is a mam calling me a bitch automatically a threat? No. But it is an insult.
I was trying to illustrate the problem with this narrow view.
I kind of get what you're saying...but ultimately the thing is for all of us to be LESS tolerant od douchebags, for parents to raise better kids, for laws and social norms to be less accepting of douchebaggery
Not for us all to be 'oh well water off a duck' s back'
Because not everyone can do that
And while it might roll off us
What about the next person? It could be their laat straw.
Teach people not to insult.
Don't teach people to be punching bags.