I vote for the straight woman over the straight man, and the gay man over both.
Simping is a bigger decision-making liability than gender-affinity, neuroticism and short social-horizons combined. And I have been repeatedly surprised by how many older men simp shamelessly in private.
To a smaller and less reliable extent, this applies to "race" as well. The White will never say "no" to bad policy for fear of racism accusations, the brown just might. This applies to Conservatives, they're just more false-front about it.
