Kerr Avonsen (she/her) on Nostr: There are two opposite unhelpful reactions to situations like this: 1) To get ...

There are two opposite unhelpful reactions to situations like this:
1) To get outraged at those who don't choose to shun the dickhead.
2) To argue that the dickhead is not a dickhead in order to justify not shunning them.

So thank you for being "happy for people to make their own judgement".