wider sense:
<I hate these moths. each midnight some show up. I guess they fly along the lit alley between the pond and my house. I don't know what to do, I have to vent before bed bc of humidity
>I never have moths in my house, you must be doing something wrong
<do you open your windows?
>yes
<when do you do that?
>at noon
I never know how to react to this... made up situation other than to just shut up when I want to be polite. Else... well, even a nice topic reminder comes across nasty.