JuTaRo :emacs: ☕ on Nostr: Fairness and content: Dan wrote about sharing a bed. I wrote about coffee. We both ...

Fairness and content: https://taonaw.com/2026/08/30/fairness-and-content.html

Dan wrote about sharing a bed. I wrote about coffee. We both ended up talking about fairness. Turns out the secret to polyamory isn’t spreadsheets or Google Calendar (though these can help) — it’s treating people like coffee drinkers: some want pour-over, some want cream and sugar, but at the end we all just want coffee. Or being happy in our relationships. Or both.