No one is saying we should "encourage users not to be on the same handful of relays". I at least think the ratio of relays/users will *decrease* because your point about performance is directionally correct. The outbox model still needs to work though, because *if* someone is on a personal relay, they should still be discoverable with little to no penalty.
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