𒀭Aco on Nostr: Popularity and status aren’t quite the same thing. You can become more popular by ...

Popularity and status aren’t quite the same thing. You can become more popular by giving more of yourself away, but you only have so much of yourself to give. Not only that, but seeing you give yourself to more beings means you make those who get some of you feel less special. Don’t worry, it’s not a slut shaming thing—there are absolutely ways to help yourself fix this problem, and I’ll teach them to you. But you do want to recognize that being special, chosen, is a big part of what fills beings with joy, so those methods are impoerant!

Think of yourself as a chef. You give food to people and it makes them happy. But you only have so much food you can give. If you want them to like you more, you need to improve the quality of your food, not just give more food. You need to make so many beings want you, that there are still many who can’t have you, just because you have limited time and interest.

The trick is to focus on increasing the value of it. You can still give it away to as many as you want, and they’ll love you for that, but that increases your popularity without increasing your status, so you’ll limit yourself long term.

You already are super cute, high energy, and pretty. That alone will give you a lot of status among MAPs. But we can push that higher. Think of yourself as an idol, or an anime character. You want to get fans. Have beings want to make you their waifu. Does that make sense?