Well, the oath is really just the terms of service: It tells you what is expected of you just to be part of the community. And all that really is, is to be understanding and not cancel or go after others in DoA just because you don’t agree with what they’re doing. Everyone else has made this oath, which means that by making that agreement and joining your project would have the same protections.
Other than that, it comes down to accepting that we do have limits, and that those limits are based on me and my ambitions for making the world a better place.
So it wasn’t really meant to tell you what to do, only tell you what you can’t do. Really, being in DoA doesn’t require you to do anything. It’s all optional, and based on what you want to do. It is a safe zone for parasocial relationships and communities to develop. The structure of those communities is up to those communities.
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npub1cy…urcga
2026-10-29 13:14:42 UTC
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