because all you fucking get in your shitty fucking system:
MAGA who wants to kill trans people
dems, who fucking suck, but there are allies there
if you go "BoTh SiDeS tHe SaMe" you're a fucking lying moron
and via nonparticipation or 3rd party, you only help MAGA win
the only choice you have to particpate in the dems in shape them in your image
or whine on social media, while your rights are destroyed
your choice