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2026-09-29 08:21:26 UTC

The Dread Slender Gnome on Nostr: "People don't see me the way I see myself!!! It hurts so much!!" Dude. NOBODY is seen ...

"People don't see me the way I see myself!!! It hurts so much!!"

Dude.

NOBODY is seen by other people the way they see themselves. Get the hell over yourself.
Anybody who hangs their mental stability on the perception of others is going to end up a train wreck sooner or later.

Also, this is a great example of the "dysphoria" getting worse, as she's realising she's chasing something far more elusive than she thought before getting surgery.
Oh and the insistence that she's "not female". Sheesh. This is a masterclass in setting oneself up for failure by chasing delusions.
Woman is upset that even after top surgery all people see is a woman.

Maybe it’s all the crying. I don’t think men sit in front of a camera and do that.