Well, if you ever want to -- I can recommend some good ones. That take insurance, too. Speech pathologists trained in gender affirming voice.
The majority of voice training seems to be learning what all the different terms mean, and how to hear the difference in others and then in yourself. It's so hard to describe because unless you're a trained singer or actor, the odds are you've never encountered the terms or context!
And yeah, dysphoria is weird like that. I've lost count of the number of girls I've met who are dysphoric about things only they noticed.