WanderingHuman 🇨🇦 on Nostr: It is very complex. I have seen a lot as a family lawyer, and there is no simple ...

It is very complex. I have seen a lot as a family lawyer, and there is no simple answer. I think a lot of people get pressured into marriage by family, and society (just look at all the magazines, and the expectation that an engagement ring should be, what, 1x or 2x months' salary!) Or they fear being alone, being an "old cat lady". I remember the sadness of being alone for a long time. But I also remember all the assholes.