Sigh. Don't worry. From me there is no judgment anymore of people who use commercial software or malware... only sympathy...
Commercial software is of course predatory and very powerful, and it is not your fault that it is carefully-designed and highly effective at holding you and your family hostage in its hands.
If I want to liberate people, I need to care enough to make resources to help ease their transition to free software and make that decision's personal and political implications more intelligible to people, especially the people who feel the least "tech savvy" and so are the most vulnerable to the tech lords and their modern online fiefdoms.
To judge people for using facebook would be like judging a homeless person for exhibiting suboptimal personal hygiene. It is a fault of the laws and customs that create the possibility for that experience, not of the individual who is led into that experience and allowed by such a status quo to endure it without public outcry.