I had an ex like this but opposite and I didn't cry like a bitch. I remember us fighting and looking at her saying "why TF are you with me? You clearly don't like who I am. I'm the same person I was when you met me. You need someone you actually like not someone who you think you can change into that person. I ain't changing."
I came home about a week later and all of her stuff was gone. My buddy asked how I was feeling? "Relieved"