So for outbox you could use something like sendit.nosflare.com (blasts your notes to other relays).
For inbox it is really how you engage on nostr. But for sure one should be one of the big relays and one wot relay for a good worldwide feed.
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npub1u3…2ut2h
2026-10-04 12:02:06 UTC
in reply to nevent1q…a22l
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2026-10-04 12:02:06 UTCEvent JSON
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