tetris nymph :tetris: on Nostr: two days in a row of getting misgendered by strangers. im not sure when my last trip ...

two days in a row of getting misgendered by strangers. im not sure when my last trip somewhere *without* misgendering was.

genuinely, i do not understand why im getting misgendered in public. look at my profile pic. i dont care if im "passing" or not, fuck that shit, but i am *very clearly not a man.* whether they clock me or not, im obviously not presenting masc, so they shouldnt fucking get it wrong. he/him is literally the *only* pronoun i will ever be upset about.

honestly, just stop using gendered honorifics entirely. the best thing the cis could do for me would be to stop gendering anyone ever.