Owlor 🦋 on Nostr: one thing that gets me about how a lot of places approach kink is your're not allowed ...

one thing that gets me about how a lot of places approach kink is your're not allowed to have an actually informed take, but you are allowed to just sort of say whatever if it comes from an outsider perspective, the end result being that a whole bunch of people are just sort of sitting around speculating what those people over there are like, while a sniper is positioned on the roof in case anyone actually try to come in with a perspective based on experience.