ah, here's another way that this is fucked: i wanted to install hinge on my iphone but my icloud location is locked to romania. if i change it (by changing my bank card associated with the account!), i will lose all purchases / subscriptions that i bought with the old card :/ and hinge isn't available in romania.
so ummm i'm stuck with feeld! (and bumble, but it tends to be less fun&political&queer)
in short, i empathize with you :))