqh87jwlvsggw2psx0lcf234k9k0p30hwd25ralntsy6zjun'>nevent1q…zjun</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>oh word?<br/> <img src="https://6-28.mastodon.xyz/media_attachments/files/115/117/330/180/816/433/original/401014499857fd9a.jpeg"> <br/> 2025-08-30T10:52:41Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsvnnhl0n82ayqh87jwlvsggw2psx0lcf234k9k0p30hwd25ralntszyzsssexdh6n7hj7rp9hyjx5sh6thhvufyuetc3mg2tzgfdcx8yjnxmn2l6q sex is definitely among the top ten most fun activities which do not require electricity 2025-08-30T10:40:44Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsfakswafs7tx6k7tpmg88udztxd7pkh4tnpeq5x3gd84lzc9y344czyzsssexdh6n7hj7rp9hyjx5sh6thhvufyuetc3mg2tzgfdcx8yjnxzt6fkz more fun in my kafkaesque nightmare life - I must renew my driver&#39;s license by september. they won&#39;t let me renew online because I renewed online last time. they won&#39;t let me make an appointment to renew in person because they want me to renew online. I found some sad DPS that will give me an in-person appointment -- at the beginning of October. I will not be able to get my meds while my license is expired. FUN 2025-08-20T07:41:16Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqs2nms2sudrnldm3dwpgy3n8j8cygt7uhdedgmk5e48hm8rzt5jamczyzsssexdh6n7hj7rp9hyjx5sh6thhvufyuetc3mg2tzgfdcx8yjnxus3wke In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsznf9rpr6l98mqa423n4a4mwxky4gm67frv8rfz8wu4482dfmfp7c3vqcw8'>nevent1q…qcw8</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>i should make it clear that while it is funny, it&#39;s not a bit for the thread, i really was literally saying just that irl 2025-07-24T00:03:00Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsznf9rpr6l98mqa423n4a4mwxky4gm67frv8rfz8wu4482dfmfp7czyzsssexdh6n7hj7rp9hyjx5sh6thhvufyuetc3mg2tzgfdcx8yjnxwyye30 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsyekhr862mgtzzfvtrprwcggptwfn0zxfpfq7j095uyuk083zwffcxetgkj'>nevent1q…tgkj</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>at one point in his yelling when i was mid &#34;get out of my house&#34; he was like &#34;yeah i fucking heard you, &#39;get out of your house&#39;.&#34;<br/>&#34;get out of my house&#34;<br/>&#34;Fuck that&#39;s so immature. i know you&#39;re better than this&#34;<br/>seeing his point i told him to get out of my house 2025-07-24T00:01:08Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsyekhr862mgtzzfvtrprwcggptwfn0zxfpfq7j095uyuk083zwffczyzsssexdh6n7hj7rp9hyjx5sh6thhvufyuetc3mg2tzgfdcx8yjnxadl94q In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsydslk9pq530e0uyxz66v5lau6atwtz33ugpnkv8fv4fm9q3znv3ghzvx2s'>nevent1q…vx2s</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>in hindsight his throwing such a fit about me mentioning i could have him arrested for trespassing was a critical juncture. he was telling me it was cruel to me to try to scare him with such threats and i was like get out of my house. he emphasized the brutality of the justice system and how I&#39;d never subject someone to that. i was like get out of my house. i think it dawned on him i really would do it. if he thought I would never actually call the cops, god knows what would have happened 2025-07-23T23:58:20Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsydslk9pq530e0uyxz66v5lau6atwtz33ugpnkv8fv4fm9q3znv3gzyzsssexdh6n7hj7rp9hyjx5sh6thhvufyuetc3mg2tzgfdcx8yjnxa9es3t In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsqhvfuqjartffx7uvnw9usz04z2sv6h9scthlg2lfgmks2kr2wp2qnlvkrv'>nevent1q…vkrv</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>if i actually believed he would commit violence i would have fucked off to a friend&#39;s place and called the cops but as it was i wanted to make sure he didn&#39;t damage my property. i gambled he wasn&#39;t bc for all his raging and weeping and seemingly crazy behavior it was so so obvious that he was entirely lucid and in control of himself, ergo he wasn&#39;t going do something that would actually get him in prison. key to this was i think he understood at that point i didn&#39;t give a shit if he was arrested 2025-07-23T23:44:05Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsqhvfuqjartffx7uvnw9usz04z2sv6h9scthlg2lfgmks2kr2wp2qzyzsssexdh6n7hj7rp9hyjx5sh6thhvufyuetc3mg2tzgfdcx8yjnx4p098x In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsfeeezq08zurpcp33u5ltyj3frtylkz2lk3s236a3sgk9mqkjxcyqvt8qh2'>nevent1q…8qh2</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>the last 24h he was there I was nervous because while I doubted he would get violent (he got incredibly upset when i mentioned i could call the cops and brought that up again and again as evidence of my cruelty so i don&#39;t think he wanted to tangle with law enforcement) u can never be too sure. i kept a crowbar near me. i didn&#39;t want to sleep til he was gone but i fell asleep in my office for 4 hrs. in one of the messages he sent me after he left he mentioned the hours in which i had slept. jfc 2025-07-23T23:35:38Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsfeeezq08zurpcp33u5ltyj3frtylkz2lk3s236a3sgk9mqkjxcyqzyzsssexdh6n7hj7rp9hyjx5sh6thhvufyuetc3mg2tzgfdcx8yjnxnux08l In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsrj4xje4ftwjn9ee86rljy8alelgrzutnnlj8na5gwsn8avxcrdms662w0a'>nevent1q…2w0a</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>certo un diavol del inferno qui lo ha fatto capitar 2025-07-23T13:08:07Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsrj4xje4ftwjn9ee86rljy8alelgrzutnnlj8na5gwsn8avxcrdmszyzsssexdh6n7hj7rp9hyjx5sh6thhvufyuetc3mg2tzgfdcx8yjnxwwx3gx In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsfg025zqxtt5z7v2pkxrk87p5csks8cer7wm2t2wdlahnss7fum6qelkmn9'>nevent1q…kmn9</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I was practicing this and then recorded this while he was staying in my home. i would close the door of my office while doing so, and when id come out, id find him in a chair pointed at the door (one that he put there not one that had been there before his stay) ok dude. <br/><br/>he was leik 3rd generation italian and claimed to know some italian but had no cognizance of the fact that he was the villain of the fucking opera<br/><br/><a href="https://youtu.be/NXQeo-D-W3c">https://youtu.be/NXQeo-D-W3c</a> 2025-07-23T13:05:11Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsfg025zqxtt5z7v2pkxrk87p5csks8cer7wm2t2wdlahnss7fum6qzyzsssexdh6n7hj7rp9hyjx5sh6thhvufyuetc3mg2tzgfdcx8yjnxe2qn5k In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsx3jadeguh7828qdsf4kyueqad3ju04vapmf7ugh2l29mj68lwnrs2u8dh0'>nevent1q…8dh0</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>since I never really had that much of an emotional attachment to the guy the experience wasn&#39;t traumatic just aggravating but I feel like I got a peek into a fucked up world that I otherwise wouldn&#39;t have seen because little weenies like this usually do not target hardass bitches like me (they target gentle people who they then accuse of being hardass bitches)<br/><br/>since my garage is organized now im actually objectively better off than before so i rate him as a 1/10 houseguest 2025-07-23T12:38:02Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsx3jadeguh7828qdsf4kyueqad3ju04vapmf7ugh2l29mj68lwnrszyzsssexdh6n7hj7rp9hyjx5sh6thhvufyuetc3mg2tzgfdcx8yjnxzdsnfu In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs9y5v6lzzs87geswxnwenvcfwgdnjtx9g2htealu03mdafzk9cf0g9xzut6'>nevent1q…zut6</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>when he arrived i told him u can eat any food here, pantry, fridge, whatever, except for one thing - i keep bread in the freezer and eat it when my stomach is upset. here where i tell this story my friends go &#34;NO THEN HE ATE THE BREAD?!&#34; calm down he never ate the bread. however i at one point worked into a conversation days later that i have no interest in relationships and he said &#34;oh so ur bread&#34; i was like eh? he said u told me thats the only thing i cant eat<br/><br/>...<br/><br/>ugh 2025-07-23T12:21:50Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqs9y5v6lzzs87geswxnwenvcfwgdnjtx9g2htealu03mdafzk9cf0gzyzsssexdh6n7hj7rp9hyjx5sh6thhvufyuetc3mg2tzgfdcx8yjnx5t7zup In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs06qtanuh74d5zhrnjcnq74mgqh8327mughx0nlvxuvafssaewvvqej8c53'>nevent1q…8c53</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>not long after that he gave me an elaborate apology. he had lied. he did in fact have to move my car in order to reposition some large objects (as i had logically deduced) and he was super self-flagellating and was like im so sorry when u asked i panicked, i have no excuse, i damaged ur trust in me, while im not entitled to ur forgiveness i hope one day to earn it, bla bla bla. i was like ya were cool dont worry about it. most curiously when he was raging later he extended no such grace to me 2025-07-23T12:13:18Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqs06qtanuh74d5zhrnjcnq74mgqh8327mughx0nlvxuvafssaewvvqzyzsssexdh6n7hj7rp9hyjx5sh6thhvufyuetc3mg2tzgfdcx8yjnx8nhnv4 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs89efhzdm5elf88p3rrd6wxdvnapwpm7mgl4tq7uete4dz9y8l7ygn9qtfj'>nevent1q…qtfj</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>there were so many little things he did that i noticed over that month that i was not entirely surprised at how things turned out. he organized my disaster of a garage in an attempt to earn his keep, a not unwelcome surprise. i was gonna drive us somewhere to grab dinner that night and i noticed the parking brake was disengaged (i always use it) and was casually &#34;o did u have to move my car?&#34; which would make sense given the garage reorg and he was like &#34;NO&#34; man u just made a normal thing weird 2025-07-23T12:03:35Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqs89efhzdm5elf88p3rrd6wxdvnapwpm7mgl4tq7uete4dz9y8l7ygzyzsssexdh6n7hj7rp9hyjx5sh6thhvufyuetc3mg2tzgfdcx8yjnxts56a2 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqszmhjt76x8j4nka563uyuhup3ehqws6vdayc77suc6hfx9563f53cczxg4y'>nevent1q…xg4y</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>not all men, but definitely this fucking guy 2025-07-23T11:45:14Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqszmhjt76x8j4nka563uyuhup3ehqws6vdayc77suc6hfx9563f53czyzsssexdh6n7hj7rp9hyjx5sh6thhvufyuetc3mg2tzgfdcx8yjnx7uryz7 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqszhgvt642g3zeeuh3sj400k0ytglfurlfrulgmadxh75zyxuuwuvghqyf0p'>nevent1q…yf0p</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>right before he left he was yelling at me while i was putting away groceries in the kitchen, he was upset because i was being so inflexible, he was incredulous, was i really unwilling even to negotiate??? and i was like get out of my house<br/><br/>thats bullshit! he said. that&#39;s a bullshit argument!<br/>i did have to admit get out of my house 2025-07-23T11:33:16Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqszhgvt642g3zeeuh3sj400k0ytglfurlfrulgmadxh75zyxuuwuvgzyzsssexdh6n7hj7rp9hyjx5sh6thhvufyuetc3mg2tzgfdcx8yjnx63f9fn In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsxwwp46j3puuayka2lgxmzpyqcehdal96f4mrcrg32f0x2slduwlgez9dn0'>nevent1q…9dn0</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>one of his messages was like i get it, i alone see the darkness within you, the darkness u fight, i alone understand its complexity, its beauty. no my guy im a simple woman of simple get out of my house 2025-07-23T10:36:09Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsxwwp46j3puuayka2lgxmzpyqcehdal96f4mrcrg32f0x2slduwlgzyzsssexdh6n7hj7rp9hyjx5sh6thhvufyuetc3mg2tzgfdcx8yjnxams4kz In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqspht293232enk2m6fth8rledcp55tzzct688cdl8zx85wg0v7205c82pm60'>nevent1q…pm60</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>the level of arrogant delusion needed to think i wouldn&#39;t tell his girlfriend, one of my best friends of the last ten years (and tbqh the favor to him was really an indirect favor to her, as I only ever hung out with him because of her) like if ur gonna misbehave like this at least do it with someone not otherwise connected to your social network. the real abuse was disrespecting me with this clown shoes coersion 2025-07-23T10:31:23Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqspht293232enk2m6fth8rledcp55tzzct688cdl8zx85wg0v7205czyzsssexdh6n7hj7rp9hyjx5sh6thhvufyuetc3mg2tzgfdcx8yjnxjgjfqe In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsf9trdzfteljp76k8f59z99kyeppxkjthhl2xd4tkp837em59hvpcued8zn'>nevent1q…d8zn</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>i realized he must have gotten used to using these tactics his whole life and was entirely unequipped to deal with a situation in which he had absolutely zero leverage whatsoever. Man i was so generous and that&#39;s what he gave me in return. Well I sent his girlfriend all the unhinged messages he sent me; I never heard back from her but he sent me one last angry message about how crazy i was to involve a third party in our conflict so i assume his girlfriend enjoyed the messages 2025-07-23T10:21:24Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsf9trdzfteljp76k8f59z99kyeppxkjthhl2xd4tkp837em59hvpczyzsssexdh6n7hj7rp9hyjx5sh6thhvufyuetc3mg2tzgfdcx8yjnxyfk2da In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsy57vc0khgq3zfe23ree0c6am4wtczgkv606rxqn6tg4veddh85ugwncyrg'>nevent1q…cyrg</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>he kept on trying to argue with my reasoning but i responded only with &#34;get out of my house&#34; he accused me of being a hysterical bitch and i was like get out of my house. he said i hurt him worse than anyone ever had before. i was like get out of my house. he said it was over between us. get out my house. he was so confused. he did pack his things and go but that wasn&#39;t the end of it because he started threatening to never come back unless i apologized and i was like get out of my house 2025-07-23T10:17:25Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsy57vc0khgq3zfe23ree0c6am4wtczgkv606rxqn6tg4veddh85ugzyzsssexdh6n7hj7rp9hyjx5sh6thhvufyuetc3mg2tzgfdcx8yjnx0wey2j last november i let a friend id known for 10 years stay in my spare bedroom for a month so he could look for an apartment, being very clear he got one month only. at the end of the month he said he refused to leave and cycled between yelling in my face, begging, crying, cold monotone, and everything in between. he had convinced himself that i was in love with him and tried to use our &#34;relationship&#34; as leverage. bizarre how as soon as he reclassified me as a partner the abuse came out 2025-07-23T10:15:19Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsry53ct6aq60w3yndwgqmsm2l785nnyl6etrrxtl2gknvv8cs7cpgzyzsssexdh6n7hj7rp9hyjx5sh6thhvufyuetc3mg2tzgfdcx8yjnx9mj94u In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsww33yc026vuewgdfqm5453dzljrlfmqfz6gl3n803adxtfuh5v6s4q0w8v'>nevent1q…0w8v</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>It&#39;s generally not a great idea to do stuff for a person with anxiety because then they&#39;re gonna worry if you&#39;ll be offended if they don&#39;t end up making use of whatever you did or if it means you think they can&#39;t handle life or if they&#39;ll be beholden to you. With depression not comorbid with anxiety they doooo noooot careee 2025-07-17T19:41:18Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsww33yc026vuewgdfqm5453dzljrlfmqfz6gl3n803adxtfuh5v6szyzsssexdh6n7hj7rp9hyjx5sh6thhvufyuetc3mg2tzgfdcx8yjnxxr63th In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs8qn6aups9v32qmd9xeeu7re9eltzn8rl5g5gw9ud9yq8xjd20ufsl6m4g0'>nevent1q…m4g0</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>additionally, speaking from my own experience with depression, in a depressive episode im much more likely to respond to friends asking if i want to do dinner if they say &#34;do you want to get dinner at [restaurant]?&#34; rather than &#34;do you want to grab dinner?&#34; because at that point no manner of cuisine seems appealing so just pick one for me i do not care 2025-07-17T19:25:27Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqs8qn6aups9v32qmd9xeeu7re9eltzn8rl5g5gw9ud9yq8xjd20ufszyzsssexdh6n7hj7rp9hyjx5sh6thhvufyuetc3mg2tzgfdcx8yjnx9qs2vx slight tangent from my ramblings in the other thread about depression and motivation to not let everything fall apart, you gotta feel it out on a case by case basis, but I&#39;ve found the best way to help a person with anxiety is to be socially present but not do stuff for them, while the best way to help someone with depression is to give them space but do as much of the work for them as you can - ie, don&#39;t just say &#34;your favorite band is in town&#34; link the site selling tickets in your DM 2025-07-17T19:18:35Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsy94yp0c5gcx5xr4l6uztk74g6gfnn9h0a24tpsjt9q6ayrqfmdlqzyzsssexdh6n7hj7rp9hyjx5sh6thhvufyuetc3mg2tzgfdcx8yjnxk5x0nw life hack: to increase the odds of a doctor not blowing you off or telling you it&#39;s all in your head or your non-weight-related problem will be fixed if you lose weight, the magic words are &#34;this is interfering with my ability to work&#34; good heavens! We must make a treatment plan right away, we can&#39;t have you going around being a less efficient cog in the machine! 2025-07-17T16:17:46Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqs2s6x6cggx68md8422xu7xv3mt7sf3l5hxphd0d6zff0jkkgadlaszyzsssexdh6n7hj7rp9hyjx5sh6thhvufyuetc3mg2tzgfdcx8yjnxjjzwep In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqszrl3f02h9chadvecqtqgy6enstcjjejzwdenmvpgza5y3t9n0r5cshuty6'>nevent1q…uty6</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>the difference is that while in the absence of capitalism, a business can still rip you off, in capitalism, a business MUST rip you off 2025-07-13T11:41:11Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqszrl3f02h9chadvecqtqgy6enstcjjejzwdenmvpgza5y3t9n0r5czyzsssexdh6n7hj7rp9hyjx5sh6thhvufyuetc3mg2tzgfdcx8yjnxayzyqg In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsy0x87ekqdm0zsn4s5wz9v95trm2m06pv9r6dmemlk7wlslvzhx0ga8x0c3'>nevent1q…x0c3</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Ea-nāṣir may treat you and your messenger with contempt but he&#39;s not going to write his business partner &#34;i sold nanni bags of rocks instead of copper we just made a fucking mint&#34; his business partner would be furiously stamping are you out of your goddamn mind so fast the clay tablet would fire itself 2025-07-13T11:26:23Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsy0x87ekqdm0zsn4s5wz9v95trm2m06pv9r6dmemlk7wlslvzhx0gzyzsssexdh6n7hj7rp9hyjx5sh6thhvufyuetc3mg2tzgfdcx8yjnxctm0p4 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs03g44zux59z9fm5zxz4px0r3r67hxplnnwq4emahmycckjszurygyp885c'>nevent1q…885c</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>In the case of Ea-nāṣir, while he&#39;s noted for his tendency to rip people off, archaeologists have found letters to him from his business partner telling him to take care not to piss off first time clients -- ie, he recognized the threat this was to keeping money coming in the long term. They were running a business in 1750BC, but their self-interest and the business&#39;s self interest were the same. contrast modern shareholders who don&#39;t care if the business exists next year if they get profit now 2025-07-13T11:02:17Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqs03g44zux59z9fm5zxz4px0r3r67hxplnnwq4emahmycckjszurygzyzsssexdh6n7hj7rp9hyjx5sh6thhvufyuetc3mg2tzgfdcx8yjnxutcv6x oh yeah side tangent to my recent rant about what capitalism is and is not, technically *corporations* are not a problem. there are business entities in Japan which have existed since 500AD. A corporation is just an organizational structure. where they become malignant is when obligation to quickly produce limitless profit for shareholders creates incentives for otherwise wildly irrational behavior (ie, compromising long term stability to achieve an arbitrary metric immediately) 2025-07-13T10:49:16Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsxtcct0mp3r7cf7ttqvhx0vj6d2df8lufskr9xa93umlk8r0lx5agzyzsssexdh6n7hj7rp9hyjx5sh6thhvufyuetc3mg2tzgfdcx8yjnxfmkjww In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsr8xpf6legdrejnhvqclu563dkfg2dhtyy67gsck3x08xwn4n8cec3523zn'>nevent1q…23zn</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Having to see a psychiatrist once a month to keep access to ADHD meds is so fucking fraught. Once my current psychiatrist asked if I noticed any loss of efficacy or greater difficulty focusing than usual (a regular question) I admitted to feeling burned out at work. There was a pause. I quickly added &#34;but it&#39;s not a big deal!&#34; and she said &#34;ok we&#39;ll see next month if you need a drug holiday&#34; and I was thinking fuck me she was this close to upending my ability to do any goddamn work at all 2025-07-12T20:41:43Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsr8xpf6legdrejnhvqclu563dkfg2dhtyy67gsck3x08xwn4n8ceczyzsssexdh6n7hj7rp9hyjx5sh6thhvufyuetc3mg2tzgfdcx8yjnx8vvplj I just remembered that I saw my psychiatrist the week I left my fiance (had to see her regularly to keep getting dexys for my ADHD u see) and I was like yeah I am kinda anxious right now but it&#39;s situational on account of my having broken my engagement and moved to a new apartment all at once and she was like, ok, well make sure you don&#39;t quit your job. people often do that in these situations. i was like well about that 2025-07-12T20:28:59Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsvxe5h4mh0p2j94ataazvydzty2k65c9sp258uxy4asen27jg7lwszyzsssexdh6n7hj7rp9hyjx5sh6thhvufyuetc3mg2tzgfdcx8yjnxv8zdge I was watching some footage from over 50 years ago (1970) and the people were speaking what I would consider normal English, like, out of context I wouldn&#39;t immediately think &#34;oh these are people from the distant past&#34; (and unlike in movies they weren&#39;t incessantly dropping slang that would immediately identify the era) it seems that somewhere between 1950 and 1970 people started speaking the English we speak today. Post war + tv? im sure someone&#39;s studied it 2025-05-17T04:25:36Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsztcpcl3fqf6ke7hy6whspzsu7q4m6rqpldt3nxae5ezp9k6vt4sqzyzsssexdh6n7hj7rp9hyjx5sh6thhvufyuetc3mg2tzgfdcx8yjnxqn6exk Two years ago I made a bunch of fan animations for Rings of Power which largely went unnoticed so I stopped bothering after making like eight. I found out recently that they were discovered and became very popular among fans of the show this past summer but it went entirely without my notice because it was from reposts totally disconnected from my own accounts. and the fandom is sad that &#34;the creator&#34; never made more of them. [stares at camera] 2025-05-03T13:00:08Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsf9r0gnxfq5953ya8vkq8p49q4pmvqdcfdmwzlqv53ajp9640zhfgzyzsssexdh6n7hj7rp9hyjx5sh6thhvufyuetc3mg2tzgfdcx8yjnxcheay5 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs9hml4ee67mtu7curysu5epqpm5np89wag0wzffhqqgved5v5eykqjlsn7a'>nevent1q…sn7a</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>expanded on the idea by singing the same song transposed down 4 semitones, then 8 <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oz1Cp5xqffo">https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oz1Cp5xqffo</a> 2025-04-28T00:16:19Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqs9hml4ee67mtu7curysu5epqpm5np89wag0wzffhqqgved5v5eykqzyzsssexdh6n7hj7rp9hyjx5sh6thhvufyuetc3mg2tzgfdcx8yjnxg3lt8k getting to the bottom of this. and by bottom of this i mean B5<br/><video controls width="100%" class="max-h-[90vh] bg-neutral-300 dark:bg-zinc-700"><source src="https://6-28.mastodon.xyz/media_attachments/files/114/411/588/078/958/650/original/a5d4c240c477b7c1.mp4"></video><br/> 2025-04-27T19:32:03Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqs9chu3srujm2p4xyz2tz6hxs5eg9rfh3mggc5dwplrtav0066mv6czyzsssexdh6n7hj7rp9hyjx5sh6thhvufyuetc3mg2tzgfdcx8yjnxkz7a2a In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsxkg5s7x5m7vepta4ae2pr6flx40m6z62zd5yy28shhztyzzvt5cqtueqmc'>nevent1q…eqmc</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>never thought id make a marriage of figaro video that would involve the count pistol whipping susanna but all my creative projects eventually devolve into this sort of stupidity<br/><video controls width="100%" class="max-h-[90vh] bg-neutral-300 dark:bg-zinc-700"><source src="https://6-28.mastodon.xyz/media_attachments/files/114/194/844/166/100/281/original/5e67135a74b6a4c2.mp4"></video><br/> 2025-03-20T12:54:31Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsxkg5s7x5m7vepta4ae2pr6flx40m6z62zd5yy28shhztyzzvt5cqzyzsssexdh6n7hj7rp9hyjx5sh6thhvufyuetc3mg2tzgfdcx8yjnx73k7f9 just a guy in his witch hat and cat eye glasses, doing guy things<br/> <img src="https://6-28.mastodon.xyz/media_attachments/files/114/191/965/995/657/811/original/0c95d35a484d3fd7.jpeg"> <br/> 2025-03-20T00:41:22Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsw4rn6mfwkz6t7y8eh4luv3amhj9hwvdfhvwkr5fkrxzqqdzda02szyzsssexdh6n7hj7rp9hyjx5sh6thhvufyuetc3mg2tzgfdcx8yjnxpsmfmz during my career as a graphics programmer ive been invited to speak on a few panels and every time its a huge honor, and i feel petty and ungrateful to complain about it, but every single one of those panels was a &#34;woman&#34; panel. women in STEM one, women in gamedev one, women in mixed reality, and so on. its like convention organizers are saying &#34;you&#39;re very eminent in your field. i mean, like, for a girl&#34; 2025-03-14T19:08:34Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsy2hqxq73r7yelmzl7uhsetku3g2dy9tnt98yq87qecnucf6hw6rszyzsssexdh6n7hj7rp9hyjx5sh6thhvufyuetc3mg2tzgfdcx8yjnx0l5pll currently working on an English language version of Riconosci in questo amplesso, my Italian version of which features me hitting F5 with my actual voice and F0 with subharmonics within a minute of each other, a feat that didn&#39;t seem to impress a lot of people but fuck it, i impressed myself <a href="https://youtu.be/iUQZ8TvNlOM">https://youtu.be/iUQZ8TvNlOM</a><br/><br/>(to be fair subharmonics shouldn&#39;t be used for opera-style singing because they are not loud enough to be heard unamplified in a live performance, but details, details...)<br/><video controls width="100%" class="max-h-[90vh] bg-neutral-300 dark:bg-zinc-700"><source src="https://6-28.mastodon.xyz/media_attachments/files/114/000/564/655/302/764/original/768c0152e02973c3.mp4"></video><br/> 2025-02-14T05:25:05Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqs24am7edu44nnv4up6cgk5tfdt6rcsvdrz82at66t6rf9v5v3nc0szyzsssexdh6n7hj7rp9hyjx5sh6thhvufyuetc3mg2tzgfdcx8yjnxnyfkgt some kid in their early 20s left a comment on the version of this video I put on Rednote that she can&#39;t sing along to most female pop stars and was down on herself, but seeing me start a song that&#39;s too high for me, stop and say &#34;this song isn&#39;t for my voice&#34; instead of &#34;my voice is bad&#34; made her realize she has a deeper voice than most female pop stars and that her voice isn&#39;t ugly, those pop songs just aren&#39;t suited to it. see this, this is why we shitpost. that and the lols<br/><video controls width="100%" class="max-h-[90vh] bg-neutral-300 dark:bg-zinc-700"><source src="https://6-28.mastodon.xyz/media_attachments/files/113/876/629/582/938/319/original/f00a81be31554da5.mp4"></video><br/> 2025-01-23T08:09:28Z