2023-11-24T19:45:20Z https://nostr.now alanajoy https://nostr.now/npub14xu4ykvj5jr2594nc8fln5mqf09q3u7ptdcj6ur3rwdwekxrm3zq86428l https://image.nostr.build/337040f8fbf5ba2feba36d57969513f249e61d4029849accce966871b87be843.jpg https://image.nostr.build/337040f8fbf5ba2feba36d57969513f249e61d4029849accce966871b87be843.jpg https://nostr.now/nevent1qqstazk82xtjfd8m455e20fhdvspkyx773yy2lcs0pv0pnz95he4vsgzyz5mj5jej2jgd2skk0qa87wnvp9u5z8nc9dhzttswyde4mxcc0wyg9agtzn In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsqrkcydvmnncelvsgpzt349z8n3khcejpg3w24l7zwfcfplvrqpgc0ccrrx'>nevent1q…crrx</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I think you can too!! 🫶 2023-11-23T04:11:39Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqs2ule9uzjkgsgj8d4l5kgeupahzzxgreqw48n556k0jmm9hy49klczyz5mj5jej2jgd2skk0qa87wnvp9u5z8nc9dhzttswyde4mxcc0wyg7p9yqn In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsrqc8pyt609hs4wsdeh8rgz8mtcee5zqpx2umctletpq52tjn35lsf3dq5z'>nevent1q…dq5z</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Thank you! 2023-11-23T03:51:50Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsq9f6vkdz4mj8ptpfdkzhgfn38ewdy9xplkjx2w2a83gxzk39eksgzyz5mj5jej2jgd2skk0qa87wnvp9u5z8nc9dhzttswyde4mxcc0wygpeh38c In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsxpzn7cj7kdtl7qg4lnd9h0xuvrsy8jkh3947mr2hetavq6altq6c9tjlnu'>nevent1q…jlnu</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Grade A amber lol 2023-11-23T00:42:22Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsxpzn7cj7kdtl7qg4lnd9h0xuvrsy8jkh3947mr2hetavq6altq6czyz5mj5jej2jgd2skk0qa87wnvp9u5z8nc9dhzttswyde4mxcc0wygkqc0ww In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsdsxk9yj34aeqdka6ekwtu4kz3acjj7s5kveq44vahxv62xtzngzs6jkd7g'>nevent1q…kd7g</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>100% pure grade Amber 🫡 2023-11-23T00:42:12Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsz0q37sduj73rcfstngxss8yr4yqmdyr4p9aalfmyd6h89kwxy9lszyz5mj5jej2jgd2skk0qa87wnvp9u5z8nc9dhzttswyde4mxcc0wygdz2tn7 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsvl37fwj3cndeaf0flz2ddl3qtwssyj64s3cylq7m9a790zrsf53g38hu9h'>nevent1q…hu9h</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>You’re the third person who’s said this 2023-11-22T23:39:31Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqstx9yghv9fl5s6squvw7mr82lhcs4mt4y22lrkvrsr65pcjkeevpczyz5mj5jej2jgd2skk0qa87wnvp9u5z8nc9dhzttswyde4mxcc0wygm2cl9r In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsq8nf8p0xms544twlycywsctgxrzsupwdpgdmvj50sq4nv6fp6dwcyvxxh7'>nevent1q…xxh7</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>My plan is to taper down until 12/1 and then it’s cold turkey from there 🙏 2023-11-22T02:35:00Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqs87f7funqmaa9mlmn6u9l5gmv05zgescp8alfnwa4y48zu328e42szyz5mj5jej2jgd2skk0qa87wnvp9u5z8nc9dhzttswyde4mxcc0wyg4ktcmj In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsx3u8w78r3aylsqflywu6cj8ctn4u7vx00y5vwjskcg9hlvujtmzgnsl3qf'>nevent1q…l3qf</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Congratulations, that’s huge 2023-11-22T01:22:07Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqs8c87yjntwwn9u92ke2gh5kngu8s27xgn46mhqealrks4xd7dcstqzyz5mj5jej2jgd2skk0qa87wnvp9u5z8nc9dhzttswyde4mxcc0wyg0pq0sh If your turkey is &gt; 10 pounds, you probably wanna go move it from the freezer to the fridge right about now. <img src="https://media0.giphy.com/media/xT5LMx5PPk9r7BTPC8/giphy.gif?cid=2154d3d7ufofmniaaay0kpebof4c1aqosgdfu884cb0y02xu&amp;ep=v1_gifs_search&amp;rid=giphy.gif&amp;ct=g"> 2023-11-20T23:12:11Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqswwel9nfxfgse8ep0qwglfl2phjwzd58sghgz2nvdht8syz7ln6pgzyz5mj5jej2jgd2skk0qa87wnvp9u5z8nc9dhzttswyde4mxcc0wyg5vsyzf In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs27x2xeuxk9qkp2uqru47q77kfje5d8g008d7usdd03pgdjz86vds3j834e'>nevent1q…834e</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>😂😂😂 real 2023-11-20T22:25:10Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsygz9c2tn925zj85vgmy2xfs56q0yzrx8znunuz0la5amj2tc8flczyz5mj5jej2jgd2skk0qa87wnvp9u5z8nc9dhzttswyde4mxcc0wygjxdta6 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqstv02k2v2t30n3nskzw0dctgmxgls0rasxay2xt0356zneweqslxc0fdwkn'>nevent1q…dwkn</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Kids will always get you on a technicality lol 2023-11-20T21:33:44Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqs2pft3caren59srvlax6r6rzwcplttwmy9pqyzqyvpj2qelxzza9gzyz5mj5jej2jgd2skk0qa87wnvp9u5z8nc9dhzttswyde4mxcc0wygk7m9ks In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsgu7apd2npdyec5auqqx0avdxyhl98j7qdy5fs0lpmkgd4v58kgwqjaqp53'>nevent1q…qp53</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>🙏 <br/><br/>FEAR: false evidence appearing real<br/>FEAR: face everything and rise<br/><br/>I meet few people with similar stories, thank you for relating. 2023-11-19T23:28:38Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsq8pse4csy2l2q9evtje6yltkv9ql3x9z0l9agyv3unhcprpkrjzgzyz5mj5jej2jgd2skk0qa87wnvp9u5z8nc9dhzttswyde4mxcc0wyggu7zc6 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsr748c6u89zcxqy8w60yqnl5mm3vkvqvkuddndaj7k4et64e6vtuc8xlyqe'>nevent1q…lyqe</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>We’re being judged anyway… Just judge me for the truth at least 🫶 2023-11-19T22:32:20Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqs94ww0s0vtqjengc0akmh89wmrpm03trlzccma5p72l6pleckf6agzyz5mj5jej2jgd2skk0qa87wnvp9u5z8nc9dhzttswyde4mxcc0wygjv5j9t I grew up in an abusive home, causing me to be placed in foster care and group homes at various points of my childhood. From the earliest years I learned that I could not count on my mother, the system, or anyone else to save me.<br/><br/>I refused to stay in either environment until turning 18. I got legally emancipated as a teenager, which is not exactly easy or common. Looking back, I still have no idea where I got the strength to do this. I had zero self esteem and despite how smart I might have been I was still just a child. I just knew that I’d be destroyed if I didn’t seize control over my life. So I did. <br/><br/>I saved myself.<br/><br/>I never had the luxury as a girl to consider whether I wanted to be a traditional woman or a working woman. I’m truly not sure what path I’d have chosen for myself if not for my circumstances. I just did what I somehow instinctively knew I had to to survive.<br/><br/>Nothing has been handed to me, ever. I started off with so many disadvantages, yet never have I ever let them define me or limit my potential. There are so many things I experienced and saw that shaped me, some even misshaped me. At the same time this gave me a heightened awareness of certain truths that some people never awaken to. <br/><br/>I chose to be responsible for myself when I had no idea what that would even really mean. I worked harder for every step, weighted down by the burden of my situation. Over years, decades of time… I have worked to try to identify red flags in myself and others, because when you grow up surrounded by red flags as an adult they just look like… flags.<br/><br/>There are survival mechanisms I created to protect myself and get through what I endured that I’ve seen no longer serve me well as an adult. I really do my best to resolve those things, and I have truly seen myself grow profoundly over time. There are things I will always have to work on consciously too. Healing work can never undo trauma, but it can give you awareness and skills to overcome the symptoms of trauma. I still struggle with cptsd, mainly when in circumstances that parallel the abuse I experienced. <br/><br/>My circumstances also instilled in me inherent feelings of not being good enough, deserving, lovable. They’ve left me with a constant mellow sense of shame around things that were not even at all my fault. These insecurities cause me to show up as a naive people pleaser in situations where I&#39;m emotionally vulnerable. It&#39;s an unfortunate truth that this desperation for being truly loved and accepted makes me an ideal target for exploitative people.<br/><br/>As an adult, there are so many ways my beginnings have made me a strong, direct, brassy person. There is also a very weak, vulnerable, pathetic side of me that is dumb as fuck about certain things.<br/><br/>All this said, it was my proven resilience that gave me the strength to be a mother on my own. I knew I would do anything and everything it took to raise her with all the love, protection, and validation I never had. From the day I found out I was pregnant there was never a question as to whether or not I would keep her or could do it on my own. I always knew I wanted to be a mother, and when I look at this incredible, whip smart and witty, friendly and curious, kind and loving child I know that for all my flaws and hangups… I&#39;m doing an amazing job.<br/><br/>You never know someone&#39;s story until you really know them. I&#39;ve taken things that break people, statistically, and turned them (mostly), into gifts. None of us are infallible, but I am proud of who I am. <br/><br/>Be careful how you judge people you don’t really know. 2023-11-19T22:19:37Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsttkh52f6rr0mf3rpzrd8eu97yfr8yrf69zn9xuwwfgjn8nttz0zczyz5mj5jej2jgd2skk0qa87wnvp9u5z8nc9dhzttswyde4mxcc0wygpqwx0a In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsdg9a0jgz98h77n9ypu8j967n275vputjjquc8e733kql6hkaf6tqkglgwd'>nevent1q…lgwd</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Idiocracy 🙃<br/><br/>Painkiller isn’t a documentary but it’s based on the true story of how the opioid crisis started 2023-11-19T21:21:06Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsxp4q7mnecpud6hyh3hrlz4tn4crh3dyet7gk6f37p4ahy9vvjqhszyz5mj5jej2jgd2skk0qa87wnvp9u5z8nc9dhzttswyde4mxcc0wygflascm In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqspz3mky3ga9uwzqu2dam77xm0qzrgr03jfnzvfsrampkfeu6jn2lcltc0xl'>nevent1q…c0xl</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>PS If you’ve seen the movie you understand that this scene is about the way a father handled what the Don was trying to do. He knew he was going to die anyway, but he did so on his terms in a way that protected his son as his last living act <br/><br/>Impeccably performed by both actors 2023-11-19T21:15:09Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqspz3mky3ga9uwzqu2dam77xm0qzrgr03jfnzvfsrampkfeu6jn2lczyz5mj5jej2jgd2skk0qa87wnvp9u5z8nc9dhzttswyde4mxcc0wyguase8f One of the best monologues from one of the best movies. Period.<br/><br/>“Tell me… am I lying?” <br/><a href="https://youtu.be/Jsh4SvPdfl8?si=pKuIHpzUtFRiaQ95">https://youtu.be/Jsh4SvPdfl8?si=pKuIHpzUtFRiaQ95</a> 2023-11-19T20:07:41Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsw2rmllw7x0wlqa55sgcypr8edvn3fnnv0tg9sdhwnw76v7x9hwagzyz5mj5jej2jgd2skk0qa87wnvp9u5z8nc9dhzttswyde4mxcc0wygy4ehn2 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs0lqm7mkuk5u6ksn3nga5w6zsd787ccxnkvdppgphnnu2n8v05qrqhx3s9l'>nevent1q…3s9l</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>🙏 2023-11-19T08:52:53Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsyx7h04376pya9x6hp7rp9haw2ekkwggchy2pa9tepepd6thvwvuqzyz5mj5jej2jgd2skk0qa87wnvp9u5z8nc9dhzttswyde4mxcc0wyg828xmj Stuffed cabbage tonight 🥬 <br/><br/>This isn’t the most visually appealing when served but… trust me, it’s phenomenal.<br/><br/>✨👌<br/><br/>#foodstr <img src="https://image.nostr.build/fec77594e21ee42467836b7c654a34015b5172efb8b6f8f104bff958aa54cf68.jpg"> <img src="https://image.nostr.build/6bdbc200479ed0e32bd5a777f7fe1f47998323e1c32548bf2411a6ae4781e692.jpg"> 2023-11-19T05:23:50Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsrh8fx0pjwakg64d7up3tura9y3pym50arl7rv549pntzphfwfqhqzyz5mj5jej2jgd2skk0qa87wnvp9u5z8nc9dhzttswyde4mxcc0wyg24r6wy Bless those with the jump to recipe button <img src="https://image.nostr.build/0739f2371c5ace4186103805e8509e050d82ac9587b113c56e74407bb641e4a1.jpg"> 2023-11-19T01:09:40Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsxrfq7mtw2nek04rh0j0qqmvwa8h43r4ef4un4ncdpqcuugjq3ylszyz5mj5jej2jgd2skk0qa87wnvp9u5z8nc9dhzttswyde4mxcc0wyghwkx5c In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs26ev9mxfjvca37jl837fnuqa29cvy5d8s3qtle8tunwh5p62t6rgc4ts7n'>nevent1q…ts7n</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/> <img src="https://media1.giphy.com/media/RWfOfLDSDfVaU/giphy.gif?cid=2154d3d7x55i3seqzog85zsd3lqmv7j3er3sg20p3q43o2xf&amp;ep=v1_gifs_search&amp;rid=giphy.gif&amp;ct=g"> 2023-11-19T00:22:53Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqs8k4vtsx6x59qsd39u2ss0e02tgwkrpkcmjsd5mmu5akngrshp0yqzyz5mj5jej2jgd2skk0qa87wnvp9u5z8nc9dhzttswyde4mxcc0wyg59ee6r DYOR bitcoiners: Dudes in the group chat so it must be true 😂 <img src="https://image.nostr.build/d75aaf9161e1fbb3084d762f2ee8cd942bd131ac9b9674419a959b045352b8a4.jpg"> 2023-11-18T23:51:43Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsder7ypw3uwhtapd37r6p9tumtpq5aqzu8vfh6wqx3pnktj5g6h3qzyz5mj5jej2jgd2skk0qa87wnvp9u5z8nc9dhzttswyde4mxcc0wyg8xc9kw In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs8jjtkzglqxlzzal4k6snq6akwme6app6g7d0nr3f3zfreq9eq8jgh4smys'>nevent1q…smys</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Oh shit, same. Luckily I did already get a turkey but… 🙃 2023-11-17T01:25:03Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqs09t0hn8f53a83t0mv44kxmaa7nxpxhp7a49xdd9ff8mhr07zvsnqzyz5mj5jej2jgd2skk0qa87wnvp9u5z8nc9dhzttswyde4mxcc0wygvtwskf She’s so cool tbh 😎😍 <video controls width="100%" class="max-h-[90vh] bg-neutral-300 dark:bg-zinc-700"><source src="https://video.nostr.build/233fd31bf2ec65313bd74e8dc3dbb6d564387704fea59a41b929240b6c130878.mp4"></video> <blockquote class="border-l-05rem border-l-strongpink border-solid"><div class="-ml-4 bg-gradient-to-r from-gray-100 dark:from-zinc-800 to-transparent mr-0 mt-0 mb-4 pl-4 pr-2 py-2">quoting <span itemprop="mentions" itemscope itemtype="https://schema.org/Article"><a itemprop="url" href="/note1a8nmmfdjm6j8g5tm27z4uql6wu8yl0lkrrsjpljucj4vkky3ht5snx22jt" class="bg-lavender dark:prose:text-neutral-50 dark:text-neutral-50 dark:bg-garnet px-1">note1a8n…22jt</a></span> </div> We’re two weeks into the teacher strike, so I finally caved and got her a skateboard. <img src="https://image.nostr.build/f54e6ffe69e4ae16283cee118fcc6e7fa4edb8db12dd7bb45d795191f14af303.jpg"> </blockquote> 2023-11-17T00:38:17Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqswneaa5kedafr529a40p27q0a8wrj0hlmp3cfqlewvf2kttzgm46gzyz5mj5jej2jgd2skk0qa87wnvp9u5z8nc9dhzttswyde4mxcc0wyghep67z We’re two weeks into the teacher strike, so I finally caved and got her a skateboard. <img src="https://image.nostr.build/f54e6ffe69e4ae16283cee118fcc6e7fa4edb8db12dd7bb45d795191f14af303.jpg"> 2023-11-16T23:35:54Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqs8ydnvwa3xv3n9r48uu0tjga765su0rpj36l79n3lknqkx39vuruczyz5mj5jej2jgd2skk0qa87wnvp9u5z8nc9dhzttswyde4mxcc0wygru0yzg In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsw8kcyx7rn25sx3pkugaple7dvhhe8u870gs92qtcldhcxezplx6gvv2nul'>nevent1q…2nul</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>😂 I don’t know either, tbh… 2023-11-16T23:13:15Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsgxujq9ygkqrp2z838sqaur4p892sljur9evhy5p5aufg3s0mc47szyz5mj5jej2jgd2skk0qa87wnvp9u5z8nc9dhzttswyde4mxcc0wyg2809e7 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsda3q33eezycnr6hywwxwg2u48qqmd9qfft0yqq0e0l050jqwhc3gjyllvr'>nevent1q…llvr</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>corn star 🥲 2023-11-16T22:49:59Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsdfqyqqc9mxk0alrqugttd8v4074pfknxwrrphz4y2d9cv5ecspkszyz5mj5jej2jgd2skk0qa87wnvp9u5z8nc9dhzttswyde4mxcc0wyg3ydyet hbd 🥳 <img src="https://image.nostr.build/49072526c513f549f41458c8596259f1d0b9c0788149751210a727699c383a99.jpg"> <img src="https://image.nostr.build/55233c77b5a04ed2ad0b4e8c63674daafba3e897ad27250c190dfb80006183df.jpg"> 2023-11-16T22:47:43Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsdclgj5zj0a5prpxges92sdpj5gt4ndt5ntaev0xhkqsyda74l8eqzyz5mj5jej2jgd2skk0qa87wnvp9u5z8nc9dhzttswyde4mxcc0wygvjc30u 🌽 <img src="https://image.nostr.build/519e20e3b2853f332a9ee7190c1f70d1815e12bba7848ff96cb77014e3f23c2d.jpg"> 2023-11-16T22:40:39Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsp6lfh8tw6azedjy92wlaj2k8xfna2pfjsvtr9lkurvg3a98w67fszyz5mj5jej2jgd2skk0qa87wnvp9u5z8nc9dhzttswyde4mxcc0wygu29t06 IDK who needs to hear this but single people over 40, especially those with children, are not and should not be playing by the same dating rules as those looking to start a family.<br/><br/>My biological clock isn’t ticking. I’m not counting on a partnership to provide me a nice life. I’m looking for a partner, not to adopt another dependent.<br/><br/>At this point, you need to be adding more than you’re taking or what you’re taking from is my child, whether that be energy, money, emotional capacity…<br/><br/>Don’t feel bad about yourself for not having the same playbook as someone else. In fact, feel good about it. There’s no one size fits all path to happiness or success. <br/><br/>If you’re going to take relationship advice from anyone, take it from someone who’s been in a successful marriage for 10 to 20 years. Don’t take parenting advice from someone who has no kids, etc.<br/><br/>There are certainly things to learn from these people, but when you are in a different era of life you’re playing a very different game. <br/><br/>It’s not a feminist take to want *at least* an equal at this point. It’s an ROI calculation as head of household and the person truly responsible for another life.<br/><br/>You know best what is good enough for you and yours. 2023-11-16T21:42:07Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsxtk8qxmwxjrnvk9n3engrs2vpr9y6y3aesf2f4fcsnnwqrmv0h2qzyz5mj5jej2jgd2skk0qa87wnvp9u5z8nc9dhzttswyde4mxcc0wygmlg297 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsrujg9kqw0eavf7ayhgksdsfgt7yd5hvv05mrqgxmsad2z4v28tsgyz59m5'>nevent1q…59m5</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Ha! 2023-11-14T21:13:20Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqst52kpn8td7knrme644l7vy3v8qv6hztkkrl3zmnc6tluhp02unwgzyz5mj5jej2jgd2skk0qa87wnvp9u5z8nc9dhzttswyde4mxcc0wyga30tvk In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs8nrej6qmhl6n00tewhymgdwn2sdy5amqcew6yfcgp4fftwcgyrpsyv2064'>nevent1q…2064</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>It’s hit or miss at Trader Joe’s. I like trying their seasonal stuff though. 2023-11-14T03:33:16Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqs8v3v7c0zyc84hjvcep3zrfnxcn8yt8cgs6suw3jkyafza59wymlqzyz5mj5jej2jgd2skk0qa87wnvp9u5z8nc9dhzttswyde4mxcc0wyg5t62th In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsghmkkfalfw2mfsc39pkg4fc9g8rvkmqa5jcfhlk724jdng89ypnqku6pj3'>nevent1q…6pj3</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>🫡 2023-11-14T03:15:54Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqstl5h4lsh3hmcmzq8ye90434kdl6xqjkvx2pwxw2538cqj63hh7jgzyz5mj5jej2jgd2skk0qa87wnvp9u5z8nc9dhzttswyde4mxcc0wygv22ard In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsf3le3ujjajv4cd2qlc3hpg3xpc0mkwzje9yc0k5r92c78a6w53ls9xdfjk'>nevent1q…dfjk</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Thank you! 🙏 2023-11-14T03:08:41Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqs2h2kr8n2l7n9mv5gect2fvxthtj2ud95rmyn32rzrm5dzg6k5agszyz5mj5jej2jgd2skk0qa87wnvp9u5z8nc9dhzttswyde4mxcc0wygg99sh7 creamy tuscan garlic chicken over spaghetti 🍝 #foodstr <video controls width="100%" class="max-h-[90vh] bg-neutral-300 dark:bg-zinc-700"><source src="https://video.nostr.build/c4689454074659cc8b50c902fb46ba0e38eda4785c4fff1a2c3e2690b52f3c20.mp4"></video> <img src="https://image.nostr.build/387442107bcf262908da6d6ae237e7ced0a0321f930fc931bb88ad06c8561c97.jpg"> 2023-11-14T02:59:45Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsp0jcp5y842mzkudlcxaen4rlqzd3294eeyzjlcq3v7r0acspxd8czyz5mj5jej2jgd2skk0qa87wnvp9u5z8nc9dhzttswyde4mxcc0wygm6x9sx fuckery is isomorphic with the complex field <img src="https://image.nostr.build/8e91ea0edb8b72cc6cd4aeedda65ebab1d4e18f0669f02cb3f02ecbbda91a87b.jpg"> 2023-11-13T07:17:26Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqswzl2ajpf0x9an9q2x2q80ae6as4367lyrc6nd2fxjgj3ncu97r0czyz5mj5jej2jgd2skk0qa87wnvp9u5z8nc9dhzttswyde4mxcc0wygypxc2c In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsvwnps5r7cc65ulkd98svy33gmftg0qg8262zkrzed9hdyapsxf6cukp5j4'>nevent1q…p5j4</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>What are you basing this on? Me saying that what I got from his post is that foss = freedom = a life raft?<br/><br/>Do you think bitcoin will be fixing all the things this year? Next? 2023-11-13T02:16:23Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqspsp464je9kf8y84wmqtwuv6vdp5cmvx6m3wn67zuphsyv0m9d86czyz5mj5jej2jgd2skk0qa87wnvp9u5z8nc9dhzttswyde4mxcc0wygf09979 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs0dkue4x5mzgxnytj2jyhra73mtvj5xz5jzw9a4tzst47rg7x0ryq7m0yaz'>nevent1q…0yaz</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I have 0 faith in this system improving, however as it self-destructs we still have to live within the frameworks of its failures. <br/><br/>It’s about building your own life raft. 2023-11-13T02:09:14Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqst3x7qhp9lfl8fpr9zerjy3rul059xznugjsqulj8r7fnxrg23z7szyz5mj5jej2jgd2skk0qa87wnvp9u5z8nc9dhzttswyde4mxcc0wyg7apj8e 🐸 mood <img src="https://image.nostr.build/2eb2202990dbf52667d3dc6ae82940d5288df554697ec112095696daab586def.jpg"> 2023-11-13T01:54:05Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsrm0akkwpf2nlngxj9s97yww36g9y0evc8mgk75d58srv395v39pqzyz5mj5jej2jgd2skk0qa87wnvp9u5z8nc9dhzttswyde4mxcc0wygr0shut Someone thinking highly of themselves doesn’t mean they think they are better than anyone else. <br/><br/>That’s not a comparison against anyone but the past versions of themselves. 2023-11-11T01:36:02Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqs97mj5tr624ysvu7ln3hqaq8rltj53slen0kvegtlvws2u8kyx2gszyz5mj5jej2jgd2skk0qa87wnvp9u5z8nc9dhzttswyde4mxcc0wygnzmt5h In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqswx9gswwe0pyse4088v69fzqyark79r5x095phwjtfles939gx8kc5klk00'>nevent1q…lk00</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Yes I’m really a 300 pound 19 year old dude writing to you from the free Wi-Fi at the homeless shelter 2023-11-11T00:53:12Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsxlmjdgacuugzkjrmja0ratlyz3wcpy8kr7vh220zvvqv2s3tyrvczyz5mj5jej2jgd2skk0qa87wnvp9u5z8nc9dhzttswyde4mxcc0wygjc6rrj If you think you’re in on the psyop you probably got played too. No one ever thinks they are the mark. That’s the whole point of a psyop. Like a pyramid scheme, you can never be sure how close to the top you are. In this essay I will… 2023-11-11T00:44:46Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqs88y3q80cda9ew32m9z8vlvzzngvmxqnsw9fmlh4zjussean5q2mszyz5mj5jej2jgd2skk0qa87wnvp9u5z8nc9dhzttswyde4mxcc0wyg7wr5zd In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsykmgv8apkvl6ypyvjh2dt7ck95j3cc4r58ljxcpjuh707wxp7z4qnv8y0z'>nevent1q…8y0z</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>🫡 exactly 2023-11-10T20:10:53Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsyz3k7dk4t2smplvrxw8hslqcaw9ukvmp5fkfz0j0w82724punczqzyz5mj5jej2jgd2skk0qa87wnvp9u5z8nc9dhzttswyde4mxcc0wyg7u27qp In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqszqs9kykrgas22k253zpmxr4jqk3ugqpy6696flrxnl89ee79nfdcg8lt7f'>nevent1q…lt7f</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>I think the more aware we are of how we’re prone to bias the better we’re able to think a little more objectively in real time. You’re not broken, you’re awake 2023-11-10T05:17:22Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqs2lqvpgacq3jcf6wk4p7xnnyfsqzshahqzs5g2st3v244xvmsjeqszyz5mj5jej2jgd2skk0qa87wnvp9u5z8nc9dhzttswyde4mxcc0wyg9nraw5 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqstcdpg8ugny6wccnnvcjtgtaff2kcgmuxnh5mxeg9lly9ndak70dczt9yek'>nevent1q…9yek</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>If someone bought land adjacent from mine and didn’t have road access, I’d be completely within my rights to treat their use of an area of my land to leave theirs as trespassing. But if they have to choose between starving because they’re trapped without resources and the freedom to live or facing those consequences, can’t say I’ve made an actual good faith effort. I’ve left this choice: die on your land or die on mine. Sure, I could say it’s not my problem. But if they decide maybe instead of dying on either side they try to kill me instead that’s a problem. One that could have been prevented. 2023-11-10T05:09:27Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsw8m65sdn2nu03c602cj0992t2nkg75t2s80j9yhnkwu6recsdrtgzyz5mj5jej2jgd2skk0qa87wnvp9u5z8nc9dhzttswyde4mxcc0wygphxtnq In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqs8343e3qjlvdmrmh354qedzcw2l5m6vyklhzpv7ghpae7ar6n9eqcp0x5ys'>nevent1q…x5ys</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>Thank you so much, isn’t it?? I’ve had it for several years. It’s my only deck, and I’m really connected with it. My view: I believe in serendipity and that the direction your internal processing takes when you interpret meaning is always going to be a productive exercise. 2023-10-27T19:56:02Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsd68df3rwtrt8tryvaaanlz5q0ueufamcx5yf5svu4zt4fasdzemszyz5mj5jej2jgd2skk0qa87wnvp9u5z8nc9dhzttswyde4mxcc0wyglwz7es Spanish style chicken and radicchio salad 🧚🏼‍♀️✨ <img src="https://image.nostr.build/10213b9ee4ed6f9a17909bf976a396bc955ab67fe085e55df3d025393bbd7fa1.jpg"> 2023-10-25T00:58:50Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsyzwsf3zzsq2dzsyr9ex46jk9lh3wj7u4gcpjltydateqfvxej4jqzyz5mj5jej2jgd2skk0qa87wnvp9u5z8nc9dhzttswyde4mxcc0wygjeaz3d Me: Not me about to cry because my baby is starting FIFTH grade?! Look how big you are. I remember taking your kindergarten picture. I remember taking you home from the hospital…<br/><br/>*eyes get teary* 🥹<br/><br/>Her: Ma’am this is a Wendy’s <br/><br/>🤦‍♀️😝 <img src="https://cdn.nostr.build/i/1052e718c8d25874b7fcdd62e8c19a755f3e1b5d97974a3fb765939c2960b2d8.jpg"> 2023-08-29T15:25:14Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsdc57uhnsc3pn6hn7euljxpnh5knx690aegvrs6m48vvp0r0e9e5gzyz5mj5jej2jgd2skk0qa87wnvp9u5z8nc9dhzttswyde4mxcc0wygu28ln7 $1800 from Balenciaga. <br/>At least they know they’re trash?<br/>Surprisingly self aware. 🙃<br/><br/>This might be the most fiat thing I’ve ever seen. <img src="https://cdn.nostr.build/i/90227b782af6f10c1ac769432b4d860abb876188f4d3e27587f5742f86ac7658.png"> 2023-07-28T23:32:55Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsxqdzz3g77zp0y9tjfjdnqzq7lutfwc2r6dyfjcttk5zegdprpefqzyz5mj5jej2jgd2skk0qa87wnvp9u5z8nc9dhzttswyde4mxcc0wygugeeh4 In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqsvdr8fjlw770erlkwa8njcnh70m74zl865jqcmqeu8am8ruyz9snggywmru'>nevent1q…wmru</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>ITS STILL JULY LIVE IN THE NOW 🫣😂 2023-07-14T18:21:10Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsvwswzja5qzxterkf6hz7g7hyv7cgs87aft3w4wczc4zfl0qypg9qzyz5mj5jej2jgd2skk0qa87wnvp9u5z8nc9dhzttswyde4mxcc0wygqp4jxl In reply to <a href='/nevent1qqszfu4hgydk4hxpsrk4892xsrvkefs7m24eaksu53a8rmscv5r942sf9fhct'>nevent1q…fhct</a><br/>_________________________<br/><br/>GASP <br/><br/>SHIRT: WHERE FROM 2023-06-15T18:18:56Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsgw5apfe0h4246syrp3hgm0vzxqtr9gzz6qdfcw86yew33lhhyujqzyz5mj5jej2jgd2skk0qa87wnvp9u5z8nc9dhzttswyde4mxcc0wygy0m3d6 Blessings on blessings on blessings 🙏 <img src="https://nostr.build/i/c65bb747cb244316397fdddc217810807f60fb1b6f50601121d0a7045770d770.jpg"> 2023-05-28T21:42:04Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqs2n579p80g4xw8s2zw9uw39sjwvggy8xselk3yss2mc5kyx46fp5czyz5mj5jej2jgd2skk0qa87wnvp9u5z8nc9dhzttswyde4mxcc0wygm74wn5 It’s time: Trading up 💅🏼 <img src="https://nostr.build/i/c4837744f6f8d07369b1ca5ec4d198cc6831155c7949ee3c48096297837b3c94.jpg"> 2023-05-23T22:09:43Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsqrlf34zx50cz538mvmyhenaktw6h2vx2c68sx97wenf74csj52vczyz5mj5jej2jgd2skk0qa87wnvp9u5z8nc9dhzttswyde4mxcc0wygxeknhx ☀️ <img src="https://alanajoy.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/03/50ADF64E-E209-49E9-88AB-649097745B10.png"> 2023-03-08T06:39:48Z https://nostr.now/nevent1qqsz06w4383ln940ha4a9kql62xsch7852776et8ckjsdz3m0lq2jmgzyz5mj5jej2jgd2skk0qa87wnvp9u5z8nc9dhzttswyde4mxcc0wygdamwjd Badges are supposed to be a fun silly thing. If you get butt hurt because the site was being glitchy and it took a while to get awarded, you’re taking it too seriously.<br/><br/>Please rediscover your chill. 🤙 2023-03-06T19:31:02Z