Me: I do not need the mansplaining mansplained. No idea why you thought that might be welcome.
Mansplainer: Buh buh buh why are you so rude to meeeee
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Me: Replying to someone is demanding their attention.
Mansplainer: Well actually people have different mental models of social media.
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Starting to see the pattern: mansplainers don't understand consent, but feel VERY ENTITLED to push their uninteresting thoughts into other people's mentions.
Prof. Emily M. Bender(she/her)
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