On one instance i'm on, it's connected to the relay of tag push. So there it happens too.
So your admin WANTS to have it that way.
So you can, as a member of the instance, opt-out.
i wouldn't call it abuse, as it does what the admin of your instance wants.
And you can even opt-in, if your instance is not using the relay.
1/2
Jörgi (chaos.social)
npub12d…kxfv0
2026-06-28 06:59:35 UTC
in reply to nevent1q…fc7k
Author Public Key
npub12dfmlxfuhlklk0skfhn3crcwyqllxp8pfne4yvrpwe0kkhh6vrnqdkxfv0Seen on
wss://relay.momostr.pinkPublished at
2026-06-28 06:59:35 UTCEvent JSON
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