Seems like this is the other side of the problem. For every anon with his shit together but no idea where to find a woman who doesn't have a body count (and a body) larger than Carlos Hathcock's, there's a father out of the city who's trying to figure out how to let his daughter meet a guy that other than the pothead working at the gas station without sending her off to become an excel spreadsheet lady on ten different kinds of antidepressant.
Part of the problem is that there aren't any safe community events where both young men and young women regularly show up. Even the churches are split now, you've got fire and brimstone and 50 men plus a few grandmothers, or you've got pride flag church with eight wine aunts and one or two younger women who were raised Christian and just went with whatever's closest when they moved out.