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Kip Ashlynn on Nostr: My last LTR within the first three months of dating I was over at his house and ...

My last LTR within the first three months of dating I was over at his house and noticed the toilet was running so I fixed it without any comment.

It turned out he had been letting it run as a test for one of his employees. He wanted to see how long it would take them to notice and fix it. He was shocked when the employee didn't know what he was talking about. He asked me if I had fixed it and I said well yea sure it's a quick and easy fix no biggie.

Apparently that's when he knew he loved me 😅
are typical men

more attracted or less attracted

if they have a 3rd date fireside on her patio and she mentions that she built the outdoor garden lighting?

she asked me "did i scare him away"

i said no... i'm pretty sure having a handywoman would be a bonus, but...

are men scared off by women who install their own patio lighting?

or maybe they are scared off by the fact that she has a patio in the first place. idk.

is dating a woman who owns a house demoralizing for men who are below the average age of home ownership?

she was literally considering selling the house and renting. i said that was a bad idea.

but maybe a woman in an apartment is more palatable for dating for a man who is in an apartment?

NDA--not dating advice. sell your house and rent.